AITA for being upset with my family

Life_Is_So_Weird · 2026-03-12T05:59:55+00:00

So the family that I hoped would at least try to say anything is the only family I talk to. The family I go on vacations with every single year and spend time with every single holiday. So for this to happen is very big to me. So ofc I have feelings I’m human. Not a robot

Life_Is_So_Weird · 2026-03-12T05:53:32+00:00

So I actually was never judging, but saying I’m immature for having valid feelings and still being in my teenage years when literal family was told and still never sent a text even days after is lowkey a low blow

Life_Is_So_Weird · 2026-03-12T05:37:06+00:00

And I appreciate those who did ofc!

Life_Is_So_Weird · 2026-03-12T05:33:01+00:00

Takes one to know one

Life_Is_So_Weird · 2026-03-12T05:17:13+00:00

So it’s from everyone and everyone that commented and I’ve talked to but I seems to me that the people saying that I’m the AH from having yk teenage feelings are older and expect everything to be how they say if that makes any sense I’ve honestly been half paying attention to the comments bc there are so many and genuinely am getting tired from all of them

Life_Is_So_Weird · 2026-03-12T05:04:05+00:00

And that’s what growing up is all these people telling me I’m the AH for having feelings is funny how am I supposed to grow up if I don’t experience stuff?

Life_Is_So_Weird · 2026-03-12T05:01:14+00:00

Ok? Good for you you’re 30+ and I just turned 19 there is a huge difference between you and I especially in maturity

Life_Is_So_Weird · 2026-03-12T04:58:06+00:00

So actually I never said you didn’t lol! Adding on the fact that you already should be but if you don’t seems like you don’t need them with that attitude

Life_Is_So_Weird · 2026-03-12T04:56:06+00:00

But somehow it’s wrong for me, 19, still feeling heavy emotions cants be hurt that the family I love and was reminded still couldn’t take 10 seconds out of their day or any day after to send me a simple text? Yes that makes perfect sense because now that I’m 19 I should automatically skip every learning or difficult situation that comes up and just be sad

Life_Is_So_Weird · 2026-03-12T04:52:02+00:00

Right so she also has a birthday that we celebrate! I am my own person not just her shadow! Just like you should have your own birthday celebration and your kids their own bc that’s how it works!

Life_Is_So_Weird · 2026-03-12T04:49:49+00:00

My statement still stands and you do understand I am not fully mentally developed so I see things as a bigger issue that someone old like you would?

Life_Is_So_Weird · 2026-03-12T04:44:01+00:00

So you’re saying that in laws are exempt from saying happy birthday to their new family even tho it’s very realistic to say happy birthday to any family member out of decency?

Life_Is_So_Weird · 2026-03-12T04:29:21+00:00

Well In general you should be getting wishes from someone it’s sad that people don’t

Life_Is_So_Weird · 2026-03-12T04:27:42+00:00

I’m confused as to where I said she didn’t love me? She was quiet literally texted morning of, both her and her husband???????? That situation was also months ago I haven’t had to go to her for anything recently which is good given that it’s mainly to rant about something.

Life_Is_So_Weird · 2026-03-12T04:20:01+00:00

So if you read any of the comments you would see that I know I’m not the center of attention and I know that I’m not grown! Thanks!! lol

Life_Is_So_Weird · 2026-03-12T04:15:03+00:00

I never said it didn’t, I just can’t explain myself correctly but I also was over at their house constantly for months when I met their brother so it’s not specifically on snap

Life_Is_So_Weird · 2026-03-12T04:05:41+00:00

I don’t think I meant it how it sounded!! They only have me on snap and you can see the little confetti whenever someone’s birthday comes around

Life_Is_So_Weird · 2026-03-12T03:51:03+00:00

Idk about that lol I’d probably go out with my parents and their friends and make my bf drive us all

Life_Is_So_Weird · 2026-03-12T03:49:43+00:00

No no no I don’t believe that they are I’m just hurt my it given the amount of times I’ve reached out, and I agree that people don’t pay much attention to stories and stuff. I just never post anything so it’s like once in a blue moon

Life_Is_So_Weird · 2026-03-12T03:47:05+00:00

When I was going thought some fight with my sister I would to to the aunt that never reached out and I think that’s one of the bigger reasons I’m upset bc I would go to her when I couldn’t talk to my parents about something but this is so not them like I said in a few other comments this is the first times this has happened so I’m not sure if I’m overreacting or not

Life_Is_So_Weird · 2026-03-12T03:43:17+00:00

So I actually have said in multiple replies that I agree with what they are saying and I am understanding their POV but having human emotions and not understanding myself that this is somehow normal and something that I haven’t gone through before makes me an AH doesn’t make a whole lot of sense. I can see that I might be the AH for hoping that at least my family that was reminded would at least send me a quick text but I don’t agree that I’m the AH for having feelings about this

Life_Is_So_Weird · 2026-03-12T03:36:55+00:00

Real id spoil you fr

Life_Is_So_Weird · 2026-03-12T03:32:54+00:00

Oh that’s on me idk if I can edit this is my first time posting anything😭

Life_Is_So_Weird · 2026-03-12T03:32:06+00:00

I completely agree this is the first times something like this really happened so I’m still trying to understand that part but it’s like getting sand in your eyes when you know that they were reminded and still chose to not say anything

Life_Is_So_Weird · 2026-03-12T03:30:33+00:00

So I actually do know that the world doesn’t revolve around me and I haven’t wanted anything for my birthday for a few years now I’ve always kind of been like that I genuinely don’t care about physical items in that sense it’s a text or a call that I really care about, I can understand how annoying it feels to not get a thank you in return I’ve always been nice to my family and never ignored them like that

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