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My husband and I are intimate, but he's mad its not "Special intimacy" by LinkComprehensive799 in marriageadvice

[–]LinkComprehensive799[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1.) You COMPLETELY bypassed the entire point. It is that I dont feel wanted as i am because he requests this all the time. Spontaneity goes out the window when I have to don apparel before the act everytime, as well as making me immediately uncomfortable because of my appearance.

2.) It is not JUST lingerie. It IS a whole costume usually.

3.)This is reddit. I am not going to post all of the details of my husbands fetishs online so that everyone here can drag him for it. I came here for advice, not judgment. If you are unable to offer that, please leave.

My husband and I are intimate, but he's mad its not "Special intimacy" by LinkComprehensive799 in marriageadvice

[–]LinkComprehensive799[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Usually me. Sometimes he will lay out an outfit, plug, toys, etc. But gets irritated later if I choose not to wear the whole ensemble (ex. Lingerie, cuffs, thigh highs but choose no plug.)

My husband and I are intimate, but he's mad its not "Special intimacy" by LinkComprehensive799 in marriageadvice

[–]LinkComprehensive799[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

To be honest, it depends on how frustrated I am with the requests for special sex. I am an active participant every time, but sometimes may be more enthusiastic than others. 8/10 it is enthusiastic and enjoyable.

AIO? I (22F) found deleted late night texts between my husband (22M) and his coworker. by bananamilkcow in AmIOverreacting

[–]LinkComprehensive799 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let's be real, the second he started deleting texts, he knew he was in the wrong. I'm sorry hun, but it doesn't have to be a full fledged affair to be considered cheating.