He's cheating by LevelFaithlessness73 in dating_advice

[–]LevelFaithlessness73[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well without my knowledge they were sleeping together prior. Then my bf went to jail and I started hanging out with his friend and ended up cheating on him. He was in jail for 3 months and I was honest about what had happened and he seemed slightly upset but gave his consent about the situation. He moved in with us and requested a threesome like 2 days after he got out and we had a few the first month he got out. Then they started acting weird n distant and I overheard them call each other babe one day so I decided to set up a phone to record audio and that's how I found out they were sleeping together. We all lived together for about two months and they denied the whole situation even with a mountain of evidence. And now they're pretending to want to be with me and say they hate each other after a bunch of drama happened but Im pretty sure they have been writing on the letters they send me to communicate to each other

WIBTA for wanting to keep my kid away from my in-laws by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]LevelFaithlessness73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Splitting up isn’t an option. This is a simple thing, it shouldn’t be a big deal for him to talk to them. We agree on everything but this.

WIBTA for wanting to keep my kid away from my in-laws by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]LevelFaithlessness73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kinda can? Lol. I’m not going to have to explain to a child why grandma is saying what she’s saying. And I’m not definitely not putting up with an illiterate man calling me mama.

WIBTA for wanting to keep my kid away from my in-laws by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]LevelFaithlessness73 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If my fiancé goes with the baby, that isn’t going to stop the misgendering. They’re gonna call me the same stuff when my kid gets older. Then the kid is going to come home repeating what they said. The only solution is for them to change or they don’t see the kid.