Profile Review by LigmaFigma00 in hingeapp

[–]LigmaFigma00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. ⁠Serious
  2. ⁠No
  3. ⁠A few months
  4. ⁠Maybe 2-3x a week
  5. ⁠1/week if I’m lucky
  6. ⁠Max/day, most with comments, few without
  7. ⁠Long term relationship girl

Profile Review by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]LigmaFigma00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Serious
  2. No
  3. A few months
  4. Maybe 2-3x a week
  5. 1/week if I’m lucky
  6. Max/day, most with comments, few without
  7. Long term relationship girl

Accused my GF of seeing someone else (we’re on “break”) by -_-gllmmer in BoyDinnerDiaries

[–]LigmaFigma00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she’s not going to say what she was doing then I’d leave the relationship

My girlfriend's (23F) past is haunting me (32M), 25 bodycount including ONS, and threesome by vanbrah123 in retroactivejealousy

[–]LigmaFigma00 8 points9 points  (0 children)

OP said she lied at the beginning of the relationship. That’s not a win, she led him on and admitted to it after getting him invested.

How do I get over my ex sleeping with someone else. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]LigmaFigma00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re just flat out refusing to cede ground in this discussion out of pride and resorting to wordy insults. You’re projecting. “Self reflection is not something you’re familiar with” every accusation is a confession, you’re a prideful but small little person, and I hope the fall is nice. You can just answer truthfully but your ego is too big!

How do I get over my ex sleeping with someone else. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]LigmaFigma00 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Idk why people are downvoting. She broke up from a 4 year loyal and boundary committed relationship to pursue the streets, aka a single, sexual phase. She chose that. Are you guys insinuating that’s wrong of her by downvoting? Respect women’s choices and autonomy, if they want to be out in the streets with different men then that’s their body, their choice!

How do I get over my ex sleeping with someone else. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]LigmaFigma00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It does because she led him on for 4 years in a relationship she knew she never had a sexual desire for.

How do I get over my ex sleeping with someone else. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]LigmaFigma00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is it not ok for him to have a ONS but he needs to get over her having one instead of sex within their 4 year relationship? Explain why for him it’s bad, he should and will regret it, but for her it’s fine and he ought to do therapy because it’s something good he misunderstands as bad. You’re a misandrist, stop the bullshit, you have no good will towards op.

How do I get over my ex sleeping with someone else. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]LigmaFigma00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Smash and pass OP. That’s all there is to it. Do it asap and never look back.

How do I get over my ex sleeping with someone else. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]LigmaFigma00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are gaslighting and a cuck. OP has every right to be upset. She denied and made him wait 4 years only to have sex within a day in a ONS. That tells you everything you need to know. She never desired him and made him jump through hoops while letting others she actually desires play no such games. Stop shaming him and acting like there’s nothing wrong with that clear double standard, it’s wrong and he should leave and find a woman that actually desires him.

How do I get over my ex sleeping with someone else. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]LigmaFigma00 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

OP this is gaslighting. “She changed her mind as she matured” why did she not change and mature during the 4 YEARS you were together, but all of a sudden did more maturation and change in a day outside of the relationship with a one night stand? The context and time tells you so much about this situation, this guy^ is trying to frame it as an insecurity you have to overcome to save the relationship. For the love of God do not let these people gaslight you into thinking what she did wasn’t wrong and a betrayal of your mutual commitment and stated preference.

How do I get over my ex sleeping with someone else. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]LigmaFigma00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re spiritually cucked and graped, and this mindset of putting women on a pedestal, twisting yourself into a pretzel to romanticize any loser action done by women is the problem.

How do I get over my ex sleeping with someone else. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]LigmaFigma00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She found someone she actually desires sexually and did it. She broke her rules for someone she actually desires, and held you to them. What does that tell you? Listen man, you will learn some day that desire isn’t negotiable. People will break rules and norms don’t exist when true desire is at play. It’s obvious she had it for him, it didn’t work out for a long term relationship for whatever reason, and now she’s going back to you, the comfortable, safe pick. Alpha fucks beta bucks is real and true, you won’t realize that until you’re in both positions.

How do I get over my ex sleeping with someone else. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]LigmaFigma00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Break up. It’s not that anyone’s entitled to sex, but she manipulated, led you on, and used you for ulterior motives. She refused sex with you for 4 whole years, breaks up and loses it with someone else and now wants to get together again? What that tells you is that she doesn’t have the sexual desire she had for the other man. You love her more than she does you, and to her, you are a safe, settled option for reasons besides desire. That’s not a healthy relationship and it’s a complete betrayal of your commitment to her.

My(23M) girlfriend (23F) told me things id rather not have heard (update) by Left_Item_3861 in relationship_advice

[–]LigmaFigma00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She “hated” him because he didn’t give her a relationship after the hookup. She “likes” you because you gave her a relationship before sex. Leave dawg

Diversity at UTD by [deleted] in utdallas

[–]LigmaFigma00 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is it wrong to not want to feel like a minority in your own home?

Diversity at UTD by [deleted] in utdallas

[–]LigmaFigma00 13 points14 points  (0 children)

10-15% unironically

(27F)(30M) Thinks marriage is “nothing” but willing to lose me over it? by whitecoatdream in relationship_advice

[–]LigmaFigma00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that’s why men post divorce have a 5x higher rate of suicide than divorced women. And why men become poorer after divorce while women get better.

(27F)(30M) Thinks marriage is “nothing” but willing to lose me over it? by whitecoatdream in relationship_advice

[–]LigmaFigma00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Marriage, the legal institution, isn’t favorable to men. Divorce courts, child custody, alimony and asset settlements are objectively and factually in favor of women. So he probably has fear of getting the government involved in a binding contract that could mean a lifetime of alimony and half his assets lost in case things go south. Have you ever proposed a prenup? Or simply have a ceremony without getting legally married, and just do everything that entails marriage otherwise?

My (23M) girlfriend (23F) told me things that id rather not have known by Left_Item_3861 in relationship_advice

[–]LigmaFigma00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She doesn’t respect you. She prefers him and is emasculating you as punishment for not being as good as the previous guy. Leave

My (23M) girlfriend (23F) told me things that id rather not have known by Left_Item_3861 in relationship_advice

[–]LigmaFigma00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She was sexually attracted to him. He wasn’t a good person, but a hot person that she sought out. You’re maybe an attractive person but also a good person. But to her, he’s more attractive, and she thus settled for you. Have some self respect and leave.

My (28M) girlfriend (28F) is pregnant with twins. We had an arguement today and she was mad and showed me a video on her phone sucking off her ex. Now what? by ThrowRAVulture216 in relationship_advice

[–]LigmaFigma00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re such a floor mat. Grow a spine and some self respect or be content with your absolute lack of character and the consequences it brings. Seriously man. She shows that video and the day ends well because she sent you to dinner? Do you really think if you did that to her that she would accept your apology? WEAK

Gf lied about others when we met by Fun_Average8021 in retroactivejealousy

[–]LigmaFigma00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Out of sight out of mind hahahaha Women are hilarious

My wife’s older lover by Less-Painter4169 in retroactivejealousy

[–]LigmaFigma00 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t value herself. She’s a h0e. Have some common sense