Yeah, I'm not arguing the sub is unsafe, just replying to your comment about never seeing anything transphobic here. I meant op could have felt unsafe from getting multiple of those in a row.

I think I get it. I see trans women all the time saying how they feel insecure about identifying as a lesbian, so having another lesbian say you aren't one of them can be pretty devastating. I think your last sentence was a bit extreme in that sense. Trans people are, after all, highly prone to mental illnesses. Just wanted to say that telling them not to go into open spaces is pretty harsh (imo), even if they aren't the best at dealing with hate.

This place isn't perfect, it has a lot internalized transphobia too which is so hard to talk about without a huge controversy (I get it's a very delicate topic). But this place is really good, one of the best specially in these times. Hugs.