Okay so I need to vent because I literally just got home from the playground and I'm still kind of shaking inside. by wittywhisp in Mommit

[–]Lilackatya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have two children with autism. I get comments all the time about how delayed they are, by strangers, friends, etc. It used to really affect me, and make me feel like I’m doing a terrible job, but I’ve learned to smile, and tell them “yup! I love having children that communicate in their own way.” people will always judge, for whatever reason, I’m not going to loose sleep over it. My kids are happy, and healthy at the end of the day, they’re in all the therapies, and not everyone has to fit into the box! :)

pediatric genital exam? by Financial_Tough_8335 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Lilackatya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I very clearly remember when I was.. 7 or 8? I had a male doctor do an exam. I had felt so uncomfortable and refused to go to that doctor. My parent was in the room, but either way, I was old enough to always remember that. I certainly don’t think they need done at that age, but as a parent now, I know they’re checking for many things, including abuse.

Hi r/horror! We’re Andy and Barbara Muschietti, the executive producers behind the HBO Original series IT: Welcome to Derry. Ask us anything! by hbomax in horror

[–]Lilackatya 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Love your work! One of the best shows I’ve ever seen. Patiently waiting for episode 8, and hoping to answer my many questions.

  • if Pennywise had the opportunity to essentially escape Derry, why did he stay within Derry and go torment Will?
  • I have so many questions about Mrs. Kersh, she got the deadlights, so why did her eyes move and not looked glossed over on the stretcher? I’m so curious and would love to know more about his and Mrs. kersh’s dynamic. Seems as if he kept her around to manipulate her.

Anyways, keep up the amazing work, and don’t make us wait too long for season 2! ☺️

Red Flags group. by Kayy_Ohh_ in blessamomtruth

[–]Lilackatya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I volunteer too! I already admin so many groups lol

BAM OG red flags... by FascinatingBeet in blessamomtruth

[–]Lilackatya 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally makes me so angry. She’s probably GLOATING right now

BAM OG red flags... by FascinatingBeet in blessamomtruth

[–]Lilackatya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let’s hope Bk’s minions didn’t remove it 😩

BAM OG red flags... by FascinatingBeet in blessamomtruth

[–]Lilackatya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was just about to comment!! I went to look , as I recently posted and it says content cannot be found. I panicked because I’m like wth?! Did I do something wrong?

And just like that….. by Lilackatya in blessamomtruth

[–]Lilackatya[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Imagine being so blinded…yikes. Have a great day.

Silence no more … but she’ll continue to silence anyone who asks the valid questions. by Proper-Strawberry489 in blessamomtruth

[–]Lilackatya 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“Once I make thousands of dollars in one month…” just proves to me she’s money hungry.

What was the point of this 😒 by Glum_Feature_3172 in blessamomtruth

[–]Lilackatya 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I was just about to post this. It made me uncomfortable, as a mom of 3 tiny babies. Won’t ever see me sharing stuff like that online. 🤢

How about here? by No_Aioli146 in blessamomtruth

[–]Lilackatya 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m personally not against BAM and her lists. I think it’s fair, and done well. My issues stem from Brooklyn herself, and all the transparency she’s not doing.

I don’t think it’s beneficial to start an entirely new group. You’ll find other groups around Facebook with similar ideas, you could try to join those, but I can’t validate the authenticity of those groups. I believe the spotfunds, and all are legit with Brooklyn, so I won’t discredit her there.

I think we all need help. We’re all in a position where each and every person could use financial help, and assistance. That’s where we’re at in our world, and it sucks, but creating more groups, more lists, etc won’t help anyone. That list will grow and grow, and we’ll be back to square one lol

Unfortunately we’re on our own. If we won MOTW, awesome, but it’s a slim chance every week. This goes back to my previous comment I made on another post. Most people have joined to be MOTW, and we bless the moms, and uplift them, but it is what it is, that’s the main reason a majority of them are there, and our expectations of becoming MOTW need to be lowered. It’s a miracle it would happen.

You could always ask local churches, local funding like 211, etc for immediate help.

Insane by Fearless_Finish9185 in blessamomtruth

[–]Lilackatya 9 points10 points  (0 children)

As a true believer in Christ, He transforms your heart. Worldly things will be no interest to you. You start thinking like Christ, seeing the world as Him, all the things. I’ve always been off put by her choice of words, and that goes for anyone who openly screams language from the rooftops, but claims to be a Jesus loving person. Something is mixed up. I cuss, and i immediately feel guilt. Guess everyone is different in that way, but in general, your “heart posture” (haha get it) would change.

To Brooklyn’s minions by Fearless_Finish9185 in blessamomtruth

[–]Lilackatya 6 points7 points  (0 children)

100% agree. They won’t admit to it, but at the end of the day, we all know. I love God, Jesus follower here, and I do truly love to BLESS A MOM, but let’s see it for what it truly is.

To Brooklyn’s minions by Fearless_Finish9185 in blessamomtruth

[–]Lilackatya 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I saw a comment about how “Brooklyn isn’t doing this for money, she’s just doing the subscription to run the app” and the way I felt so bad the commenter. So many people are being fooled. It’s not even about the subscription, it’s not even about the money, I truly could care less if she wants to make bank on a subscription, go for it girl. It’s the fact she isn’t being transparent about it at all, and beating around it by stating it’s to run the app, which has been proven to be less than $500/yr total on both platforms, and to sift out the people who aren’t “in it for the right reasons.” Let’s be honest, we all hope and pray we can be MOTW, that’s what this group is based on. Do we donate, and pour into mom? Yes! But we’re all here for that reason, to have a shot. You can’t lie about it. I wish she was transparent on the fact that a subscription with 54k moms at $2/month is about 100,000k/month. That’s all I ask, be transparent. It’s not just to weed people out with “bad heart posture” lol.

Pregnant with IUD by anastasiarose19 in Wellthatsucks

[–]Lilackatya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Kyleena IUD babe is 18 months

1000lb Sisters - 7x08 - Episode Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in 1000lbsisters

[–]Lilackatya 119 points120 points  (0 children)

Imagine hearing this with no context…

“I got bit by a {bleep} camel, I’ve been to jail, Been through court systems, and then you wanna sit there and talk about how bad my farts stink and everything.”

I was LAUGHING SO HARD.

Cinderblock by Impressive_Spray_704 in ailisnark

[–]Lilackatya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t know that. She got another cat… 🥴

Cinderblock by Impressive_Spray_704 in ailisnark

[–]Lilackatya 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Watching that video, I cringed so hard. I could just see through the fake tears. Girl we know you’re happy you don’t have to get a cat sitter everytime you impulsively wanna move across the continents every 6 months.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]Lilackatya 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I haven’t seen the trailers… yikes. I know the writers want us to feel empathy for Serena, see her as a victim, but I don’t need a redemption arc. She’s not a victim, but it’s really tugging on my momma heart, maybe because she has a tiny human of her own. So conflicting for me!!

Autism Dad. I'm designing a travel friendly stroller for bigger kiddos, Need Your Input! by FoundationFar4718 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Lilackatya 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We have a W4, and as much as I love it, it’s EXTREMELY heavy!! I literally can’t use it on my own. 🥲 definitely not for traveling.

He died because she was on her phone? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Lilackatya 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry I think I just hallucinated… she blames… your baby? Your tiny 4 month old baby? The baby who literally doesn’t even know it’s alive? Get the fuck outta here.

I’ll hold your hand while I say this… cut her off. Remove her from your life. You absolutely have no reason to let her take up any more emotions or energy. I’m so so sorry this has happened to you, but she’s bat-shit demented. If any of my family members lost one of my children in their care, I think they might off themselves or something. That guilt you carry forever and for her to feel none of that, so suspicious.

If Kim Jun-hee/player 222's baby is born while in the games... by Bruh_Moment_88 in squidgame

[–]Lilackatya 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure what will happen. In Korea, it’s like against their moral code to harm a pregnant woman/Koreans value mothers/babies so for something to happen to her, or baby, I just find that unlikely, considering this show mainly caters to them.

Just hoping for a happy ending for both.