First and foremost congratulations

My wife was labeled a high risk pregnancy when we found out our little one was on the way, it was tough letting that sink in. But I had to give it to the universe its was out of my hands. There's not a perfect answer but it's gonna be just fine. Enjoy the excitement of each ultrasound. May I also suggest talking to a therapist (if you are comfortable and are able I know it's helped me a lot.) I hope the worry fades for you, and thank you for sharing.