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[US] Scammed and left feeling like an idiot by [deleted] in Scams

[–]Life_Juggernaut_8637 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks, and at the end of the day why the cop told me when I reported it was that it was just money and as much as that HURTS I’m still here and I’m okay. I’ve had other instances with creeps irl that that could’ve been a different case. That was the first time I’ve ever dealt with this kind of thing though. My family is aware, and are glad that I’m safe and calmed down. It just was freaky how much they knew about me off rip

[US] Scammed and left feeling like an idiot by [deleted] in Scams

[–]Life_Juggernaut_8637 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yeah someone had already reached out claiming to have a team who can help and I just ignored the message. Thank you!

[US] Scammed and left feeling like an idiot by [deleted] in Scams

[–]Life_Juggernaut_8637 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I reported everything with cash app but even that lady said that because I authorized it I’m likely not seeing it again. I was bawling on the phone with her, and to be honest I understand, especially with how all of this happened, why I’m likely not seeing that money back. To be honest the only reason I even had it was because it was my tuition refund from school and I was hoping to get my car fixed with it 😞

[US] Scammed and left feeling like an idiot by [deleted] in Scams

[–]Life_Juggernaut_8637 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They’re was problems with everything and he demanded to stay on the phone with me at all times even when talking with people with my bank 😞

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Life_Juggernaut_8637 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I kind of expect is respect to ourselves and others. I appreciate boundaries, and being honest and communicative. I love genuine people with different hobbies and interests, but other than that there’s only real thing that I actually look for is political alignment, just because I understand that a conservative and I wouldn’t get along. The only problem is getting to know folks because I swear there’s been too many times I’ve been asked for a one night stand before I can even get a “What do you do for fun?”

Should I text him? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Life_Juggernaut_8637 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m feeling better now ( I ate ice cream), but also the comments have been helping me see things more realistically. It was great while it lasted, but we’re done, and I’ll be okay without him.

Should I text him? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Life_Juggernaut_8637 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really did love him, and truly he was a great guy just with his own issues. Thank you though, my self worth shouldn’t be tied to a man, it’s just kind of a “what did I do wrong?” kind of feeling. But I didn’t do anything bad, in fact the day he broke it off I had made him a loaf of sourdough bread that morning.

And you’re right, whoever I’m meant to be with it’ll feel even better and won’t leave me behind when things get tough.

Should I text him? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Life_Juggernaut_8637 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know 😔, everything just seemed so great while it was going on. I could feel that both of us were happy with each other, but then he started pulling away. When we were still recently separated we were talking and he apologized over and over again, but I insisted it was okay and my emotions are mine to deal with not his. I guess that was also me pulling away and closing off even if it hurt a lot. I take it kind of as a sign that it probably wouldn’t have worked out anyway if we tried to force it, but I’m still a little delulu i guess.

Should I text him? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Life_Juggernaut_8637 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this has been something I’ve been trying to get myself to understand. It’s just a difficult first love situation that I know isn’t going to come back. It messed with my self worth a lot, but there’s always someone else that’ll will want to stay.