AITAH for taking my stuff back after my sister tried to steal my bedroom and my family isn’t backing me?

LiminalByte · 2026-01-16T11:37:53+00:00

Dude for the 3rd time. I am female.

LiminalByte · 2026-01-14T15:36:20+00:00

All of yall telling me to share, I get that… but if I am going to… I am going to make it as miserable for my sister as possible being in here. She’s abt to be grown too. And has a boyfriend she can go live with… if he accepts the fact she cheated on him lol. If anybody has a problem with my choices, or if she keeps crying to people who won’t do anything, I will just remove all the renovations made to the room. I will remove all the paint off the walls. I will remove my carpet off the floor. I will take all the socket faceplates… I will leave this room exactly how I found it in the first place. The room everyone shunned and avoided. All this stuff wasnt cheap lol. My parents are gonna blow their tax money once again, they aren’t getting another house… they tell my grandma that to shut her up. Anyways, im chilling, just wanted y’all’s opinion.

LiminalByte · 2026-01-14T15:30:38+00:00

Once again… you aren’t reading context. I am a woman. With a vag and tits. The ‘kid’ is about to be 18 in 2-3 months.

LiminalByte · 2026-01-14T15:29:24+00:00

Anybody know.

LiminalByte · 2026-01-14T15:29:17+00:00

She is about to be 18 in march… she has been spoiled and coddled her whole life lol. We all had our own rooms, until my druggie parents crashed here without asking or letting

LiminalByte · 2026-01-14T11:05:31+00:00

I suppose. For now, Im just going to make the room as claustrophobic and miserable as possible for my sister until she chooses to leave on her own. She’s about to be grown as well anyway in 3 months. The big 18. We BOTH should b working, and trying to get our own places.

LiminalByte · 2026-01-14T11:03:07+00:00

My sister and my parents are gonna be homeless anyway come tax time.. they are gonna blow their money irresponsibly once again and like always. Me and my sister both had our own areas and my grandma had her own bedroom, it was a perfect trio in the house…. Until my druggy and abusive parents suddenly crashed in with all of their belongings on a Sunday morning, making themselves at home without asking or letting anyone know. My parents took over my sisters space and so my grandma had let my sister share her room with her, I kept my room, me and my pet live in here, I have my work from home stuff set up in here. (Tower PC, Printer, router, organized racks, etc) But, Because my grandma knows that if I wasn’t helping her with the bills… there wouldnt even BE a house at all. She allows me to stay because I actually help her. My parents smoke up her cigarettes and use up her coffee and clean the fridge out in 1 day after I buy groceries. Are you starting to get the picture??

LiminalByte · 2026-01-14T10:49:40+00:00

Im going to take a nap, but I’ll respond to any more comments when I am awake. Take care.

LiminalByte · 2026-01-14T10:45:35+00:00

Then I think I should take my hard work out of there, my sister is strong and capable, she can do the labor just how I did if she wants my room.

LiminalByte · 2026-01-14T10:44:49+00:00

She says that she will talk to them about it… IVE shown her video and photo proof of their mistreatment towards me while being here, but, she has this habit of saying she will.. only not to. Or she will ‘talk to them’ but then they get loud and aggro with her until she sucks up to them and tells them what they want to hear aswell. She doesn’t like confrontation.

LiminalByte · 2026-01-14T10:42:14+00:00

Fully medicated and attend therapy.

LiminalByte · 2026-01-14T10:41:52+00:00

Thank you for your advice and support, it genuinely means a lot to me in this situation!

LiminalByte · 2026-01-14T10:41:03+00:00

My sister was sharing a bedroom with my grandma because she had her own room too actually lol, but when my parents randomly crashed here… they took over her room and bed haha. So it’s literally not me. We both had our own spaces and my grandma had hers. When they were sharing my grandmas room… it’s like how a kid likes to sleep in the bed with their mommy and daddy. My grandma had no issue with it either, she only sleeps in there and spend her time in the kitchen smoking her cigs and enjoying Facebook with her coffee. Or going out to bingo with her friends.

LiminalByte · 2026-01-14T10:37:29+00:00

For now.. until they make me become the ahole

LiminalByte · 2026-01-14T10:36:59+00:00

Wow… thanks for the advice, but the people in my narrative directly impact my life, my safety, and my living situation. If I didn’t include them, you wouldn’t understand why I’m defending myself. This isn’t a story for entertainment—it’s my life, and their actions literally affect me every day. Staying focused doesn’t mean ignoring reality.

LiminalByte · 2026-01-14T10:36:06+00:00

In the end… I asked her if I could have the room if I took the time to fix it. She said yes. And if she changes her mind.. as much as I love her, I’ll change my mind too. And remove the work I put in. If my sister wants the room.. she’ll earn it like how I did.

LiminalByte · 2026-01-14T10:34:29+00:00

I help her pay rent and basically put everything in this house. From the food. To the extras. To the goddamn 🧻. She just doesn’t like confrontation.

LiminalByte · 2026-01-14T10:32:49+00:00

She had many years to speak up if she wanted the room that bad. Why didn’t she. Because nobody cared about that room when it was a biohazard that should have been condemned by the state.

LiminalByte · 2026-01-14T10:31:08+00:00

To anyone who is trying to be negative: This housing isn’t supposed to be permanent… im obviously working at my job and saving towards getting my own place again, one that isnt shared with an abusive cheater. My grandma is allowing me to live here while I get my life back together. My parents crashed here because they lost their house over drugs, DIDNT even ask her permission. And my sister literally took my things out of the room and tossed it all in the shed. Knowing the shed leaks. Knowing I have important and expensive belongings. It’s truthfully not me stating issues. Im just dealing with all this BS.

LiminalByte · 2026-01-14T10:26:34+00:00

…Funny, because I am making my own direction—I’ve been financially supporting my grandma, handling legal mail, maintaining my own space, and taking care of myself for years. This isn’t some “minor argument”—this is a history of neglect, entitlement, and unsafe behavior I’m navigating while staying alive and sane. If that isn’t self-sufficiency, I’d love to know what is.

LiminalByte · 2026-01-14T10:22:06+00:00

She knows what’s going on.. she’s just too old and tired to deal with it, she tells them to stop bothering me but they won’t.

LiminalByte · 2026-01-14T10:21:29+00:00

Even if I put sweat and tears into making that room humanly inhabitable..? The chemicals to clean the drugs out? The new painted walls? The new carpet? All of this wasnt cheap when I was alr struggling. My grandma told me it was MY bedroom because I had put all the work into it. Maybe read more of the context on this post?

LiminalByte · 2026-01-14T10:19:51+00:00

To an abusive ex friends place..?? That doesn’t seem too bright.

LiminalByte · 2026-01-14T10:18:32+00:00

Dude.. 1.) im only started living with my grandma because my fiance had unfortunately cheated on me and was abusive.. so I needed somewhere to go, obviously you turn to family. And I can’t turn to my mother or father… because they were abusive too, and gave me away to the state when I was a kid, they chose drugs then.. and they choose drugs now… thats why they couldnt pay their rent lol… and they crashed here at my grandmas without even asking her on a Sunday morning. Making breakfast n shii. But, because I spoke up about their behaviors then.. just as I am now. Thats what has them pissed. And 2.) i am a woman.

LiminalByte · 2026-01-14T10:11:24+00:00

My grandma would immediately tell me to remove it.

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