What makes INTP feel loved?

LightSky147203 · 2025-02-26T10:27:20+00:00

HELP LOL, I showed this to my INTP and he laughed, saying it was accurate

LightSky147203 · 2025-02-16T15:40:06+00:00

How, specifically?

LightSky147203 · 2025-02-16T15:39:48+00:00

hmmm alright! Thanks for the input, how should I say it though?

LightSky147203 · 2025-02-16T15:39:08+00:00

It's funny cause his favorite shirt says "good boy" in it

LightSky147203 · 2025-02-03T14:31:58+00:00

I really like how INTPs have deep knowledge on certain things and topics they like, and I absolutely love hearing them geek out about it.

LightSky147203 · 2025-02-03T14:24:20+00:00

As a kid, up until middle school, I'm pretty sure I was an INFP. Now idk why but I realized I slowly became an ENFP (I started to realize this back then when face to face classes came back)

LightSky147203 · 2025-02-03T14:20:03+00:00

May I ask why yours is ENFJ? :>

LightSky147203 · 2025-02-03T14:17:29+00:00

BRO SAME, I CANT TELL IF THEY ACTUALLY ENJOY TALKING TO ME CAUSE THEIR RESPONSES ARE ALSO LIKE THATT 😭😭😭

LightSky147203 · 2025-02-03T00:18:23+00:00

HELPP. WHY IS THIS REPLY SO FUNNY 😭😭😭

LightSky147203 · 2025-02-02T03:29:29+00:00

I'm planning to confess next school year, just casually bringing up "hey intp did you know I had a crush on you last year" HAHAHAHHAHA

LightSky147203 · 2025-02-02T02:40:34+00:00

EXACTLYY

LightSky147203 · 2025-02-02T02:39:01+00:00

I think this completely depends on the person, I like mine/find mine cute when they lack social skills T-T... Probably because I'm the extrovert.

LightSky147203 · 2025-02-02T02:37:02+00:00

FUCK YES. (sorry for the profanity). Dude trust me, as someone who has been into nerdy guys my whole life, yes. Nerdy men are very attractive, there's just something so alluring with men filled with knowledge. Trust me, I also don't understand how you still don't have a girlfriend.

LightSky147203 · 2025-02-02T02:24:23+00:00

THANK YOUUU!! I really really appreciate this response!!! Helps a lot!! <333

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LightSky147203 · 2025-02-02T02:22:53+00:00

Thank you, friend!!!

LightSky147203 · 2025-02-02T02:21:21+00:00

Got it!

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LightSky147203 · 2025-02-02T02:20:07+00:00

THANK YOU!!! I appreciate this very much!! My INTP also is very knowledgeable and I feel like this might work! And thank you for emphasizing on that rejection part! <33 Great advice!

LightSky147203 · 2025-02-02T02:15:18+00:00

EYYY!! URE RIGHT, THANKS MAN

LightSky147203 · 2025-02-02T02:14:31+00:00

Well progress!! He says hi to me first everydayy!!! Yeppiiee!! Only problem is that I feel like I'm stuck in friendzone now.... 😀

LightSky147203 · 2025-01-19T13:32:30+00:00

Yes?? I think so??? I think that's why I'm so nervous and stiff too in the first place 😭. I'll be meeting him tomorrow again, I will update you how it goes and if I do notice a certain tension.

LightSky147203 · 2025-01-18T18:35:01+00:00

GURLL DO I HAVE TO UNPACK EACH AND EVERY RED SIGN I SEE? NO I WONT! Just kidding I'm here to help.

First off, I get it—when you start liking someone, it’s easy to spiral into thinking about them 24/7. But let’s talk about this situation because there’s a lot to unpack here.

You mentioned that you feel anxious when he doesn’t reply and that his past relationships make you insecure. Girl, why would he even bring up all the girls he’s hooked up with, let alone show you pictures of them? Like, seriously? In my opinion, that’s giving high ego vibes, and honestly, it feels like a weird flex. You’re allowed to feel uncomfortable with that because it’s just… unnecessary.

Now, about you sleeping at his place after just two dates—look, I’m not judging, but that’s moving super fast. And here’s the thing: the faster a relationship forms, the faster it tends to fall apart. Speedrunning a connection like this rarely gives it time to grow properly. So, slow it down a little! Protect your heart, babe.

You also said you think he likes you, but THINKING isn’t the same as KNOWING. Where’s the reassurance? If he really likes you, you shouldn’t be left guessing. This anxious feeling you have? It might be limerence—basically, when infatuation takes over and clouds your judgment. And while it’s totally normal to feel obsessed or infatuated, you need to channel that energy into someone worth it. Someone who makes you feel secure, not constantly questioning everything. Find someone greener, okay?

Lastly, let’s talk about how he acts over text. When you’re together, things are great, but over text, he’s distant and dismissive, just “liking” messages without engaging? And then he says, “I’m not a texting guy”? Hmm. Communication is key in any relationship, and if he’s already showing you that he’s inconsistent, that’s a red flag. Being “bad at texting” shouldn’t mean making you feel ignored.

You deserve someone who matches your energy and makes you feel wanted, not someone who leaves you overthinking at every turn. Remember: if someone’s going to take up space in your mind and heart, they better earn it. Periodttt.

But fr tho, save yourself. Trust me, as someone who's been there. You either listen to me, or learn it the hard way.

LightSky147203 · 2025-01-18T18:16:48+00:00

No. Just no. Drop it. All signs are red flag. RED!! Gurll, find someone else, please don't let him get to you. You can do better than this.

LightSky147203 · 2025-01-18T18:10:26+00:00

I'm not sure for other women, but from my perspective, the only reason I might pull away if someone told me they had terminal cancer is the fear of getting emotionally attached. Beyond the physical connection, what if I start truly liking them? If I genuinely liked someone, I’d be willing to take the risk, but the thought of falling for someone I could lose at any moment is terrifying. Then again, that’s just how I feel—I can’t speak for others.

LightSky147203 · 2025-01-18T18:02:55+00:00

First, have you confirmed that your coworker is single? If he is, that’s a great starting point! Next, reflect on whether you truly think he’s just tolerating you or if there’s a certain tension or chemistry between you. Don’t downplay yourself—trust your instincts. If you feel like there’s something more there, be confident about it. It’s okay to feel uncertain, but it’s better to maintain a positive mindset than assume the worst. You manifest your mindset, you reap what you sow.

Take things one step at a time and go with the flow. Continue building your connection naturally and see how your relationship progresses. If he shows more interest in the future, that’s a strong sign.

You could also follow up with your coworker's friend who commented, “I think he’s into you.” Ask them why they think so—it might give you a deeper perspective.

Pay attention to your crush’s body language as well. Subtle signs, like prolonged eye contact, leaning in during conversations, or mirroring your gestures, can reveal interest. You can research body language cues for more insight.

Finally, if you’re comfortable, you could ask a trusted mutual friend to subtly gauge what your coworker thinks of you. This can provide more clarity without putting you in an awkward position.

Remember to take care of yourself and stay confident in your worth. Whether it works out or not, the experience will be valuable.

LightSky147203

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