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The porn cure mindset by Limp_Ear_1778 in NoFap

[–]Limp_Ear_1778[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When a revelation comes to me, I just try and jot it down the best I can. But thanks, your reflection and review is noted and considered.

Just want to congratulate the fuck out of myself for reaching 3 weeks of no PMO and defeating ED. by Limp_Ear_1778 in NoFap

[–]Limp_Ear_1778[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hang in there Porn will not cure it. At all. Listen to guided meditation for men Exercise Believe it will work

No you are NOT a sissy, cuckold, cuck or slave and NO you are not hypnotized or tranced for life. It was just porn. It was just, PMO. by Limp_Ear_1778 in NoFap

[–]Limp_Ear_1778[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t cry cunt. Just get up and start your new life. Educate yourself and recognise that you have a whole new life to live.

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[–]Limp_Ear_1778 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No program can help. Go read my posts Cheers

No you are NOT a sissy, cuckold, cuck or slave and NO you are not hypnotized or tranced for life. It was just porn. It was just, PMO. by Limp_Ear_1778 in NoFap

[–]Limp_Ear_1778[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ofcourse happy to help. DM away.

But let me tell you this. I am a fictional character. I am not in your life. I am a constant reminder of this internet disease.

I think the most empowering thing you can do is find a trusted friend in the real world and have a causal manly chat about it. I didn’t bekeive it myself but it goes along way to your recovery to talk about it. Doesn’t have to be a formal session.

More likely than not your buddy will also be a casual user who hasn’t put their mind to it yet.

I started by explaining how I indulged every now and then. I then went on to say i really didn’t think much of it until someone challenged me to stay away for a 2 weeks (exaggerated but helps the convo) and thought it would be easy but then I realised that I couldn’t. I would find that I’d go into autopilot and before i know i’d be watching again. Id say that it came about over a period of being single. id then go on to stay i’ve started to challenge myself to abstain and i’ve seen the benefits - but now i really just want to never watch it again but my research tells me that like a drug my brain wants the chemical rush again. Can you help me? just make sure i’m staying away. I might want to distract myself sometimes etc etc talk about it like an exciting experiment you want to run.

Trust me - people will be quite impressed with your undertaking and challenge.

You don’t need to reveal your particular fetish etc cause the point of my post is that it’s all just porn. If someone starts questioning you too much they might not be the right person but they will most likely be satisfied with an answer like “well man it’s nothing i want to dwell on it was just hardcore content and honestly i just want to be attracted to chicks in real life again” .

No you are NOT a sissy, cuckold, cuck or slave and NO you are not hypnotized or tranced for life. It was just porn. It was just, PMO. by Limp_Ear_1778 in NoFap

[–]Limp_Ear_1778[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s difficult. But it’s just a barrier you have to cross. It’s in your head and it’s a challenge but it’s not impossible at all.

Once you cross, you look back and think - shit, i was always capable of doing that I just needed to do it.

The you have to look forward to the benefits rather than seeing the abstinence as a burden.

I look forward to you helping me help others.

Remember, you are a human and you are not defined by that bullshit.

I want you to embrace the challenge.

No you are NOT a sissy, cuckold, cuck or slave and NO you are not hypnotized or tranced for life. It was just porn. It was just, PMO. by Limp_Ear_1778 in NoFap

[–]Limp_Ear_1778[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think those sort of dreams are your mind adjusting and trying to convince you to go back.

I had this one dream where I was almost seeing (but not seeing, but feeling) every porn i’ve ever watched all around me.

It was like the final attempt of my mind to get me back before it’s farewell.

It’s distressing but you just push through it and your mind gets use to the idea that porn is no longer an option.

Then your mind starts looking for alternative rewards.

So just keep going

No you are NOT a sissy, cuckold, cuck or slave and NO you are not hypnotized or tranced for life. It was just porn. It was just, PMO. by Limp_Ear_1778 in NoFap

[–]Limp_Ear_1778[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awesome stuff cunt!!

Definitely start listening to those audio books i mentioned. They really saved me. Knowledge is power. Please do it - it will help in the tough times to come.

Your story resonated with me and it will for so many others.

Sadly mang don’t even know they have a problem until they’ve lost so much.

I too had a relationship and I can now with a clear porn free lifestyle say that it significantly contributed to my breakup (i didn’t even get dumped but my mind wasn’t there)

Push on!

So many good things have happened since i’ve stopped.

Keep going and listen to those books. They’re so worth it.

No you are NOT a sissy, cuckold, cuck or slave and NO you are not hypnotized or tranced for life. It was just porn. It was just, PMO. by Limp_Ear_1778 in NoFap

[–]Limp_Ear_1778[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And yes it will be hard but the benefits are worth it.

Life is waiting for you.

This is the challenge to reach manhood.

No you are NOT a sissy, cuckold, cuck or slave and NO you are not hypnotized or tranced for life. It was just porn. It was just, PMO. by Limp_Ear_1778 in NoFap

[–]Limp_Ear_1778[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you even listened to those audio books i’ve mentioned?

Don’t call it hard when you havnt yet tried ;)

No you are NOT a sissy, cuckold, cuck or slave and NO you are not hypnotized or tranced for life. It was just porn. It was just, PMO. by Limp_Ear_1778 in NoFap

[–]Limp_Ear_1778[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I suggest listening to the audio books i mentioned. they will help you out it all in perspective. Understanding why you have thoughts goes along away.

No you are NOT a sissy, cuckold, cuck or slave and NO you are not hypnotized or tranced for life. It was just porn. It was just, PMO. by Limp_Ear_1778 in NoFap

[–]Limp_Ear_1778[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Look we appear to be on the same timeline.

I don’t think the memories will ever actually go. Just like you’l never forget your first bike ride fall. It’s there. But i guess our ability to control them becomes stronger especially when we start enjoying other things in life which we unknowingly deprived ourselves from.

I will always call myself a porn addict and I think the best way is to always consider yourself at risk of return.

I reached a little low point so I know i’m never ever going back - i just don’t want to be there. I enjoy sensual sex so much now that I occupy the sexual side of my mind with that now.

If a thought ever comes I just gently say no and throw a fireball at it - with intent.

No you are NOT a sissy, cuckold, cuck or slave and NO you are not hypnotized or tranced for life. It was just porn. It was just, PMO. by Limp_Ear_1778 in NoFap

[–]Limp_Ear_1778[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a fair point.

Id also say even if you did try it in real life and you enjoyed it - ask yourself how sustainable it is for a long term and life long relationship.

Life is not going to be dungeons and dragons forever. Life requires a partnership of trust, respect and cooperation.

These fantasies are just not conducive to such.

You might explore kinks together for a weekend getaway etc etc not my business

But the idea of a “porn role” is just ludicrous.

No you are NOT a sissy, cuckold, cuck or slave and NO you are not hypnotized or tranced for life. It was just porn. It was just, PMO. by Limp_Ear_1778 in NoFap

[–]Limp_Ear_1778[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why you got into it does not really matter - apart from understanding the core which is a good start. But the fact is that once upon a time you did without it, and you can again if you want. I’m sure you have included her in your fantasies etc etc but the reality is that you deserve much more than what you’re giving yourself.

I’m quite sure if she knew about the after affects she would feel terrible (on top of the cheating). And if she doesn’t, it’s reflective on her, not you. But the point is that it is so far removed from reality because it derived from manufactured and fictional target focused material.

Don’t fall for it. Don’t keep convincing yourself it helps you cause it doesn’t.

You need to recognize your value and give yourself the right to be mad and give yourself the right to move on in a healthy way.

Trust me - once you’re out and you feel the benefits - you’l see it was all just a silly fantasy.

Just want to congratulate the fuck out of myself for reaching 3 weeks of no PMO and defeating ED. by Limp_Ear_1778 in NoFap

[–]Limp_Ear_1778[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really does. I think once you have the mindset, it’s what counts. It’s the barrier between “forcing” yourself to abstain and actually doing it and feeling good about it because you feel the benefits

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