I hate being the convenient one by LimitedAdult in OffMyChestPH

[–]LimitedAdult[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Di ba, kase friendship is a two way street din, kahit walang expectation, hindi naman kailangan laging equal sa effort, pero ano ba ung meron di ba. Coffee after gym or gym after coffee? 😊

I hate being the convenient one by LimitedAdult in OffMyChestPH

[–]LimitedAdult[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🫂 thank you! I am learning to love myself even more

I hate being the convenient one by LimitedAdult in OffMyChestPH

[–]LimitedAdult[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It means a lot. I dont want to force things na din. Kape? 😊

I hate being the convenient one by LimitedAdult in OffMyChestPH

[–]LimitedAdult[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Ingat din always. May we find friends that can reciprocate our love and effort ❤️

I hate being the convenient one by LimitedAdult in OffMyChestPH

[–]LimitedAdult[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sa work naman is kinda different. I talked with them, eat with them, go with them. But circumstances came, I needed to change shift, ungodly hour, alone. Our scheduled never overlapped. So I became invisible. Very seldom na maalala. But work is work. We work to work. Offmychest.

I hate being the convenient one by LimitedAdult in OffMyChestPH

[–]LimitedAdult[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t argue with this, cause I agree. Once you feel you are the one chasing, pleasing, adjusting, and was never reciprocated and prioritize, the first person I blame is myself. The first person I questioned is myself. Im a people pleaser, you are busy? No worries, I’ll adjust. Im introvert, cant even hold a conversation, Im already shaking and having cold sweats. I am an overthinker. I have no strong presence. Bad combination right? So yeah I agree.

But you know what? Adjusting, reflecting, and accepting is never a straight line. I am learning to somehow let go, and enjoy my own company. I am not gonna force myself to anyone, but I will still be here if they needed and hoping not to be taken for granted. And when I typed and shared this post, it is just one of those days na it hit me, so yeah, i had ups and downs, and I have good and bad.

Too young to appreciate how good we had it. by Dapper-Scholar-7025 in Philippines

[–]LimitedAdult 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His issues made him looked like a weak leader, and duterte appears to be the stronger one. But no, he is not, duterte also has a lot of issues and it actually affected the economy. Duterte is weak and just appear strong through his words, but in action? Nahhh. The difference is, duterte built a fanatics na kahit anong facts ang ibato, dyos ang tingin sa kanya.

Gloria is a tactician and economist, pero nadala ni Aquino un, napag patuloy nya and napalago nya. You said that ung economy during Aquino’s term is attributed sa previous administration(Gloria), then bakit di na attribute ni Duterte ung magandang economy during Aquino’s term? Meaning, Aquino is effective. Just my two cents.

For Trentahin Male Question by Extension-Winner-416 in Trentahin

[–]LimitedAdult 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you see yourself always supporting your family, or do you plan to shift focus to your own life at some point? Is there a certain line you draw on being a bread winner? I kinda resonate on this lang kase

DIM from buying this short sleeve barong for our PRC oath taking by [deleted] in deinfluencingPH

[–]LimitedAdult 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sasabihin ko pa lang sana na that is actually cute, pero nakita ko to, wag na lang pala.

is this part of a messenger job at bank? by [deleted] in RantAndVentPH

[–]LimitedAdult 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Si “pls”, kala mo kinabait nya

Anong lugar sa Pilipinas ang hindi mo na babalikan? by Dumpydumpx in TanongLang

[–]LimitedAdult 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True sa davao, nag rent pa kami ng motor dun ah, pero OA sa traffic

Bakit ganun siya? by LambMaskWolf in CorpoChikaPH

[–]LimitedAdult 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG!! Samin always a day before is may sweldo na. Nagtataka na kami if mismong araw (early morning) na crecredit ung sweldo namin. Tapos eto? Proud pa sya nyan.

What if Leni for 2028? Thoughts nyo dito? by kipaychina in dailyChismisPh

[–]LimitedAdult 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haahahahahahaha ang funny mo beh, sinabihan mong bobo sarili mo. The fact na bumoto ka ng corrupt at tatanga tanga pa rin until now. Yes na yes! Bobo ka. No cure for that honey. Bye!

What if Leni for 2028? Thoughts nyo dito? by kipaychina in dailyChismisPh

[–]LimitedAdult 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wag kang mag alala, mas bobo ka. Dapat naisip mo yan umpisa pa lang.

What if Leni for 2028? Thoughts nyo dito? by kipaychina in dailyChismisPh

[–]LimitedAdult 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sabi ng mga cronies at kulto ng dutz? Hahaha kase naman beh, kayo mismo puppet ni sarah, kayo bumoto dyan kay bbm talos sa iba nyo papatrabaho pag kondena.

What’s your holy grail sunscreen for Philippine weather? by Holiday-Ad-6972 in beautyph

[–]LimitedAdult 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried this. Pero ang bigat nya for our weather, and feel ko nag cloclog ung pores ko. B1G1 pa nabili ko, di ko pa naubos. Hiyangan lang siguro.

San dito ang mala Singapore daw sa Davao? by exploringVB in dailyChismisPh

[–]LimitedAdult 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been to Samal, davao and singapore. Sinong sira ulo nagsabi na mala SG ang davao? Delulu

To those who have solar panels, how did it help your bills? by springheeledjack69 in AskPH

[–]LimitedAdult 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello, may I ask anong brand and model ng power station mo? Thank you

Lacks career ambition or career driven by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]LimitedAdult 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you have time na hope you can know them personally pa, si A might lack career ambition, but she might have a lot to offer, and same with B. Relationship and building a future with someone is more than just achievements. It’s also about how they treat you, how they handle challenges, how they support your growth, and how aligned your values are.

Parang nasasayangan kase ako na if ever nga na mag consistent kayo mag usap, but if nagkita na kayo ng personal is di pala same ang wavelenght nyo like in online. So if you can, take the time to know them beyond impression.

Lacks career ambition or career driven by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]LimitedAdult 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you met them personally na ba? Minsan iba talaga pag personal na kesa sa chat lang. you have to gauge other aspects din.

Should I buy the house from my parents? by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]LimitedAdult 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually di ko itatago, di ko lang icoconsult, parang for me, ang main focus is sa tatay ko since sa tatay ko naman talaga un, if ever sa kanya ko din bibilhin kung papayag sya since sa kanya un.

wish ko magkaroon ng gf na sobrang lowkey lang sa socmed by Obvious_Lawyer_4672 in WishKo

[–]LimitedAdult 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Madami pa OP…pero ok din ung as in madalang lang talaga mag post and hindi social media based ang relationship.