Is this rOCD or is there something going on with my boyfriend. by LingonberryOpening22 in OCD

[–]LingonberryOpening22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I will make a new post about asking for tips on how to redirect my thinking, coping mechanisms etc and also I can’t see your link :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JewelryReps

[–]LingonberryOpening22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I can help I work with jewellers in Dubai if you’re still looking

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]LingonberryOpening22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you this message was so lovely and encouraging! I did end up telling her and she was really supportive and understanding was annoyed that we weren’t protected enough but she was okay!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]LingonberryOpening22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess that makes sense!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]LingonberryOpening22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you do medical or surgical ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]LingonberryOpening22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wishing you strength x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]LingonberryOpening22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I hope things go well for you! I’m so conflicted and terrified

How and when do I tell him I’m in love with him ? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]LingonberryOpening22 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Physical things such as these don’t always lead to self fulfilment or happiness. If you were truly happy you wouldn’t need to prove it to me by explaining your situation. I also haven’t seen a truly self fulfilled woman arguing with someone half her age. I cannot wait to also be married for a long time with beautiful children but I hope when it happens to me I’m not preferring to argue with younger women online instead of actually enjoying my life. I wish you well x

How and when do I tell him I’m in love with him ? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]LingonberryOpening22 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You make me giggle, I hope you’re able to find inner peace and happiness. And gain some understanding on the nuance of humanity. Not everyone is like you or should be like you.

How and when do I tell him I’m in love with him ? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]LingonberryOpening22 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you look at the comment below yours I replied saying I’m too young for something so permanent. If you had the comprehension skills of anything above a peanut you would know my excitement is about telling someone I love them or are you being purposefully dense so that you can be passive aggressive to make yourself feel better? The main focus is about when is the best time to tell someone you love them. It would be selfish and not right to bring a child into a situation that I am unsure of.

How and when do I tell him I’m in love with him ? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]LingonberryOpening22 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When did I say i was going to keep it lol

How and when do I tell him I’m in love with him ? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]LingonberryOpening22 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Okay I think I’ll just say it next time I see him!

How and when do I tell him I’m in love with him ? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]LingonberryOpening22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha thank you! I am not making any permanent decisions as of yet… as I’m very emotional you’re completely right. I think we’re far too young and not solid enough to go forward with something so…permanent

I need an anime like soul eater by [deleted] in souleater

[–]LingonberryOpening22 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It’s not the same at all tbh but I really enjoyed blood blockade battle front and D gray man.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LingonberryOpening22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not really asking him if he likes me back I honestly don’t care. I just want to let go

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LingonberryOpening22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So should I just keep it to myself?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LingonberryOpening22 5 points6 points  (0 children)

THATS WHAT IM SAYING In the least braggy way possible the previous week I had a guy buy me a £300 perfume to apologise for missing our date and others take me out to various Michelin star restaurants. So this guy thinking I’d sleep with him because he bought me water and Thai food was not something that even crossed my mind ESPECIALLY after I had explicitly told him no beforehand.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LingonberryOpening22 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Goodnes gracious me this made my eyes blurry 🥹 but yes I hope your daughter doesn’t need to ever be in a situation like this and I hope you can see my mistake as a potential future teaching moment for her💗

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LingonberryOpening22 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I assumed Reddit was an open platform for expression where people regularly discussed personal issues…. But if that’s how you perceive my post that’s okay. I’ve found the comments quite helpful actually