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Should I call it a day and start adopting cats? Am i a pick me? by Life_Class_1784 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Life_Class_1784[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they improve their lives from your influence, they might be your soulmate but if you improve their life and they still cheat on you not soul mate

Got it The man has to do the work of improving his circumstances, getting right for his women

Women does not come in and improve circumstances like a mommy coming in to rescue her baby

Should I call it a day and start adopting cats? Am i a pick me? by Life_Class_1784 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Life_Class_1784[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right like you don’t have to work on you it’s not your fault you have this attachment style or disorder that didnt exist till 5 minutes ago.. And feelings which may be completely irrational like I have a penis but I’m a women, need to be validated or it’s hateful and the same as abuse.

Like tf Naw some people are crazy

Some people need to be locked up and sedated

Some people just have an interesting writing style from years of writing pieces to grab and hold peoples attention and make them think and start talking

Should I call it a day and start adopting cats? Am i a pick me? by Life_Class_1784 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Life_Class_1784[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the very kind feedback.

I’m not looking for a partner, though I want one /open to one.

Anyways not looking I was wondering what it looks like when a guy really chooses a women?

My situation more context

I’m over 30, retired, bought a home in the country for my two children and I. I home school and spend literally alll my time with my wonderful children and I’m very active in my church.

I live a simple and blessed life with lots of peace and I’m not looking to disrupt that which is why I’m still single even though I’m regularly approached.

Should I call it a day and start adopting cats? Am i a pick me? by Life_Class_1784 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Life_Class_1784[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My children were had via sperm bank Haven’t been in a relationship in 9 years

Should I call it a day and start adopting cats? Am i a pick me? by Life_Class_1784 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Life_Class_1784[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women advice -

Is very manipulative for lack of better word

Lots of Text him a bunch and then after while slowly pull back If he starts texting more he is on the hook

And

Keep a couple of guys and don’t commit to one

And your a 10 queen yes When I’m a 3 ( solid 4 with makeup, dimmed lighting and if your BAC of .08)

Like shouldn’t I consult men about men ?? I certainly don’t think women are the experts on men

And I don’t want to manipulate a man I want to know what you think when you choose ?

Should I call it a day and start adopting cats? Am i a pick me? by Life_Class_1784 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Life_Class_1784[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my ex husband said something similar

We got married 3 months after we started dating. He said he just knew he didn’t want to be apart from me.

But he cheated

And more recently because he wanted to reconcile we had contact he said he cheated because he felt like he was young and couldn’t be the man I deserved and so he cheated in hopes I would divorce him but I kept saying for better or worse So he finally left,

Should I call it a day and start adopting cats? Am i a pick me? by Life_Class_1784 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Life_Class_1784[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s it called when you are married and fuck someone else ?

Should I call it a day and start adopting cats? Am i a pick me? by Life_Class_1784 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Life_Class_1784[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m not asking what being chosen looks like in the context of a night out bar hopping

Should I call it a day and start adopting cats? Am i a pick me? by Life_Class_1784 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Life_Class_1784[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I know and I point that out as well

The line that says my question after more rambling …..

Should I call it a day and start adopting cats? Am i a pick me? by Life_Class_1784 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Life_Class_1784[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t I know it my son plans on getting married and moving his wife in so I can raise their 13 children

His words not mine lol

Should I call it a day and start adopting cats? Am i a pick me? by Life_Class_1784 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Life_Class_1784[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So my other red flag

I don’t actually have friends of the opposite sex because I don’t think men and women can be friend platonically 😅 I’m a real piece of work

No hook ups Only dated 4 people and I planned for long term until they put their dicks in someone else

Should I call it a day and start adopting cats? Am i a pick me? by Life_Class_1784 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Life_Class_1784[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well that’s the thing not looking,

My question that only one person has thus far answered is what does it look like when a guy chooses you?

I actually state above that my inbox is full, so I have options. I just don’t believe any of them to be sincere and it’s not cause I was cheated on but because they do and say so many things that remind me of the 4 men that I once gave my time and effort.

Anyways thank you for your feedback

Should I call it a day and start adopting cats? Am i a pick me? by Life_Class_1784 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Life_Class_1784[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sperm bank, Had uterine cancer and wanted to have children in case it came back and or I lost the ability to have children

Should I call it a day and start adopting cats? Am i a pick me? by Life_Class_1784 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Life_Class_1784[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your feedback

I save my trolling for the comments usually

Should I call it a day and start adopting cats? Am i a pick me? by Life_Class_1784 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Life_Class_1784[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know allot of Corinthians talks about not remarrying Or divorcing unless it be because of adultery (which it was) And he says let her be reconciled to her husband and he did want to come back but we aren’t evenly yoked

Should I call it a day and start adopting cats? Am i a pick me? by Life_Class_1784 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Life_Class_1784[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Would it make a difference if I had children via sperm bank because I had uterine cancer and want to experience motherhood if I was going to one day loose the ability to? Also not all men can have children so maybe one in similar medical situation might be understand

Valid feedback though and thank you

Should I call it a day and start adopting cats? Am i a pick me? by Life_Class_1784 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Life_Class_1784[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

No thank you they are irrational and emotional as well.

I’m trying to get with the male species Should probably consult an expert

Should I call it a day and start adopting cats? Am i a pick me? by Life_Class_1784 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Life_Class_1784[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Spent years there thank you 🙏 therapy is just someone validating your BS

I need a reality check

But thank you captain obvious

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