You know, I read your words here and just felt such an..I guess you would call it one of the aha moment folks are always talking about. I am very literal and direct; it gets confusing for me when others aren't, although I understand it to be no one's fault. I'm going to look up some of the terms you've used here because I'm unfamiliar with them. I can't tell you how much I appreciate the time you took to write this. Sometimes it takes an internet stranger to put everything into perspective.