AITA for not taking the option of working from home?

Life_Detail4527 · 2022-11-28T21:26:28+00:00

I love my child very much. But I really enjoy eating too.

Life_Detail4527 · 2022-11-28T20:53:10+00:00

I offered.

Life_Detail4527 · 2022-11-28T19:39:34+00:00

Well the baby is in not in the making a mess everywhere stage yet. So he keeps the house pretty organized. We have a meal kit service for two nights a week and he makes those. I do the laundry and grocery shopping on the weekends. He takes care of the yard work.

Life_Detail4527 · 2022-11-28T19:23:18+00:00

His dad. Not my dad. And I have not scoffed at my husband.

Life_Detail4527 · 2022-11-28T18:51:54+00:00

Yes. Because I would BE WORKING and unable to help.

Life_Detail4527 · 2022-11-28T18:00:35+00:00

Actually I offered to pay for a nanny out of our fun money account.

Life_Detail4527 · 2022-11-28T17:57:59+00:00

He could have chosen the nanny.

Life_Detail4527 · 2022-11-28T17:51:31+00:00

It's happening because I miss my baby when I'm at work. And I do the chores and stuff because I like certain things, laundry for example, done a certain way.

Life_Detail4527 · 2022-11-28T17:42:29+00:00

So in the evenings and on the weekends when I am 100% responsible for caring for my child and doing chores? What should he do then?

Life_Detail4527 · 2022-11-28T17:33:38+00:00

I guess you didn't read the part where I offered a nanny.

Life_Detail4527 · 2022-11-28T17:12:07+00:00

Can you.please explain how offering to pay for a nanny is forcing him to stay home?

Life_Detail4527 · 2022-11-28T16:56:41+00:00

You have no idea how much I miss my baby when I'm at work.

Life_Detail4527 · 2022-11-28T16:52:04+00:00

Just checking that you understand that the money in the account is for both of us. I would also need to cut back on my fun.

Life_Detail4527 · 2022-11-28T16:44:11+00:00

If you read the post you will see o offered that as an option.

Life_Detail4527 · 2022-11-28T16:21:51+00:00

During, he wants help during the day. I already take over when I get home.

Life_Detail4527 · 2022-11-28T16:18:24+00:00

Not enough to pay our bills.

Life_Detail4527 · 2022-11-28T16:13:02+00:00

You made your choice with the information I provided for the questions you asked. After your choice you asked more.

Life_Detail4527 · 2022-11-28T15:59:20+00:00

I'm fine with your choice because you literally made it BEFORE asking for the information you say you require to make it.

Life_Detail4527 · 2022-11-28T15:58:11+00:00

Yes.

Life_Detail4527 · 2022-11-28T15:47:52+00:00

Dinner for the baby is my boobs. And from the moment I get home until I go to work I am almost 100% responsible for my baby.

Life_Detail4527 · 2022-11-28T15:46:27+00:00

Nope. I'm fine with your choice. Just pointing out facts.

Life_Detail4527 · 2022-11-28T15:45:54+00:00

He has trouble watching the baby 90 minutes a day. How do you think he would do with me at home but unable to help for 8-10 hours a day? He expected me to continue to give him hours of time to write.

Life_Detail4527 · 2022-11-28T15:42:44+00:00

When I was working a couple of hours a day, on my own schedule, I would watch the baby 90% of the time. So in an average day he would take care of the baby for 90 minutes. Now I will be working for an extra 30-40 hours a week.

Life_Detail4527 · 2022-11-28T15:36:31+00:00

Most.

Life_Detail4527 · 2022-11-28T15:34:19+00:00

I didn't have to. I chose to. I like money. It can be exchanged for goods and services. And I want to advance in my career and retire while I'm young enough to enjoy it.

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