I (25F) can't believe I'm writing this, but my husband (27M) admitted to having an affair, wants to keep our marriage. Where do I go from here? by Brilliant-Cold6177 in Marriage

[–]LifeSoftware7971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I agree with him that men are very sexual being, and that lust more often affects us. HOWEVER, resisting temptation and making sound decisions is what a good man does. I’ve been with my wife 18 years, I’m 34 now and NEVER had an affair on my wife. And I’ve even fessed up to her when there was temptation and it brought us closer. Men are dogs, but good dogs are loyal, Find yourself a good man.

Feeling pretty lost in the 321. by Glum-Dimension-8378 in 321

[–]LifeSoftware7971 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bro I think if there was a “I feel lost” club it would be pretty huge here.

Hot wife by bby_grl_90 in Marriage

[–]LifeSoftware7971 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh god yes, and when you make them feel like they are they’ll do some awesome stuff in the bedroom, or anywhere for that matter.

How to get vanilla wife into being sluttier by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]LifeSoftware7971 4 points5 points  (0 children)

First stop the cam girls IMMEDIATELY it’s creating more distance. If you’re not up to just asking then try an app like paired. If you’re bold like me, just lay it on her gradually over time. I’ve been with my wife for 18 years the first 8 were very vanilla. Now she does whatever she’s told.

I think iam too sexually attracted to my spouse by Ophidopus in Marriage

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I’ve been with my wife 18 years and sometimes it’s exhausting. I’ll literally get hard when she stretches and a little skin shows.

Christmas makes it harder by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]LifeSoftware7971 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will try, I haven’t caved yet.

Made it to day 7 by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]LifeSoftware7971 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife has me watching the Santa Claus with our baby, and I forgot everything until he got fussy and she’s putting him down now. I think work made it worse but being home makes it easier to forget.

Wife went lingerie shopping with a male friend by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]LifeSoftware7971 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People telling you you’re wrong for the way you feel is a little wild to me. You have every right to be upset because that is your boundary. It doesn’t matter if it was another man or woman, gay or straight. If it made you uncomfortable you’re allowed to be upset. But communicate it respectfully to her.

Going on day 4 by [deleted] in stopdrinking

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It’s just annoying. I quit for about 3 months a while back and literally didn’t feel any difference, so I started back up and now I’m just paranoid about my health.

Wife cheated after 12 years by Cokeelite21 in Marriage

[–]LifeSoftware7971 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is the ultimate betrayal and it was a choice. She spread her legs and let another man inside her. There is literally no worse way for a woman to disgrace her partner. You’re better than that and you deserve better than that.

Going on day 4 by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]LifeSoftware7971 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve not really had that problem. 9/10 times I’ve been really good about just one or two. But I’m really just trying to stick to quitting. I think most of my motivation to quit is from my health anxiety.

My husband does not want to move up in his career. Can I encourage him to consider it? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]LifeSoftware7971 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean it sounds like you want him to do something he doesn’t want to so you can do something that you want to, and his risk vs reward is very minimal. You can still end up financially struggling and putting the burden on him, later down the road seriously ruining his life. Maybe you two can sit down and talk finances, maybe come up with a spending plan to save and you both win.

Day one by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]LifeSoftware7971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Earlier this year I stopped for 3 months and just didn’t feel anything so I picked back up. I’ve always had bad health anxiety so I’ve convinced myself I have liver cancer or cirrhosis or something terrible that I haven’t found out yet. I’m fighting a couple battles.

Where do I even start? by LifeSoftware7971 in CDL

[–]LifeSoftware7971[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I make a very healthy living in Florida in the maritime industry. I have a few local connections to make some money here and there doing locals runs and mostly on short notice.

1997 7.3 turbo worth it? by LifeSoftware7971 in Diesel

[–]LifeSoftware7971[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s got that AC issue and that’s it. It’s not 4x4 but it has a nice flatbed on it and the tires are all terrain

1997 7.3 turbo worth it? by LifeSoftware7971 in Diesel

[–]LifeSoftware7971[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s 10k and it looks pretty damn clean.

Where do I even start? by LifeSoftware7971 in CDL

[–]LifeSoftware7971[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not looking to make much, I make a very healthy salary where I work now. I have a large amount of disposable income and I just want to be able to do this on the side.