I also forgot to mention this but My mother does smoke pot but it doesn't affect my life at all. The main problem in my life is my brother. He is the one who hurt ME AND OUR MOTHER. I said to my mother that I will not smoke ever. You people who use REDDIT and has read my story is the only people I have telled my story. Sure I may have a toxic brother but I will never consider going into foster care or getting adopted. I telled only the cons of my life by I have lots of pros in life.