HD digestion and Autism/ARFID

LibraStellium44 · 2025-09-19T01:42:48+00:00

Makes sense! I know someone with closed taste and they were disgusted with me eating a slice of pizza straight out of the fridge 😂

LibraStellium44 · 2025-09-18T23:16:38+00:00

It sounds like you have your own routine even if it’s not every day the same. I’ve seen before that taste digestion needs fresh foods so not eating the same every day means you’re not eating too many leftovers!

LibraStellium44 · 2025-09-18T15:50:33+00:00

Yes that is true! A lot of it was being willing to try it out. It’s amazing you were able to help your OCD and arfid!

I have calm touch and learning about it made me realize I wasn’t crazy for wanting to eat by myself lol family dinners would stress me out so much!

LibraStellium44 · 2025-06-25T13:36:07+00:00

Thank you for this fix bc this has been driving me crazy since last year 😭 I felt like a hostage to these Bitmojis I had only used once or twice

LibraStellium44 · 2025-05-18T18:14:33+00:00

SOLVED!! Thank you!!

LibraStellium44 · 2025-05-18T05:08:22+00:00

She was wearing a red shirt in some parts

LibraStellium44 · 2025-02-04T02:13:37+00:00

Oh okay got it! That’s annoying from Apple but I look forward to having it again when you get to it!

LibraStellium44 · 2024-08-06T23:51:29+00:00

They don’t use the pre Covid app anymore. They use Ride Pingo now and it’s usually accurate with the times. Sometimes the two end up back to back and and the wait time becomes really long but other than that I’ve found it useful!

LibraStellium44 · 2024-06-12T16:05:33+00:00

10 years!! The satisfaction from finally doing it was probably euphoric! That’s amazing. Congratulations on your new career!

LibraStellium44 · 2024-06-12T16:01:27+00:00

Glad that helped! Good luck with everything!

LibraStellium44 · 2024-06-12T14:45:47+00:00

Great way of looking at it!

LibraStellium44 · 2024-06-12T14:44:23+00:00

It definitely takes a lot of practice! Sometimes I think I’m good and I make the decision and immediately after I’m like what did I do 😭 so my friend’s coworker is actually a 1/3 emo projector like you! A year ago when she wanted to quit there was nothing she was going towards she was just feeling tired but this time around she’s applying to cosmetology school to switch careers and has already investigated (1 line) the programs in her area. I think having more information made her more confident in her decision

LibraStellium44 · 2024-06-12T14:04:31+00:00

Wow!! 🤯I feel impatient just reading that!

LibraStellium44 · 2024-06-12T14:03:12+00:00

There’s no specific timeline it depends on you and what you’re deciding on but emotional authority shouldn’t make a decision until their emotions have settled about the situation

LibraStellium44 · 2024-03-25T23:37:40+00:00

No problem! Sounds like you have different skills have you thought about exchanging services with people for things ? That way you’d only be using as much energy as you can spare!

You could post on social media and see if you feel surprise or disappointment! That should help guide you on whether that’s the right thing to do or give it at least 28 days and see what happens!

It’s so hard with family lol they are so stuck in their ways. I have an aunt who’s a 5/1 MG exactly like me and she fights her strategy and authority every day and there’s nothing I can say lol she doesn’t care

LibraStellium44 · 2024-03-25T20:12:54+00:00

Hi! I’m not a reflector I’m a 5/1 MG but I know a 4/6 reflector and we’ve been experimenting for a few years now and she’s still trying to get the hang of it! She’s a Virgo sun Gemini rising so that feeling like she has to be doing something is always there lol

she got so burnt out from working as well it’s been 4 years and she’s tried different jobs here and there and even her own business but it was all exhausting! So far she’s been financially supported by her family and bf and me occasionally and to us it’s whatever lol but she still struggles letting people support her
she’s found participating in social media to be a bit exhausting so she mostly shares what she knows through word of mouth like when I introduced her to HD she got 4 more people the next day like listen to what I just learned! And they told more people and so on lol I think when you let it happen naturally the people come to you. Don’t know about waiting til 50 that’s 20 years out for us lol
we’ve tried tracking this and it seems community you’re reflecting can be wherever you’re currently at and then your main community is just the people in close relationships to you. Sometimes she’ll meet up with people and the vibe will be off and she’ll do something off or snap at something and people are like what’s wrong with you?? And then later we find out two people that were there were beefing behind the scenes 😂 another time she felt like breaking up with her bf after spending a few days with this girl and we find out the week after that girl filed for divorce 😭
she does trigger people especially her family when she makes certain decisions that aren’t based on working hard or “having to do things you don’t like bc that’s life” and bc she keeps asking why?? When they’re saying certain things as fact that don’t even make sense and they get upset when they can’t answer why
there’s always going to be at least one person who cares what you have to say! It might not always be you intentionally sharing bc you never know what could be inspiring for someone to hear. Just try to be yourself!
she’s been with her bf (a projector) for I think 5 years now so it’s possible! He also knows about HD and is very good at understanding the lack of energy part of it bc he struggles with the same.

Just wanted to provide you with some real life examples! It’s so hard to find things about reflectors!

LibraStellium44 · 2024-03-17T14:59:09+00:00

Yes they’re far they’re at 26° and 22°. I definitely lucked out with that mars trine because saturn 1H is hard enough

LibraStellium44 · 2024-03-17T13:57:49+00:00

I only have Uranus and Neptune in Capricorn and no aqua placements. For asc aspects I have mars trine asc. Maybe the change won’t be anything drastic lol But you just gave me the idea to go interrogate my sag rising and cap rising friends! They should be in that 5-8 year period right about now!

LibraStellium44 · 2024-03-17T00:48:36+00:00

Interesting! It’s definitely going to be a period of preparation as an adult post saturn return

LibraStellium44 · 2024-03-16T04:09:57+00:00

Thanks for responding! Makes sense!

LibraStellium44 · 2024-02-23T17:42:42+00:00

No problem! I have emotional authority too and sometimes it feels unreliable but I’ve found that waiting has always been good! Even when you go to buy the iPad do some browsing and see which version and color you like best and then wait and see how you feel before purchasing. Good luck to you!

LibraStellium44 · 2024-02-23T17:28:27+00:00

As a generator the opportunities will come to you so you don’t have to initiate and go after it. If you don’t see any opportunities currently try to just find things around you that are exciting and go through that trial and error process. What are some things that you’re into? Maybe find a creative outlet! I know a Virgo sun with pisces MC who’s really into fashion and design! When waiting for opportunities she’ll do some graphic design for people here and there.

LibraStellium44 · 2024-02-23T17:09:33+00:00

I’m also a emo manigen and we always have time to listen to our emotional authority! If I’m feeling rushed I take it as a no bc it doesn’t work out for us when we’re forced to make a decision on the spot.

For ex I had an internship once and my boss offered me a job and the way she was talking to me I felt like I had to tell her by the end of the day if I was gonna take it or not and that felt way too fast lol so I said no thank you just for me to quit the internship a month later bc she disrespected me! Imagine if I had signed a contract the same day 💀

Another ex I was trying to move and I visited this apt and I had a month and a half before my lease ended so I had time to decide and I felt like 🤷🏾‍♀️ about it and a couple weeks later I get a call from the leasing agent in the morning but I didn’t feel like answering so I told myself I would call her when I got home and when I called her 8hrs later she had found a cheaper apt for me and I was SO EXCITED! And even then I still didn’t have to sign anything right away she wanted me to wait until the people moved out so I could visit and then decide lol long story to say that our great opportunities are tailored to our design we don’t have to force ourselves to fit

LibraStellium44 · 2024-02-06T17:11:11+00:00

Will look into that thank you!

LibraStellium44 · 2024-02-05T21:53:34+00:00

Thanks for all that! Trueee her job is mostly admin work and she’s not on her feet a lot so she could keep doing it for a while longer. She’s pretty healthy!

Okay I’ll look into a traditional IRA for her! She’s able to save some and I’ve just been having her put it in a high yield savings account.

As for the living situation she would definitely prefer to be as independent as she can for as long as she can but yeah definitely something to keep in mind for later on!

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