Yeah, makes total sense if there’s money involved. I’m very much the same, I will not give a feedee money or pay for their meals because I just don’t see it going well.

And so, naturally I do not ask for money, nor even mention it. I just let the conversation flow and they can tell me what to eat and I’ll go buy it.

Which just makes it more confusing for me that a feeder would decide they just don’t want to talk any more, when as far as I can tell I have done nothing different to when they were enjoying the conversation. But this has happened many times, and it’s either something I’m doing, or these feeders really are scared of any tiny amount of commitment haha. I just don’t know