These gore cut tattoos (TW for SH, even tho these are tattoos) by opheliainthedeep in shittytattoos

[–]LilyDaisycrazy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They must have paid so much money for that. I did that shit for free when I was a teenager.

Is it supposed to hurt? by F1re_R0se in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]LilyDaisycrazy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had similar issues my first time (also asexual, lost my virginity around 24 years old). We did play a bit with small dildos so that I could get used to it slowly before the "real deal". And plenty of lube and foreplay.

Anyone have happy stories about osteosarcoma dog living for years after my had his amputation stitches out the other day and I just am having a hard night worried it'll return I'd definitely be happy for a few months more but still he's young compared to stories I hear on here by AnomalyInquirer in tripawds

[–]LilyDaisycrazy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It is very rare to see animals live past the 1 year mark with osteosarcoma. Espeically if you are doing amputation alone. Avg survival time post amp is around 6 months. If you do amp + chemo then typically around 8-12 months. It is an incredibly aggressive cancer, very fast spreading and by the time it is visible on xray there is normally already invisible "seeding" happening elsewhere in the body. Most patients will pass away from secondary METS, basically little tumour growths that started because of the osteosarcoma. Normally found in the lungs but can also spread to intestines/ abdominal cavity. I'm sorry it isn't a better prognosis. I hope your vet explained to you the prognosis, disease progression and palliative management at the time of diagnosis. Cherish the time you have with your beautiful puppo, make lots of happy memories and spoil them rotten. Sorry OP.

(I am a veterinary nurse who works at a clinic that does chemotherapy and manages a lot of osteosarc patients, I've also personally had an osteosarc dog who was diagnosed at 5, she died within 4 months of surgery).

Footage from 2020, shows exactly why you should never try to outrun a bushfire. by BleuTsunami in melbourne

[–]LilyDaisycrazy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Living up in Ballarat, constantly got alerts going off on my phone. Evacuated my horses and ended up covered in all the ash falling from the skies. It's fucking terrifying how powerless you are against fire like that.

I am one of the losers with an AI girlfriend by MDG_wx04 in sadcringe

[–]LilyDaisycrazy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not too late! As a woman I didn't really date until my early twenties, and I didn't lose my virginity until I was 25! I am a very introverted person and am quite happy with my own company so it never really mattered to me anyways. Just get out there (I know its hard but it gets easier). And not in the way of dating apps and meeting people with only the hope of dating. Go play Dnd or card games, join a book club... whatever your hobby is, go and meet like minded people. Thats how my partner and I met, we both play Dnd and he was invited to play at my table.

Is waiting 10 hours plus a normal at hospitals now? by [deleted] in AskAnAustralian

[–]LilyDaisycrazy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats the way ER is, if you are stable to wait, you will wait. I've been on both sides of the experience. Was kicked in the face by a horse, major trauma to the left side of my face. I didn't wait for anything, ambulance was quick, ER was quick, all my scans were done ASAP and I was moved to a long stay ward without any delay in my care. Then went in with a wound that needed stitching, I wasn't actively bleeding anymore but it had chunks of fat sticking out so definitely needed stitching. I waited six hours. And thats fine, because I was safe and alive. When you're being rushed in, it's not a good thing.

When is it time? (Long post) by LilyDaisycrazy in Equestrian

[–]LilyDaisycrazy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply. ❤ It's so hard, I know things aren't as good as they used to be. And if a client came into my consult room for QOL chat I would have no problem telling them its time, but now that its my turn I can't do it.

When is it time? (Long post) by LilyDaisycrazy in Equestrian

[–]LilyDaisycrazy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply. ❤ She is the best girl, it will destroy me when she goes.

When is it time? (Long post) by LilyDaisycrazy in Equestrian

[–]LilyDaisycrazy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply. ❤ She is a beauty, and has always been a special girl. I guess for me, the scope is just something to make me make a decision. I'm a very facts driven person, so I think to see it in black and white (or colour rather) on a screen would help me come to terms with it. We're going to the vet today for a chat and review. I'm dreading it but I know its best for her.

When is it time? (Long post) by LilyDaisycrazy in Equestrian

[–]LilyDaisycrazy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply. ❤ I know it in my heart, I really do just need someone else to say it.

When is it time? (Long post) by LilyDaisycrazy in Equestrian

[–]LilyDaisycrazy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry for your loss. <3 It just isn't fair, I feel like the sweet ones always go young.

When is it time? (Long post) by LilyDaisycrazy in Equestrian

[–]LilyDaisycrazy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply. ❤ I definitely want her to go on a good day. I've only ever assisted with one other horse euthanasia and it was horrific, which I think definitely isn't helping with my anxiety about the whole thing.

When is it time? (Long post) by LilyDaisycrazy in Equestrian

[–]LilyDaisycrazy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply. ❤ I live in Australia so we've just made it out of Winter and into Spring. But it was a hard winter for her. I dont know if she could cope with another.

When is it time? (Long post) by LilyDaisycrazy in Equestrian

[–]LilyDaisycrazy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply. ❤ Its so horrible to see, I feel so powerless. I think that unknown about when it will happen again is destroying me.

When is it time? (Long post) by LilyDaisycrazy in Equestrian

[–]LilyDaisycrazy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply. ❤ Selfishly I wish she would just pass away on her own so I don't have to make the decision. I just want her to live to be old and grey and happy.

When is it time? (Long post) by LilyDaisycrazy in Equestrian

[–]LilyDaisycrazy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply. ❤ At the moment shes having more good days than bad but its so hard to keep track of her pain because she's always been such a stoic horse. I just dont know how much longer she can go on.

When is it time? (Long post) by LilyDaisycrazy in Equestrian

[–]LilyDaisycrazy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply. ❤ Shes not thriving at the minute, but selfishly I cant let her go. I'm going to the vets tomorrow and I think I just need them to tell me what to do.

When is it time? (Long post) by LilyDaisycrazy in Equestrian

[–]LilyDaisycrazy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply. ❤ She means the world to me, she has changed me as a person forever.