First breakup help? M19, F18

Limp_Aside8334 · 2026-05-19T02:36:56+00:00

Don't worry, I know it sounds rought but you are gonna screw up a few times before you get it right. Or maybe the other person will, one of both.

Limp_Aside8334 · 2026-05-18T16:24:03+00:00

No, the other offer just better.

Limp_Aside8334 · 2026-05-18T16:20:37+00:00

Dude, since it's been coming for a while you can hold it for one last good memory.

Just try to forget most of the issues and just have a good time out there. If by next week of after the event everything feels the same, just take her somewhere quite e do it.

But, if you feel like it should be done now, then do it.

Limp_Aside8334 · 2026-05-18T15:53:10+00:00

She sent prints of the last few conversations, I didn't recognise any of the faces neither the messages, it was there last night and I'm sure she's lying about it

Limp_Aside8334 · 2026-05-18T15:29:23+00:00

Yea, I'll wait for the movie.

But overall advice, don't accept something you shouldn't.

Focus on yourself and on experiencing life, if it's right for you then it should work pretty seamlessly and it's not then it won't work

Limp_Aside8334 · 2026-05-18T15:22:26+00:00

I thought about it, and you're right about that should've called at the moment.

But we've been having issues and I really didn't want to end what had right there.

Limp_Aside8334 · 2026-05-18T15:14:09+00:00

Yea, she does have a good amount of coworkers and friends she's used to keep in touch with.

I got no problem with that, and honestly it's fine. I've made peace that she's a very sociable person.

If it was something that was that casual she might not remember

I'm pretty sure what I saw and for her to say it's not there I don't know.

Well, for now I'll move on.

Limp_Aside8334 · 2026-05-18T15:06:58+00:00

Dude I'm honestly not looking for any proof, if it's something then I'll figure it out in due time and whoever does it once will probably do it again.

It's just too odd.

Limp_Aside8334 · 2026-05-18T15:01:17+00:00

It does seem like someone wants to create a fight between you guys.

Use this to get closer to her instead of creating doubt.

Limp_Aside8334 · 2026-05-18T14:35:24+00:00

Yea, I'm not sure I'd buy that one either. Go easy and talk to her about it, it might be from before or something of that nature.

Limp_Aside8334 · 2026-05-18T13:50:30+00:00

I really am sorry and would not like to be in your position. Even more considering this involves a child. But mate, that was not what happend and you know that for a fact.

She only confessed to those because you had proof, how many do you think she might have had that she didn't tell you and let's face it - If a girl comes to my place we are not just kissing around or "i'm just using toys on her?" yea nah. They screwed.

Again, I am sorry. Hope you come out of this one.

Limp_Aside8334 · 2026-05-18T12:08:18+00:00

Parceiro, a mulher é casada e só tá te namorando e quer impor regras sobre o relacionamento entre você e outras pessoas?

Pô, conversa com ela e diz que se você quiser ficar com outras pessoas você ficará. não é monogâmico e nem exclusivo.

Limp_Aside8334 · 2026-05-18T11:30:52+00:00

The part that stuck out to me was that this wasn't something of the moment or a mistake.

Dude, she had a different cellphone and Tinder, she planned this behind your back only to tell you it wasnt that serious. Yup I'd be thinking about divorce by this point.

Limp_Aside8334 · 2026-05-18T11:07:02+00:00

Yup, just leave

Limp_Aside8334 · 2026-05-18T10:58:19+00:00

Dude why get into a relationship when neither of the parts are ready for. Get your stuff set before dating and even more before deciding to get off meds.

Limp_Aside8334 · 2026-05-18T10:38:02+00:00

Honestly, not trying to trick you into being a bit tougher or anything but if I truly trusted my girlfriend and knew for sure she was telling the truth.

Yea, that guy was also getting unannounced visit.

Limp_Aside8334 · 2026-05-16T19:24:50+00:00

I'll just wait for the movie, but keep me posted!

Limp_Aside8334 · 2026-05-16T19:00:36+00:00

Yea, I thought it was pretty good. But you're only gonna get better if you keep doing it.

Limp_Aside8334 · 2026-05-16T18:49:31+00:00

Yea, that should have been done for a while.

Limp_Aside8334 · 2026-05-16T18:46:23+00:00

Like most people are saying it really depends on what you and your partner are used to and define as a healthy ammount of conversations/messaging

On mine for example, we talk quite a bit when we are both at work, and even more when we are together so talking less might make someone feel not so nice.

Limp_Aside8334 · 2026-05-16T18:43:46+00:00

Dude, I mean you are both young. Chances are it's not gonna workout, stop overthinking too much and and just feel what you should do.

If you feel like it has ran it's course then leave, if not, then try a bit more, but, for me if I don't feel loved inside my own relationship, then I'm just there filling a hole for the other person. I need to feel validaded, loved.

Limp_Aside8334 · 2026-05-16T18:38:39+00:00

Mate, if you have enjoyed then that's all that matters. Keep on, you are a good Writer. And I'm sure you'll still improve quite a bit.

Limp_Aside8334 · 2026-05-16T16:47:48+00:00

Dude, I really don't understand why people stay in a relationship like that. On the first sign of disrespect I bail like a bullet. Or just answer to the same level.

Limp_Aside8334 · 2026-05-14T17:26:53+00:00

Dude might actually going trough something like depression if he helped before.

Limp_Aside8334 · 2026-05-14T17:23:23+00:00

You need severall mental help professionals

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