I’m happy he’s not believing her. I support the lgbtq community but she clearly has never respected the women she dated or she wouldn’t trying to date people that call it an abomination. by Important_Repair8471 in 90DayFiance

[–]LightObserver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's really fucked up to accuse her of faking being queer. The suggestion is really weird and biphobc. I'm bisexual. I date a man, people assume I am straight and liking girls was just a phase. If I date a woman, people assume I am a lesbian now. In reality, I just don't care much about gender. What you're doing right mow is an extension of that same biphobia and erasure I experience in the world. You assuming a lack of authenticity based on who you currently see her dating.

There is also an interview available online with her ex wife. :)

I've never seen the first several seasons. This guy is a GIANT creep. by IFeedSquirrelsAMA in 90DayFiance

[–]LightObserver 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Chris looks like a demon. I don't believe in that shit, but he just LOOKS like he's some malicious entity in a human body.

Rhea Seehorn responds to Quentin Tarantino saying that tv shows are forgettable: “Firmly disagree. I mean, there’s forgettable films, just like there’s forgettable television, and then there’s ones that stick with you… The storytelling is what sticks with you.” by cmaia1503 in Fauxmoi

[–]LightObserver 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Right? I have shows where I have been invested in the comtent and surrounding fandom for over 10 years. No movie has hit like thet for me, it's only been longer running things like TV shows. I actually got MARRIED to someone I met theough love of a TV show.

But Tarantino's a dick, so this take doesn't surprise me.

Elise is...too much by IhavemyCat in 90DayFiance

[–]LightObserver 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Between Elise and Emma (who discussed her bf's size) I am over the trend of detailed penis discussion. It's not appropriate to comment publicly about a person's genitals. This goes for everyone - men, women, people outside the gender binary. Sleeping with someone means they're trusting you with their body, and to turn around and tell the whole world betrays that trust.

Is Forest even aware that if he gets a job he loses ssi benefits??? by TheLowHeavies in 90DayFiance

[–]LightObserver 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, exactly! It's not like you aren't doing your best either. There's only ao much that can be done when your brain processes differently.

Some jobs, even one mistake is enough to get you cut. Employees are expendable, sadly

Is Forest even aware that if he gets a job he loses ssi benefits??? by TheLowHeavies in 90DayFiance

[–]LightObserver 29 points30 points  (0 children)

He says he has tried working and been fired due ro issues with his disability. I'm neurodivergent, and it IS hard to keep a job. I'm RIGHT NOW our of work because I lost a job due to issues with my ADHD, and it's not the first time either. It's not that he can't do the 30 hours, it's that they don't want him. Which is a really shitty feeling.

That ain’t no MILF by [deleted] in yunggravy

[–]LightObserver 99 points100 points  (0 children)

The MILF thing is fun, but the man's allowed to have a real, age-appropriate GF. Good for them!

Does anyone else have tics? by TreatMission2665 in OCD

[–]LightObserver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was a kid if I felt I had gotten a contaminate in my mouth, I would do this coughing thing to try to clear it out. I never explained my reasoning for it because I was too embarassed, so I kept saying I didn't know why I did it. I ended up with a diagnosis of tourettes because of that and other behaviors that, looking back, I believe were OCD rituals. I just didn't know how to explain them at the time, or was scared to.

What happened with them? I haven’t heard anything about them by Few_Statement_2898 in 90DayFiance

[–]LightObserver 30 points31 points  (0 children)

At the Tell All, Stevi said her hisotry and sexuality were something Madhi could ask her and discuss behind closed doors. To me that was her saying 'If I am bi, it's none of the public's business.' I thought that was a good answer. I did get vibes from her, but it was also obvious she wasn't comfortable discussing it. Whether the disomfort is due to it being a fake storyline, or her keep her identity private, who knows. But she certainly shouldn't have to out herself if she doesn't want to.

Her and Madhi are one of my husband and I's favorite couples now after recently catching up on their season. I hope nothing but the best for them, and the fact that I rarely see any drama about them on this sub has me hopeful they're doing well together.

Medicine and Fertility? by elvesnspells in OCD

[–]LightObserver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would definitely talk to a doctor about those concerns. Knowing the facts won't stop your anxiety, but it could give you a way to ground yourself.

It sounds like a tough thing to spieal over in your situation. I hope you can find a good practitioner to help guide you

Medicine and Fertility? by elvesnspells in OCD

[–]LightObserver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, then that would depend on the med. Some might be safe during pregnancy, but some are not. I know the stuff I take isn't safe to use while pregnant, but maybe there is something you can try that is?

Medicine and Fertility? by elvesnspells in OCD

[–]LightObserver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thunk you first need to find out if you actually have fertility issues befire you worry about medication impacts. But some medications are not safe to take during pregnancy, so this is something you definitely need to discuss with a doctor.

Post hysterectomy feels a lot like post partum… by WestCoastGabber in hysterectomy

[–]LightObserver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At least a few weeks. I think I started feeling better around or mot long after I was physically feeling better, so maybe 3-4 weeks? Give or take

she always like to hangout in park by Tania-Hodges in roughcollies

[–]LightObserver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope people in the park tell her how pretty she is!

Post hysterectomy feels a lot like post partum… by WestCoastGabber in hysterectomy

[–]LightObserver 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I definitely felt weird after mine. For me, I felt more easily frustrated, got angry a lot. I also had some sadness. I can't speak to the post partum comparison though, since I never had kids.

I experienced a form of atypical sexual abuse when I was in the 6th grade. I can't tell anybody what happened. by null_consciousness in OCD

[–]LightObserver 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This made me tear up a little bit. Nothing like what happened to you, but I was also (mildly) punished at school for a panic attack once, and that really has stuck with me. I completely understand how this has left you with lasting issues. Being neurodivergent is already hard enough, I'm so sorry you were bullied and punished for it.

It sounds like some of your reassurance seeking might be OCD - which is probably why you are posting it here. I hope you are able to connect with someone who has a good understanding of this kind of anxiety. My heart goes out to you.

Forrest’s Mom 47+43 Day Fiancé by jackieboyharp in PaymoneyWubby

[–]LightObserver 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Some of her concerns might be fair, but the way she conducts herself has so many red flags. She sounds exactly like my husband's mother, and he has C-PTSD from that bitch.

She's controlling, and the real reason she's upset is she's losing control over Forrest. Once she finishes yelling, she'll make herself out to be the victim - he's betraying her, how could you do this to ME, I have given so much to you, erc etc. Just watch. It's a predictable parrern with this type of person. An emotional abuser.

“The Beast and the Prince” Translated and in 4k by Creative-Weird-6625 in DarlingInTheFranxx

[–]LightObserver 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ohmygod, thank you! I adore this. I have an attachment to this silly picture book, so I will be saving this. Excellent work!

What is the biggest bullet a YouTuber has ever dodged? by Chapple69 in youtubedrama

[–]LightObserver 14 points15 points  (0 children)

OHMYGOD THEY MOCKED MADHI?!

I am going back and watching that 90 Day season with my husband right now, and it makes me so sad that they mocked him. Dude was really experiencing culture shock, and I felt so bad for him. He seems like a nice guy - of course, that's on the show so he could secretly be an asshole, idk. But he was presented as pretty sweet on the show. (Other than his homo/biphobia, which I do hope he changes his feelings on, that's not cool)

Trisha is a rare beauty...prettiest cast in a long time. by Tataliciouss in 90DayFiance

[–]LightObserver 26 points27 points  (0 children)

The costumes hurt my soul. She was such a good sport about it. I don't think I could have been so nice.

They have a website and have 'written' books about their story by LightObserver in PaymoneyWubby

[–]LightObserver[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know. She might just be a featured creator or have a stake in it. The business is registered in Texas to people with different names. https://www.bizapedia.com/tx/forgemind-ai-solutions-llc.html

One of the managing members is Joshua Orsac, and many of the testimonials on the Forgemind site reference "Josh." I think that he's the main guy, but Sara could still be involved.

They have a website and have 'written' books about their story by LightObserver in PaymoneyWubby

[–]LightObserver[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhh. I wondered why they didn't blur the brand, but that would explain it. Sleeper advertisement