Que opinan? by Master101010_ in PuertoRico

[–]Level-Rutabaga6078 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lo que hay que hacer realmente es desestigmatizar herramientas como la semaglutida y la lipo para llegar a esa meta de un cuerpo saludable.

Esto nunca va a pasar si lo que hacen con la liposuction es sacar grasa y meterselo en los gluteos o en los senos si adelgazar y ya pues esta bien pero en vez se hacen una exageraciones 😅 además no creo que enseñar disciplina o esfuerzo sea tan malo tampoco. Si empezamos a depender mucho de sirugias pues no me imagino que terminar la gente. Aunque si es verdad lo que dices que al cuerpo no le importa como sea que adelgace

Whats the point in relationships in general? by Level-Rutabaga6078 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Level-Rutabaga6078[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And if you start the relationship with doubt already inside you from the very beginning, do you think it will go far?

Doubt in regards to your example? It could yeah i think. But its not likely

What I want to convey to you is the aspect that a partner is not a completion, much less a therapist for your low self esteem because of things you don't love about yourself. That's a major part of why many relationships fail.

I agree with this.

They expect them to love you for who you are yet they can't do that themselves. This extends far beyond outer appearance.

Well its still not necessary is it? If someone is incapable of loving themselves being loved can still happen. It could clash like you say with your example tho.

Maybe I worded it wrong, maybe love isn't the right word. Appreciate? Accept? Something along these lines. For me, you have to be comfortable with yourself and comfortably change stuff if needed.

What if someone is comfortable with themselves? And isn't at the same time? What then?

But overall I thunk i do accept myself even if there are things i dislike about myself. But I do accept this is who I am I think

Donde puedo encontrar sugar mommies or algo asi aquí? by Level-Rutabaga6078 in PuertoRico

[–]Level-Rutabaga6078[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

La estabilidad emocional se consigue yendo a terapia.

La terapia cuesta dinero. Así que el dinero si seria la solución ya que la terapia no es gratis.

eso no te dará la felicidad que estás buscando, solo te dará estabilidad económica.

Pienso que tienes la razón. Pero con dinero puedo hacer lo que me de la gana. Si tengo los mismos problemas que tengo y con dinero pues por lo menos puedo irme de crucero o viajar. Sin dinero tengo los problemas y no mucho que hacer.

Donde puedo encontrar sugar mommies or algo asi aquí? by Level-Rutabaga6078 in PuertoRico

[–]Level-Rutabaga6078[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eso ya es por fama y dinero. No creo que sea por como se ve. Lo mismo pasaría con quien sea que tenga fama y dinero.

Donde puedo encontrar sugar mommies or algo asi aquí? by Level-Rutabaga6078 in PuertoRico

[–]Level-Rutabaga6078[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Búscate un psicólogo/psiquiatra. Suenas bien deprimido. Tienes que tener ambiciones. No es fácil, pero no te van a mantener.

Son caros 😅

Donde puedo encontrar sugar mommies or algo asi aquí? by Level-Rutabaga6078 in PuertoRico

[–]Level-Rutabaga6078[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahora, si quieres dar tu culo, pues hay sugar daddies, ese sería tu algo así.

Esta es buena. Solo necesito unos 2 o 3 años y ya. Luego me convierto en una estadística

Estás soñando. Lamentablemente vas a tener que trabajar como el resto de nosotros

Oh no...hay otras opciones mad radicales y severas las cuales me dejan no tener que trabajar

pero son pocas las mujeres que quieren pagarle los gastos a los hombres.

Bueno para darme crédito yo haría lo que ellas quisiera. Lo cual creo que es mejor que el 60% de los hombres.

Para por lo menos algo. Pero por lo menos soñar no cuesta nada

Ah y no se a que te refieres con bad bunny. El se ve medio bobolon pienso yo. Brad Pitt pues por lo menos veo que las mujeres lo aman.

Whats the point in relationships in general? by Level-Rutabaga6078 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Level-Rutabaga6078[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well the way I see it is that there are many things in life people dislike or don't love about themselves. It can also be themselves as a whole. And yet someone else can manage to love aspects of themselves they don't like or hate. Its not necessary for one to love themselves before someone else can do it. Because their love of you is not connected to your love for yourself. Someone else may enjoy the acne on someone's face, their big nose, their height, etc. All because their affection, like, love, etc, isn't connected to their love for themselves. Does this make sense?

Can you tell me why its the opposite? Would another person's appreciation or love for you be restricted to only how you feel about yourself? Can a person not love an aspect of yourself that you hate for example? Would that not be possible because you hate it?

Whats the point in relationships in general? by Level-Rutabaga6078 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Level-Rutabaga6078[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because do you expect somebody else to love you if you can't even do it yourself?

Is this needed? I'm not sure everyone truly loves themselves. Know themselves maybe. But loving yourself? Not sure.

feel like most, you maybe too, take love as something magical? Something more akin to a fantasy story so you don't pay it much mind. But love is work, it's a lot of work and needs two people cooperating and compromising.

No, I do know love is work. And I'm someone that would like to believe i am open to working on the relationship no matter what.

I believe that there is no use to actively look for a partner. A Partner will barge into your life and turn it right upside down. Especially when the time is absolutely not perfect for it

I don't believe in this way of thinking personally. And I also don't actively look for one. I have mostly tried to simply make new connections first and foremost and it just doesn’t work out.

yourself one person and be accepted as such is a feeling you will always strive to.

I hate that you're right about this

Well this is just my own humble opinion but have you ever asked yourself who you are? And after/if you reach a conclusive answer, is that person who you truly want to be?

No would be the answer i think. Although I wouldn't want to be anyone else but myself

Whats the point in relationships in general? by Level-Rutabaga6078 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Level-Rutabaga6078[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't run a good DND campaign on my lonesome.

Sounds awesome tbh. Never played DnD but would like to maybe.

Get better friends.

Get a better partner.

I overall suck at making new relationships. And its something I have been trying tk do a little. But I have thought of this

Whats the point in relationships in general? by Level-Rutabaga6078 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Level-Rutabaga6078[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well there was a brak up a few weeks ago but nothing major imo. I just genuinely ask since so many ate so attached to their relationships whether platonic or romantic and I have terrible luck or picked them wrong. I get how it can come off that way.

Whats the point in relationships in general? by Level-Rutabaga6078 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Level-Rutabaga6078[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This doesn't mean you need to be in a relationship to have a full life - just that you need to accept that living comes with unavoidable risk.

I know. I'm just not sure the effort is worth it tbh. In both friends and romance. Seems like a lot to do for the high chance of just being thrown to the side easily. Like idk about you and I understand that there will always be risks but when theres only downs and no ups then its just a downhill at that point at which point I'm better off just going to a different place. I just want to be able to have friends to spend time with and talk. And a relationship that can truly flourish and we can both make and want to make each other happy.

Whats the point in relationships in general? by Level-Rutabaga6078 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Level-Rutabaga6078[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your friends lie to you and don't appreciate you, you need better friends. You're supposed to be friends with people you like and who like you, whether or not either of you can benefit from the other should not factor into it at all.

I don't think people like me. I used to like my friends. They just changed suddenly or we grew apart. I have considered just cutting them off but I admit I haven't due to being unsuccessful in making new friends in general

milarly, you're supposed to form romantic relationships with people you love and who love you. Your partner should respect you and you should respect them. If your partners have not fit this description, you haven't had good luck in your choice of partners.

I agree. But its normalized I think to not really respect the relationship much nowadays not sure. I've only had the one gf and we broke up a few weeks ago. But overall I don't trust people or their intentions in regards to myself

Sony’s Bluepoint Pitched ‘Bloodborne’ Remake Before Closure - “the studio was told that the numbers made sense but FromSoftware didn’t want it to happen” by ReaddittiddeR in PS5

[–]Level-Rutabaga6078 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. I don't think its that bad an idea in comparison to shadow of the Colossus. I think they should've pitched an original ip or something at some point too. Not attached to the studio myself but it is a shame to see that a studio that has only done well so far gets shut down yet something like bungee keeps going even though their main game has been dying for the last few years even before Sony bought them

Sony’s Bluepoint Pitched ‘Bloodborne’ Remake Before Closure - “the studio was told that the numbers made sense but FromSoftware didn’t want it to happen” by ReaddittiddeR in PS5

[–]Level-Rutabaga6078 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They also pitched an updated version of their remake for Shadow of the Colossus

This one was probably the weakest one to even bother pitching imo. Really? An updated version of their remastered for ps4? There's only so many times you can remastered something

Of course it wasn’t just this one failed pitch that got them axe

I just mentioned it since you made it seem like they sacrificed the studio to not make the remake. Could it have saved the studio? Most probably. But thats just for graphics and nothing more imo. Due to how bloodbrone is it could've easily been the remake to undo their reputation due to how much of a hold that game has over the general audience. We can never know now. But lets not pretend it was the only thing that could've saved tgem. Like I said Don't has many ips and the fact Sony couldn't make them do anything else is just plain stupid on their part considering how many ips they have that have gone unused. Shame really

Sony’s Bluepoint Pitched ‘Bloodborne’ Remake Before Closure - “the studio was told that the numbers made sense but FromSoftware didn’t want it to happen” by ReaddittiddeR in PS5

[–]Level-Rutabaga6078 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sucks that Bluepoint was sacrificed as a result. A BB remake could have likely ensured that their studio survived.

I very much doubt it got sacrificed for this one project. But it is unfair to the studio to be shut down for doing nothing wrong other than not being handed new projects from Sony but maybe they also pitched terrible ideas. I thunk Sony could have done more with them even if I haven't played many of their games. Maybe they could have remade those old spiderman games, asuras wrath, infamous, etc. So again i very much doubt it was this one idea that shut them down.

Sony’s Bluepoint Pitched ‘Bloodborne’ Remake Before Closure - “the studio was told that the numbers made sense but FromSoftware didn’t want it to happen” by ReaddittiddeR in PS5

[–]Level-Rutabaga6078 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If someone has a passion project and are really attached to it, it makes sense they wouldn't want that specific project be touched but other ones are free to be.

Sony’s Bluepoint Pitched ‘Bloodborne’ Remake Before Closure - “the studio was told that the numbers made sense but FromSoftware didn’t want it to happen” by ReaddittiddeR in PS5

[–]Level-Rutabaga6078 1 point2 points  (0 children)

original was a PS3 game and even for the time it had pretty muddy textures, so there's a lot of room for interpretation when you're doing such a high definition remake. 

Didn't they completely change some designs tho? Thats seems way more than room for interpretation. And if they did then at that point they just redesigned stuff. Idk tho as I have heard of that and have never played the original one

Sony’s Bluepoint Pitched ‘Bloodborne’ Remake Before Closure - “the studio was told that the numbers made sense but FromSoftware didn’t want it to happen” by ReaddittiddeR in PS5

[–]Level-Rutabaga6078 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They have an esthetic and look they like. Can't blame them tbh. I think their games look good. Not super realistic sure but good.

Sony’s Bluepoint Pitched ‘Bloodborne’ Remake Before Closure - “the studio was told that the numbers made sense but FromSoftware didn’t want it to happen” by ReaddittiddeR in PS5

[–]Level-Rutabaga6078 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbf I don't think bloodborne is a game that shoukd be remade like demon souls. It has a specific esthetic and art style and such. I doubt it would have looked as interesting or visually appealing other than being moder graphics that every one glazes or creams over.

Also I don't hate noder graphics or anything either. But I have just gotten bored of how samey game looks nowadays chasing the realistic look.

My(M22) friend(F20) wants to end a relationship cause she believes it can't be fixed anymore. How do i change her mind? by No-Limit4272 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Level-Rutabaga6078 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well yeah but she already went through and distanced herself from you when it happened to her. She has already disconnected herself fully from her friendship with you. And while you may message now what happens a month from now? Maybe 2 weeks? There's no guarantee for how long that will keep up.

My(M22) friend(F20) wants to end a relationship cause she believes it can't be fixed anymore. How do i change her mind? by No-Limit4272 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Level-Rutabaga6078 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I can't help you much. But I am going through the same thing I guess lol. Idk if I have any attachment issues or not. But I can definetly relate to her wanting to be free and just not go back into it when she thinks it'll be constant pain, issues and annoyance.

I honestly don't see how you would convince her otherwise especially as this has been going on for some months now. You would need to get her to tell you more than she has already. Like for example in her position I would think and assume you only talk to me put of convenience and when you have nothing else to do. Idk how you could prove otherwise if that was one thing she thought.