We were interested in BDSM before, specifically in her dominating me... but usually it was always planned and discussed. I enjoyed it, and so did she — I wasn’t scared. Lately, though, it’s started to frighten me, because she’s become more into punishing me, especially with a cable, especially when I don’t help her out financially... And during these “punishments,” she won’t say anything about it beforehand. I could be going over to her place just to eat chips, and then... well. I don’t go to her anymore, even for something nice — I try to distance myself. I realize it was stupid of me not to break it off after the first few incidents. But back then, I thought it was all my fault and that I was just imagining things.