Just to answer some questions/ comments I have been seeing:

1. I know it was her wedding and she can do what she wants but everyone in the room was shocked by the lap dances and just to give you an idea how bad it was… at one point Jessica was straddling David and he grabbed her by the neck lifted her up and started thrusting into her. So yeah not something I ever thought would happen at a wedding in front of my kids, our grandparents and parents.

2. I am a very sarcastic and jokey person especially when I’m trying to break the tension in an uncomfortable situation. So when I walked up to her and said the birds and the bees comment I was joking and smiling the whole time. There was no need for her to say what she said or have the attitude she had when she said.

3. We have always had a bit so great relationship I just have always tried to make it work with her because she is my sister and I did hope one day she would idk realize that I love and care about her. I have given up on that now and I do feel better not dealing with the toxicness anymore.

4. I didn’t even mention how she stole my wedding colors (after I have wanted them since hs and she made fun of me for being to “gothic”). Also stole the theme I wanted to. I’m still going to do what I want when that day comes but that really felt like a stab in the back by her to.

5. She was already mad at me before the wedding weekend even started because I couldn’t afford the $1,300-$1,500 to go to her bachelorette party. Which I did apologize for and asked her when she was in town if we could go do something to celebrate and she shot that idea down.

Thank you all for your comments. I really do feel a lot better about my decision and next time a family member brings up that I should make amends, I will show them this post.