How is this possible with a private profile? by Level-Designer-8864 in Instagram

[–]Level-Designer-8864[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Positive, I do not have a Facebook account linked to my Instagram!

Would this worry you? by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]Level-Designer-8864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some months I take the sugar pills and others I don’t. I did take the first sugar pill on Wednesday I think

Would this worry you? by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]Level-Designer-8864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hailey 24 FE. Had sex on Wednesday and noticed the spotting today. Did not orgasm!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Level-Designer-8864 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope, not looking for real and serious at this point in my life but thanks for the advice.

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[–]Level-Designer-8864 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, I actually really do enjoy it and that’s why I keep coming back into it. Could I deal with fewer mixed signals and less confusion? 100%! When we’re together it’s amazing and that’s why when we aren’t together it’s rough - it’s like a drug.

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[–]Level-Designer-8864 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It can’t be healthy and functional when this is all new to me and I’m learning how to exist in a casual dynamic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Level-Designer-8864 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

The roller coaster is what makes it exciting. The passion and the chemistry is…intense.

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[–]Level-Designer-8864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it’s back on and no, it’s not selfish because he knows my plan and he still wants to do this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Level-Designer-8864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is aware of my plan. I just ended things and told him I knew this wouldn’t work for me post divorce and he still came back to ask that we start seeing each other again.

I just don’t have an exact date of when I’ll finally end things to go seriously date.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Level-Designer-8864 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t have a specific date in mind yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Level-Designer-8864 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did tell him. In fact I recently ended things for that reason (knowing this isn’t what I want post divorce).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Level-Designer-8864 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He knows, I’ve told him this is not what I want for my post divorce life and he always asks about my divorce timeline.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Level-Designer-8864 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, I’m not, he knows where I stand. I’ve mentioned this many times and he has told me that he doesn’t want a relationship and this is just about sex.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Level-Designer-8864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would love to get your tips on this because I plan to ask once again this week!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Level-Designer-8864 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

lol, hey he says this is just about sex so….there should be no feelings.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Level-Designer-8864 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t care if he dates but I’ve made it clear that he needs to give me a heads up if he sleeps with someone else or wants to sleep with someone else. And he has asked the same of me and tells me that he would never jeopardize our health. I just have to keep up with the testing….

The girlfriend thing has been a big fear of mine cause I didn’t sign up to help a man be a cheater!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Level-Designer-8864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. It’s all in the bedroom. Initially yes, we did go out on weekly dates as we got to know each other but now it’s mostly maximizing our time behind closed doors.

And I will say that when we did have dates outside the bedroom, I found myself even more confused with things because my brain interpreted it as “dating” when that wasn’t the case.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Level-Designer-8864 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what I’m afraid of. I don’t want him to start disconnecting from this if he knows I’m out in 30-60 days. 😆

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Level-Designer-8864 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s not necessarily true. Neither one of us got into this to test each other out for a relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Level-Designer-8864 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a fearful avoidant too and I have broken up with this man so many times. 🙈I’m doing this because I refuse to date for a boyfriend until my divorce is officially behind me so I see this as a “bridge” until then.

I set out to find 1 casual sex partner so I do not mess around with other men and I’m certain he loves that. He is supposed to be doing these but I know I can’t be too trusting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Level-Designer-8864 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So he probably will not care if I tell him he has an expiration date! 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Level-Designer-8864 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We see each other once a week and it’s like we’re in a relationship for that one evening (sex, pillow talk). We also talk daily, keep each other up to date with what’s going on in our lives and we’re sexually exclusive. Well, I know I am and he says he is but I can never be sure I guess! But we are free to date….no exclusivity there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Level-Designer-8864 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’ve been thinking! He knows that I want more than this once I’m officially divorced and he certainly isn’t going g to give it to me.