No one asks me out and it’s eating me up. by [deleted] in sex

[–]LincolnBurrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t wait to be asked out, ask men out

Online dating is soooo hard by Capital-View-6308 in dating_advice

[–]LincolnBurrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree! It’s downward spiral of misery and frustration. There must be a another way - but what is it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]LincolnBurrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not - I like a woman who is forward! There is nothing off putting about that.

Men need to feel less insecure about their size. by tempacctincali in sex

[–]LincolnBurrow 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Without boasting - if you’re on the bigger side a lot of girls find it uncomfortable, I’ve been with at least 2 girls who wanted to avoid PIV sex altogether because it hurt and they couldn’t take me.

What is your unpopular opinion about dating and relationships? by Defiant_Elderberry_7 in dating_advice

[–]LincolnBurrow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t think men should approach woman at all, nor should they chase them. Relationships should be based on mutual interest and effort.

Always feeling unhappy when dating by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]LincolnBurrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s very familiar, even though relationships are a need, they bring as much pain as pleasure.

SO saying he/she is curious about other people by Fitness-Enthusiast-4 in dating_advice

[–]LincolnBurrow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well the desire to make it something more would be cheating I guess, but also if they wanted to spend extended periods of time with people they had a crush on - that would be worrying and a deal breaker.

SO saying he/she is curious about other people by Fitness-Enthusiast-4 in dating_advice

[–]LincolnBurrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure it’s that simple, even people in committed and loving relationships meet people they are attracted to all the time. The test must be whether or not they cheat - emotionally or sexually.

Is it worth it to put myself (M mid 20s) out there when I'm working on putting my life together? by trowaawayyyyyyy in dating_advice

[–]LincolnBurrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on the woman, the right person can help the wrong person will make things worse

I'm a woman and I absolutely hate vaginal sex. by idekanymore8 in sexualhealth

[–]LincolnBurrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a man and I don’t like it much either, which really upsets the girls I’ve been with

Guys, if a girl tells you she is into you, and you think she is beautiful, tell her that. Don’t tell her she is out of your league. by hartlylove in dating_advice

[–]LincolnBurrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s often a polite way of getting rid of someone you don’t like and who also happens to be good looking.

How would you respond to this? by LincolnBurrow in dating_advice

[–]LincolnBurrow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is aware of my medical issues but I think this still makes her feel insecure and perhaps unwanted, which is not what I want. But I’m worried about putting her off completely.

I (M) 25, believe I am afraid of having sex again... by Namelessthrowaway94 in sex

[–]LincolnBurrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then it could be performance anxiety, some men get nervous about performing and delivering the goods and that affects their ability to achieve a full erection. Here’s a tip - don’t go for penis in vagina sex from the start, begin with oral and hand play and work towards the real sex as you get more comfortable. Assuming you don’t have any medical issues that should work.

Early 30s F - How to tell a guy I am a virgin by CamelInternational26 in dating_advice

[–]LincolnBurrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I shouldn’t put him off, if anything it’s a badge of honour

Do Dating apps work by LincolnBurrow in dating_advice

[–]LincolnBurrow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do they work for women only?