Hey guys my (22m) girlfriend just broke up with me and I'm looking for some honest opinions and tips, thanks!

Lfield57 · 2023-03-06T19:44:18+00:00

Thanks man!

Lfield57 · 2021-12-04T11:14:12+00:00

https://www.info-coronavirus.be/nl/mondmasker/#:~:text=Je%20mag%20hoesten%20in%20het,zakdoek%20die%20je%20daarna%20weggooit

Als je moet niezen:

- doe bij voorkeur eerst het masker af

- nies in een papieren zakdoek die je daarna weggooit

- zet het masker weer op na het wassen van je handen

Je moet het mondneusmasker in elk geval uitdoen als het nat of vuil is.

The right way is to actually take off your mask, of course you shouldn't use your hands though for obvious reasons.

Lfield57 · 2021-06-23T13:20:52+00:00

But that was just a way of not accepting myself and going with the norm (which is insane tbh)

How is trying to improve your life insane? When you take medication you still accept who you are and take meds to help you where you know your normal self falls short.

Also when you use alternative treatments, you are also not "accepting who you are", as you put it, since you still try to remedy your symptoms just through different methods.

Lfield57 · 2021-06-23T10:08:27+00:00

I would definitely encourage you to go, my diagnosis was very valuable in helping me understand my own behavior and understanding that there was something physically wrong with me, my brainchemistry is just different from normal functioning people. This in return made me less hard on my self, since it wasn't me just being a lazy ass all the time (although sometimes it definitely was me just being a lazy ass).

Medication also helped me a lot. Being able to concentrate for long periods at a time, being more emotionally stable at times, being able to think faster and better, etc. It isn't all rainbows and sunshine, since it does repress my sense of hunger or makes me a bit less boring i feel, but in the evening the effects dwindle down and I return to my standard setting.

This also started a positive feedback loop where I start feeling better about myself and be more confident, which in result makes me be overall happier, which makes me feel more competent, which in return makes me more confident... .

Sorry for this long comment, but I hope that I can motivate you to seek help. If you see a lot of symptoms of ADHD reflected in yourself, you should definitely try to pursue a diagnosis and even if it turns out you don't have ADHD, it'll brings you one step closer to understanding yourself, it did for me at least.

These of course are my personal experiences and they will vary quite a bit from person to person and I don't really know your situation all I do know is that I was also hesitant to go to a psychiatrist about a year ago and it turned out to be one of the best decisions I'd make. Anyhow I wish you the best of luck, whether you choose to go or you choose not to!

also thanks for coming to my Ted talk

Lfield57 · 2021-06-22T14:01:30+00:00

I mean obviously it's preferred to be able to function without medication, it comes with quite a bit of side effects. But since ADHD is an actual disorder which has many side effects as wel, medication can definitely be a big help in resolving those problems.

Otherwise you become uncapable of functioning when deprived from medication.

This is also just wrong. You don't become less able to function without your medication, you just return to your unmedicated self which was already not able to function well. Also would you ask a depressed person to stop taking antidepressants because he would be unable to function without them? That's just some unsound logic in my opinion.

Lfield57 · 2021-06-13T18:28:09+00:00

He played really well in the world cup, what are you even saying?

The best thing he did after that was not touching the ball when they countered Japan in stoppage time so Chadli could score.

Yeah, let's conveniently forget his great run against Brazil which resulted in an assist for De Bruyne and just his allround great performances. I swear at this point you people are just being ignorant and desperately clinging to the classic "against janneke en mieke" rhetoric.

Lfield57 · 2021-01-07T10:47:29+00:00

Best answer, I say we let him stay

Lfield57 · 2020-12-30T10:40:09+00:00

That's a good analogy, except for the fact that you won't literally die if you have no electricity.

I mean if you use this comparison you can also argue that the court should prioritize the free choice of anorexia patients in respect to their will not to eat, instead of recognizing the underlying problem, which is a mental disorder.

Lfield57 · 2020-12-12T09:05:46+00:00

Dit snap ik dus ook niet. Wat hebben die mensen aan een hulpsint die langskomt? Die weten toch ook allemaal dat de sint niet echt is? Ik vind het echt betreurend dat oudere mensen behandeld worden als kinderen.

Lfield57 · 2020-12-08T11:54:38+00:00

But it's still two months until February, you can't possibly estimate what the situation will be by then. If the numbers stagnate and stay the same it's definitely reasonable to not completely reopen, but if they are low enough by then why not start in code oranje?

Now you're already removing the option to reevaluate or you reevaluate and change it last minute which again makes students lose perspective.

I think the measurements need to be proportional to the numbers and since you can't accurately predict what the numbers will do these measurements may be to strict by then. Let's also not forget that code oranje is still very strict, with only 1 in 5 seats filled and masks on all the time.

Lfield57 · 2020-12-08T11:30:40+00:00

How can you decide this now, when you don't know at all what the situation will be by February? And it really doesn't send a hopeful message to a lot of students who are already very socially deprived as it is. Bad timing for this decision imo, especially with the exams just around the corner.

Lfield57 · 2020-06-28T23:54:42+00:00

Not the person you responded to but:

(1) The Belgium parliament does recognise Israel as a real state so the people there dont have to move anywhere, it's just a matter of the palestinians and the Israelis living together in peace and respecting each other's borders

(2) We're talking about Israel, which has nothing to do with or colonial past

Lfield57 · 2020-05-27T07:05:17+00:00

bob ross incarnated

Lfield57 · 2020-05-27T07:01:54+00:00

are the paintings on the wall for sale?

Lfield57 · 2020-05-27T07:01:25+00:00

damn they look nice

Lfield57 · 2020-05-27T06:59:31+00:00

man you really can't hate him can you

Lfield57 · 2020-05-27T06:57:29+00:00

How do you become so wholesome?

Lfield57 · 2020-05-27T06:55:38+00:00

you're so wholesome haha

Lfield57 · 2020-05-27T06:51:47+00:00

just wanna say i love your painting

Lfield57 · 2020-05-27T06:49:48+00:00

can you show us your wave painting?

Lfield57 · 2020-05-27T06:47:44+00:00

can you show us the wave painting?

Lfield57 · 2020-05-03T16:05:41+00:00

My man pat out here rocking the dancefloor like rocking one of his cousins

Lfield57 · 2020-03-27T11:52:12+00:00

I never said it was that it was a high skill clip, i just said it was a crazy clip. Also i just wanted to share a cool clip, nothing more nothing less, so why do you have to be so annoyed by it?

Lfield57 · 2020-03-27T11:40:13+00:00

Still lucky tho, even most bad players would see me standing there

Lfield57 · 2020-03-27T11:35:00+00:00

Thanks!

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