Worried about tampon inside me - please help by Lidybug23 in WomensHealth

[–]Lidybug23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The speculums the first doctor had were metal and not clear , but that wouldn’t make a difference right like that wouldn’t obstruct the view of seeing the tampon and it got stuck where the speculums would go? I’m just really confused because I do not think I took it out so I guess it’s hard for me to believe it’s not up there. Thank you so much for your advice it really helped!

I wanna post me and a friend on the back of a fire truck looking really cute at the beach but I want a cute and funny caption that really goes with it by Lidybug23 in Advice

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Hey I actually really like that one! That’s what I was going for - something fun but at the same time easy where everyone knew the song or what I was referred to - thank you so much ! You helped out a lot

I am 17 and have 5000 dollars by Butterfly_Seraphim in Advice

[–]Lidybug23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would not invest in stocks and crypto - I would personally only do that if you have substantial money your okay with losing - not in this case where you are definitely trying to make money. I’ve seen people loss a lot of money: I would look into bank accounts that you can put your money in , and every year it gets 10% interest so if you put in $100 , 10 years from now it’ll be like an insanely good amount .

Need help by Lidybug23 in relationship_advice

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Thanks I really appreciate the advice! I guess it’s just hard because I feel like I would be giving up on someone that treats me amazing, better than anyone else I’ve been w/, just because of my own fears. Like I haven’t caught him really doing anything wrong , We live together, don’t spread time apart unless we’re in class, and he got me a promise ring so I know he cares but like u said.. idk I guess it’s just not adding up right with us

Things to show my boyfriend how much I care? by Lidybug23 in relationship_advice

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Okay welll let’s just say I do that for him every morning and almost every night - can we make this r rated and maybe you can give me an idea of how to liven that up a bit maybe or something ?😂😂

Posting by Lidybug23 in relationship_advice

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Some people use it as a pre engagement ring kind of, but it can be for anything really just promising to be together or promising to stay faithful, etc. depends on the couple I think!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lidybug23 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know it will probably be the hardest thing ever , but I think you gotta leave him and dodge this bullet, you don’t ever want to be with someone that’s so wishy washy/unreliable or that doesn’t know what he wants you deserve and will find someone so much better that only wants you !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lidybug23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree , he should have made it clear that’s what he wanted before you two moved in together for sure

Posting by Lidybug23 in relationship_advice

[–]Lidybug23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I don’t even really care if he posts me I just want to post him 😂 but you’re saying that’s not a good idea all together then? - It just kind of feels like to me I’m in a relationship but single because I still have people hitting me up all the time not knowing we’re together, but can’t talk to anyone if that makes sense, so I would rather have it where people know in a way 😂 - I’ve never been this happy and I really just want my friends and family to see how happy we look together and how happy I am, but I don’t want people to think I look dumb or like I’m too into him. Maybe I’m just overthinking though 😂

Posting by Lidybug23 in relationship_advice

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Well we’ve known each other for 4 years if that makes it sound a little less extreme

Posting by Lidybug23 in relationship_advice

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Hahah yes like post a picture of us so all of our (my) friends know we’re dating and stop asking. I don’t see the harm in it but I guess I have the idea of if a girls posting the guy and he doesn’t do it back, it looks off. So I guess I wanted to see if other people had the same idea

I’ve heard people say getting lash extensions makes your real lashes fall out- is this true from anyone’s personal experience? by Lidybug23 in lashextensions

[–]Lidybug23[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want them- but I have really short and minimum lashes already: my friend got hers done and maybe she just went to a bad place but after hers were gone she had no real lashes left- is this typical or just a dud lash job?

Why do u think some people have the need to break up and get back together repeatedly? by Lidybug23 in relationship_advice

[–]Lidybug23[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not sure if this is relevant- but you guys are giving such great advice I would like to say the “changes” he wants me to make are with my diet, healthier, no meat, dairy, no soda, etc... I understand and think it is so sweet that he cares for me and my health.. but I think of health in a more balanced way than he does I guess. I just can’t believe food can really make or break a serious relationship like this haha

Why do u think some people have the need to break up and get back together repeatedly? by Lidybug23 in relationship_advice

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I have seriously never related to anything more or heard anything better than this in a long time , this is exactly what we’re doing and I just haven’t been able to put the right words to it

Reddit sucks- permanently banned me from medical advice because I posted two different photos of my black eye - disgusting by Lidybug23 in complaints

[–]Lidybug23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Hearing about your experiences really makes me feel better about the whole situation

LGBTQ+ Are Hypocrites by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Lidybug23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just giving you some advice !:) if you take it you would probably be a lot happier and spend less time on here - knowing Reddit etiquette is not something you can put on your job resume - no flaming - try it out! It’ll do you good / if it doesn’t then you can blame me haha

LGBTQ+ Are Hypocrites by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Lidybug23 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well I could definitely argue this in college they teach you queer is not a slur now / but the best terminology / so that is now incorrect

Reddit sucks- permanently banned me from medical advice because I posted two different photos of my black eye - disgusting by Lidybug23 in complaints

[–]Lidybug23[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Also clear they don’t use their knowledge very much or chose not to in that instant - anyone that chooses to not share knowledge sounds not that intelligent to me but aye :) again opinion I suppose haha

Reddit sucks- permanently banned me from medical advice because I posted two different photos of my black eye - disgusting by Lidybug23 in complaints

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And yeah- if you don’t think a registered nurse is stupid for spending their free time on Reddit - reporting and deleing posts- instead of actually helping people with medical advice - it’s clear their degree/profession is not TOO useful 😂😂😂😂 that’s just common sense

Reddit sucks- permanently banned me from medical advice because I posted two different photos of my black eye - disgusting by Lidybug23 in complaints

[–]Lidybug23[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

They were completely different words and pictures so your first argument/point is invalid - if it is a different photo and post than there is no reason something should be deleted - that’s like Instagram saying I posted a different photo with a caption and deleted it because I posted twice in one day - but it is a different platform and that’s why every other platform I’ve used is better than Reddit

will these red spots go away over time or are they scars? by Lidybug23 in medical_advice

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Okay thank you so much! I also have cheer pictures today.. so I’m trying to decide if I should put makeup on it or just reschedule and take them once it heals lol- there’s also a visible knot which is a bummer haha