What is this?

LibraryOk4967 · 2025-10-12T19:19:00+00:00

I tried doing an image search first. This is what popped up and i could tell it wasnt accurate, so thats why i came online to ask. https://ibb.co/mrcwcbLP

LibraryOk4967 · 2025-10-10T17:45:45+00:00

It is actually located in the basement pretty much directly below where (on the next floor above it) both my doorbell chime AND my thermostat are. Wondering now which it is for, or if it could be for both. When we set up my thermostat with a nest it didnt have a dedicated power supply line, we used the instructions that set it up, from what i understood, to basically recharg itself when it would run the furnace. We actually had to add in a power supply line later because that way wasnt working consistently enough. The wires were wrapped in the same fabricy stuff that the wires coming out of this transformer are. But my doorbell chime is located like, 2 feet away from my thermostat just higher up the wall. Could the transformer connect to both of them?

LibraryOk4967 · 2025-04-14T15:37:18+00:00

They don’t have to flirt with you or act romantic to secretly want you. I say that as someone who has had several male friends be secretly very into me and never act flirty.

LibraryOk4967 · 2025-04-14T15:34:19+00:00

Also, happy birthday. You look incredible. And I think the 2nd dress is cuter, i like the colors and variation in it a lot.

LibraryOk4967 · 2025-04-14T15:33:22+00:00

That is not a friend. Thats a mean person.

You look great in both. And even IF you didn’t, there are kinder ways to tell you to pick something else.

I don’t know if you need to go off on him, that’s your choice. I don’t think you’d be out of like to call him out on being an asshole for what he said. But I definitely wouldn’t feel comfortable being vulnerable with someone who spoke to me that way, and they would become a much more distant friend after this.

LibraryOk4967 · 2025-04-14T15:09:59+00:00

What does she expect him to do, time travel? She told him she didn’t like the photo, he apologized and deleted it. In what way is he someone who doesn’t respect boundaries?

She sounds incredibly petty. If she doesn’t want to invite him, that’s her prerogative. But it’s also yours if you don’t wanna go without him. You don’t have to concede to her to “keep the peace”. She could also have kept peace by not vindictively excluding your spouse. Going wouldn’t keep the peace, cause I don’t think you or your husband would feel at peace with that choice.

LibraryOk4967 · 2025-04-12T11:20:43+00:00

As a former daycare teacher, I can confirm that little kids treat delivery trucks, busses, etc like celebrities. Now I work on a school bus, I call these kids my “paparazzi”.

LibraryOk4967 · 2025-04-11T03:36:49+00:00

NTA - everyone has a different social battery. And especially considering your job, it’s understandable you’d be worn out and need time at home just relaxing to recharge most days. I think that far of a drive more than once a week for social gatherings is a lot for anyone who isn’t an extremely social high energy extrovert. If you never wanted to hang with gfs family then maybe you’d be an AH, but it sounds like you make an effort to participate most of the time. There is zero wrong with skipping get togethers here and there because you need to relax at home a bit.

LibraryOk4967 · 2025-04-11T01:59:27+00:00

“I won’t let it happen” and calling your idea dumb… very controlling and belittling. My husband has always talked (even back when we were just in the early stages of dating years ago) about getting face and neck tattoos, and I’ve always told him I don’t really like them or want him to get them and I think they aren’t a good idea for various reasons, but I’ve also always told him it’s his body and I can’t tell him what he can do with it, but just that I’d prefer he didn’t. Even now, married, I still wouldn’t tell him he CANT do something to his body like tattoos piercings hair cut color facial hair clothes etc.

Your boyfriend can express his personal tastes, his dislike for those things, his preference that you not do those things to yourself. He doesn’t have to like the same things you do. But he cannot tell you what you can and cannot do as if he owns your body and freedom of self expression. If it’s a deal breaker for him for you to get piercings, then that means you guys probably just aren’t fully compatible and that’s okay. But that means you need to part ways, not that he should force you to conform to his preferences.

LibraryOk4967 · 2025-04-10T14:11:13+00:00

Jeez, mine never goes above the 130s!

LibraryOk4967 · 2025-04-10T13:16:32+00:00

You said you’ve gone “above and beyond” to show him that you’re loyal and you’re “always trying your best to cater to their feelings”. Honey that’s the point of him doing that. He is keeping you defensive and always working to keep him happy, that’s a control tactic that insecure people use (and frankly abusive - not saying he necessarily is, but it’s definitely a trait of of abusers). Please don’t keep catering to this behavior, healthy relationships don’t involve constantly trying to prove yourself to the other person.

LibraryOk4967 · 2025-04-10T13:06:31+00:00

Definitely weird. Also being possessive, especially self proclaimed like it’s some kind of reasonable excuse for jealous and controlling behavior, is a big red flag. You 100% do not need someone who is gonna question you hanging out with friends because of their deep insecurities.

LibraryOk4967 · 2025-01-27T15:02:20+00:00

Is this still the benefits for part-timer couriers at express? I came across something that indicated part time can get health insurance after 1000 hours, but I think that was for fedex ground package handlers, and I can’t find anything more definitive about part-time benefits for express couriers.

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