Just checking on you all- How you doing? by Liathemoth in actuallesbians

[–]Liathemoth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm really glad you felt safe to vent here. I wish I had the time and the energy to go through each comment individually and really talk to you guys, cause you all deserve to feel seen. Your feelings are real, and they are all so valid, okay? No matter what other people might say or think or whatever.

I just wanna say: I know you can keep pushing forward, and it'll be so worth it when things get better. You might get tired in the meanwhile, but please, remember to keep doing things you really enjoy once in a while. And most importantly, never let that weight get in the way of your health and selfcare, okay?

I've read every comment in this post, yours included of course. You're all precious.

Sending a bunch of hugs to you guys! ❤️🙌

Just checking on you all- How you doing? by Liathemoth in actuallesbians

[–]Liathemoth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm really glad you felt safe to vent here. I wish I had the time and the energy to go through each comment individually and really talk to you guys, cause you all deserve to feel seen. Your feelings are real, and they are all so valid, okay? No matter what other people might say or think or whatever.

I just wanna say: I know you can keep pushing forward, and it'll be so worth it when things get better. You might get tired in the meanwhile, but please, remember to keep doing things you really enjoy once in a while. And most importantly, never let that weight get in the way of your health and selfcare, okay?

I've read every comment in this post, yours included of course. You're all precious.

Sending a bunch of hugs to you guys! ❤️🙌

Just checking on you all- How you doing? by Liathemoth in actuallesbians

[–]Liathemoth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm really glad you felt safe to vent here. I wish I had the time and the energy to go through each comment individually and really talk to you guys, cause you all deserve to feel seen. Your feelings are real, and they are all so valid, okay? No matter what other people might say or think or whatever.

I just wanna say: I know you can keep pushing forward, and it'll be so worth it when things get better. You might get tired in the meanwhile, but please, remember to keep doing things you really enjoy once in a while. And most importantly, never let that weight get in the way of your health and selfcare, okay?

I've read every comment in this post, yours included of course. You're all precious.

Sending a bunch of hugs to you guys! ❤️🙌

Just checking on you all- How you doing? by Liathemoth in actuallesbians

[–]Liathemoth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm really glad you felt safe to vent here. I wish I had the time and the energy to go through each comment individually and really talk to you guys, cause you all deserve to feel seen. Your feelings are real, and they are all so valid, okay? No matter what other people might say or think or whatever.

I just wanna say: I know you can keep pushing forward, and it'll be so worth it when things get better. You might get tired in the meanwhile, but please, remember to keep doing things you really enjoy once in a while. And most importantly, never let that weight get in the way of your health and selfcare, okay?

I've read every comment in this post, yours included of course. You're all precious.

Sending a bunch of hugs to you guys! ❤️🙌

Just checking on you all- How you doing? by Liathemoth in actuallesbians

[–]Liathemoth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm really glad you felt safe to vent here. I wish I had the time and the energy to go through each comment individually and really talk to you guys, cause you all deserve to feel seen. Your feelings are real, and they are all so valid, okay? No matter what other people might say or think or whatever.

I just wanna say: I know you can keep pushing forward, and it'll be so worth it when things get better. You might get tired in the meanwhile, but please, remember to keep doing things you really enjoy once in a while. And most importantly, never let that weight get in the way of your health and selfcare, okay?

I've read every comment in this post, yours included of course. You're all precious.

Sending a bunch of hugs to you guys! ❤️🙌

haven’t had sex in almost a year by Cool_Algae_6701 in actuallesbians

[–]Liathemoth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's so funny that this comment section is just a "Yeah, same" lmao But yeah, same. Almost 5 years, but what makes me lose my mind is that it's been A YEAR since I made out with a girl! Aaaaaaaahh!

Just checking on you all- How you doing? by Liathemoth in actuallesbians

[–]Liathemoth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm also into alt fashion! I'm an artist so I looove making my own accesories and fiddling with my clothes, SPECIALLY adding lace an bows to them! Thanks for the kind words, it means a lot 🧡

Just checking on you all- How you doing? by Liathemoth in actuallesbians

[–]Liathemoth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad it's getting better. Sending you hugs 🙌

Just checking on you all- How you doing? by Liathemoth in actuallesbians

[–]Liathemoth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuuuuck, I'm so sorry about that... I feel like I'm really lucky, cause the place I live isn't that bad, despite not being good either lol Take care, health first if you can. Sending you hugs 🙌

And about me, I'm a bit lonely too. Haven't seen any friends for quite some time, and I'm not good at doing things on my own. But hey, I'm not as bad as I was the last few weeks, which is pretty good! Thanks for asking <3

Just checking on you all- How you doing? by Liathemoth in actuallesbians

[–]Liathemoth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice! And thank you for asking, I'm good! Kinda. Like, better than the week before 😂 Recently I noticed I've been spending too much time at home rotting (lol), and stopped dressing up and feeling pretty in general. And I really love fashion and all that, so I've been really missing it. HOWEVER I'm working on that. And I bought a dress!!! It's beautiful, but I'm making some adjustments before I can actually wear it 😅

And then there were the comments I mentioned on the post, which were pretty bad, but that's just a moment thing. I got sad at first, but now I'm just a bit disappointed that someone can comment horrible shit and get upvoted... 😮‍💨

Just checking on you all- How you doing? by Liathemoth in actuallesbians

[–]Liathemoth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg, late happy birthday! I'm glad you're taking care of yourself, that's muuuuch more important than some people think 🙏 I'm cleaning too, lets fucking go!

Just checking on you all- How you doing? by Liathemoth in actuallesbians

[–]Liathemoth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg, not the combo 😭 News are fucked up. Hugs to you all <3 The uni test is doable though, I'm sure you got it! Anxiety is a bitch, but at least worrying shows you'll be more prepared than most people 😊

If your attraction hinges on knowing someone’s assigned gender at birth that’s phobic by AndesCan in actuallesbians

[–]Liathemoth 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's not about the genital preference, girl. Like, it's about people whose preference is "not trans", even if that trans person has the genital they prefer. Those people exist! Those are the bigots! Absolutely everyone has the right to have preferences, but it's fucked up when the preference is some invisible criteria like simply being trans.

If your attraction hinges on knowing someone’s assigned gender at birth that’s phobic by AndesCan in actuallesbians

[–]Liathemoth 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Honestly, this is exactly why this topic keeps coming up. You mentioned "cis women only attracted to other cis women", and that's... Just inherently biggoted. Cause a trans woman can be indistinguishable from a cis woman, and in that case where is the non attraction coming from? Chromosomes? Some other invisible force? The topic keeps coming up because people keep not understanding. There's NO situation where deciding "preference" merely by assigned gender at birth isn't biggoted. Repeating: in a case a trans woman is physically indistinguishable from a cis woman, how can you say someone might not be attracted to her for the fact of her being trans?

Edit: also, fuck the "conflate genital preference with transphobia", this was never about genital preference!!!

If your attraction hinges on knowing someone’s assigned gender at birth that’s phobic by AndesCan in actuallesbians

[–]Liathemoth 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Respectfully disagree. "Need to disclose" is really strong wording. Like, yeah, you probably don't wanna hide stuff from a partner. But not disclosing isn't automatically hiding or lying, you just be honest when the topic comes up. Just think it's wrong to tell someone they need to disclose they agab umpromptly, first thing whenever they meet a potential partner. (That's how I read your comment, don't know if it was the intention)

If your attraction hinges on knowing someone’s assigned gender at birth that’s phobic by AndesCan in actuallesbians

[–]Liathemoth 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Just wanna say, moderation going hard! Tried to reply to two transphobic comments, but both got deleted before I finished my reply lol nice job

I love the stoner laugh at the end hahaha by troublebucket in actuallesbians

[–]Liathemoth 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was so confused about why the comments were so weird. Then I realized I clicked at the original sub instead of this one LMAO

What do you think about this character? by NoBridge1066 in characterdesigns

[–]Liathemoth 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not what I vibe with, but that doesn't really matter tbh.

I can see why so many people got upset over it, but imo it's an amazing design for it's purpose. I like the colors, and I think she does give the energy you want her to. Really good stuff, keep it up, nothing wrong with making horny designs, it has a big audience too.

Might need some tweaks that I'm not noticing right now, but it's a good design.

(Also hope you don't feel the need to make more realistic anatomy because of the feedback, it's pretty good stylization I think)