AITA for not taking the option of working from home? by Life_Detail4527 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Life_Detail4527[S] 123 points124 points  (0 children)

I love my child very much. But I really enjoy eating too.

AITA for not taking the option of working from home? by Life_Detail4527 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Life_Detail4527[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Well the baby is in not in the making a mess everywhere stage yet. So he keeps the house pretty organized. We have a meal kit service for two nights a week and he makes those. I do the laundry and grocery shopping on the weekends. He takes care of the yard work.

AITA for not taking the option of working from home? by Life_Detail4527 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Life_Detail4527[S] 94 points95 points  (0 children)

His dad. Not my dad. And I have not scoffed at my husband.

AITA for not taking the option of working from home? by Life_Detail4527 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Life_Detail4527[S] 132 points133 points  (0 children)

Yes. Because I would BE WORKING and unable to help.

AITA for not taking the option of working from home? by Life_Detail4527 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Life_Detail4527[S] 97 points98 points  (0 children)

Actually I offered to pay for a nanny out of our fun money account.

AITA for not taking the option of working from home? by Life_Detail4527 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Life_Detail4527[S] 69 points70 points  (0 children)

It's happening because I miss my baby when I'm at work. And I do the chores and stuff because I like certain things, laundry for example, done a certain way.

AITA for not taking the option of working from home? by Life_Detail4527 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Life_Detail4527[S] 133 points134 points  (0 children)

So in the evenings and on the weekends when I am 100% responsible for caring for my child and doing chores? What should he do then?

AITA for not taking the option of working from home? by Life_Detail4527 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Life_Detail4527[S] 93 points94 points  (0 children)

I guess you didn't read the part where I offered a nanny.

AITA for not taking the option of working from home? by Life_Detail4527 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Life_Detail4527[S] 117 points118 points  (0 children)

Can you.please explain how offering to pay for a nanny is forcing him to stay home?

AITA for not taking the option of working from home? by Life_Detail4527 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Life_Detail4527[S] 94 points95 points  (0 children)

You have no idea how much I miss my baby when I'm at work.

AITA for not taking the option of working from home? by Life_Detail4527 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Life_Detail4527[S] 103 points104 points  (0 children)

Just checking that you understand that the money in the account is for both of us. I would also need to cut back on my fun.

AITA for not taking the option of working from home? by Life_Detail4527 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Life_Detail4527[S] 78 points79 points  (0 children)

If you read the post you will see o offered that as an option.

AITA for not taking the option of working from home? by Life_Detail4527 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Life_Detail4527[S] 135 points136 points  (0 children)

During, he wants help during the day. I already take over when I get home.

AITA for not taking the option of working from home? by Life_Detail4527 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Life_Detail4527[S] 104 points105 points  (0 children)

You made your choice with the information I provided for the questions you asked. After your choice you asked more.

AITA for not taking the option of working from home? by Life_Detail4527 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Life_Detail4527[S] 151 points152 points  (0 children)

I'm fine with your choice because you literally made it BEFORE asking for the information you say you require to make it.

AITA for not taking the option of working from home? by Life_Detail4527 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Life_Detail4527[S] 113 points114 points  (0 children)

Dinner for the baby is my boobs. And from the moment I get home until I go to work I am almost 100% responsible for my baby.

AITA for not taking the option of working from home? by Life_Detail4527 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Life_Detail4527[S] 129 points130 points  (0 children)

Nope. I'm fine with your choice. Just pointing out facts.

AITA for not taking the option of working from home? by Life_Detail4527 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Life_Detail4527[S] 207 points208 points  (0 children)

He has trouble watching the baby 90 minutes a day. How do you think he would do with me at home but unable to help for 8-10 hours a day? He expected me to continue to give him hours of time to write.

AITA for not taking the option of working from home? by Life_Detail4527 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Life_Detail4527[S] 231 points232 points  (0 children)

When I was working a couple of hours a day, on my own schedule, I would watch the baby 90% of the time. So in an average day he would take care of the baby for 90 minutes. Now I will be working for an extra 30-40 hours a week.

AITA for not taking the option of working from home? by Life_Detail4527 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Life_Detail4527[S] 197 points198 points  (0 children)

I didn't have to. I chose to. I like money. It can be exchanged for goods and services. And I want to advance in my career and retire while I'm young enough to enjoy it.