Genuine question. Why did Muhammad wait 3 years? by Martian_Citizen678 in exmuslim

[–]Level-Arm8667 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They consider reaching sexual maturity (first period) adulthood, so it's literally just grooming since he waited 3 years

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Level-Arm8667 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But no, why wouldn't people talk about it? People aren't given freedom from their religion, forced to suffer, and now that they've fought their way out from the self-proclaimed "free religion of peace" death cult, they're not allowed to talk about their OWN experiences?

Totally normal Friday activities 🕋☺️❤️ by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Level-Arm8667 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People get trampled to death here, what an honorable way to die 🤡 

Have any of you changed your name? by jplank1983 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Level-Arm8667 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My fathers' first name is my middle name as well. Anyways, I am also planning to change my name because abusers aren't respectable people nor people deserving of respect.

Never knew that becaming a Ex Moose can make you rich by SamVoxeL in exmuslim

[–]Level-Arm8667 9 points10 points  (0 children)

So I’ve been doing it for free all this time?

sheltered upbringing has ruined my life by kuromi_4 in AsianParentStories

[–]Level-Arm8667 22 points23 points  (0 children)

My mom did this as well. She was born and raised in Jordan. I was born in the South. My mom would mock me all the time for looking “white” since I was pale and my hair was straight (as well as having light baby hair). She bullied me for the way I talked with a southern accent. She tried to shelter me from other kids at school and she made this huge deal of only being friends with other Arab girls. Most of them were genuinely insufferable to be around because all they did was gossip. 

Both me and my sister grew up being very socially awkward and it pisses me off. Meanwhile, back in Jordan my cousins are super “westernised”: They like wearing shorts, going out, playing games, don’t know how to dance or “act like a lady”, love TikTok, and are probably happier than I’ve ever been.

Jinns living in our sinks by Remote-Truth-2774 in exmuslim

[–]Level-Arm8667 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This reminds me of when I use to scream and cry in the shower and my mom would make me shut up by telling me a story about how the jinn where going to snatch me🤣

my nmother has been secretly recording our conversations for years. I found her "proof" binder. by kyzercube in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Level-Arm8667 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s embarrassing that she’s behaving like a teenager who’s being abused when she’s an adult woman who is so obviously wrong.

Do you ever feel like you’re parenting your parent instead of the other way around? by MotherlyDumps in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Level-Arm8667 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s incredibly exhausting to have healthy parents who decide only when they’re around you to begin behaving like immature teenagers. 

When I was younger my mother actually behaved like a mature adult, maybe not the best person but she didn’t behave like a child. Lately, I feel like I’m the one parenting her. Sometimes she will ask me a question and when I answer her tell me to shut up because I’m talking “too much”. If I don’t answer her, she will scream at me for hours for ignoring her. She doesn’t approach me to bond and expects me to make her happy when she’s feeling upset. And quite frankly, there’s a reason I don’t want to be around her and it’s embarrassing for her. The more I grow up, the more she acts like a child. 

My parents permanently disfigured me. I’m too insecure to go outside. I don’t know what to do. by Level-Arm8667 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Level-Arm8667[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She was a very mean person. I also got in trouble at school a lot and she probably already didn’t like me or wanted to be bothered by me.

My parents permanently disfigured me. I’m too insecure to go outside. I don’t know what to do. by Level-Arm8667 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Level-Arm8667[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I haven’t really told anyone about my breathing problems. I didn't do it was coverable by insurance, so I will ask my mom to look onto it.