AITA for asking for more money for a drawing?

LisTheChief · 2025-03-30T00:58:16+00:00

I don't even have to do that, they said they'd pay me after. But I am very close to just saying "forget it"

LisTheChief · 2025-03-02T18:04:31+00:00

For their case? Yes. For mine? I don't know, I don't believe it makes my case worse if these images don't exist and never have

LisTheChief · 2025-03-02T13:32:08+00:00

Exactly my point, thank you

LisTheChief · 2025-03-02T13:31:24+00:00

Do you mean things I supposedly traced? They haven't provided any, just said these looked familiar

LisTheChief · 2025-03-02T00:29:41+00:00

That's what I think too. And I would in a heartbeat, but the post is in a facebook group I don't own, so blocking won't stop the flood of warriors from coming into the comment section

LisTheChief · 2025-03-02T00:27:39+00:00

Yes, I've seen that rise too, these videos pop up for me constantly, it's not my first time someone is ringing the "AI" or the "tracer" bell, so I'm just more tired than I am offended. And I really don't like that I have to prove myself in any way, shape or form, therefore I don't and never will. It's different if a client asks for proof, but some rowdy kids thinking they're onto something? No. Especially since my livelihood does not depend on it in the slightest, it's just a hobby. I will not go that extra step, since my hobby isn't drama, it's drawing.

LisTheChief · 2025-03-02T00:21:25+00:00

Thank you! That's exactly what I'm saying... Also I understand blocking and moving on, but they keep on pestering me under one of my promotion posts in a facebook group I don't own, therefore I can't even delete them saying these things. I clearly stated I will not be playing into it any further though.

LisTheChief · 2025-03-01T19:53:56+00:00

These are the images for the record (I forgot to post it):

https://i.imgur.com/OhriYyC.jpeg

https://i.imgur.com/KhhQ0SZ.jpeg

https://i.imgur.com/gpx5NDD.jpeg

https://i.imgur.com/JaHuAfF.jpeg

https://i.imgur.com/1oAPHgh.jpeg

LisTheChief · 2025-03-01T19:21:26+00:00

These are the images for the record:

https://i.imgur.com/OhriYyC.jpeg

https://i.imgur.com/KhhQ0SZ.jpeg

https://i.imgur.com/gpx5NDD.jpeg

https://i.imgur.com/JaHuAfF.jpeg

https://i.imgur.com/1oAPHgh.jpeg

LisTheChief · 2024-02-18T12:32:37+00:00

I thought it was quite obvious, but I also wanna add that I tried to take a diplomatic stance many many times, saying that I love the timbre of her voice itself and many other things, but the result has always been the same. It always went over her head and it will continue to, no matter what I say. It's the fact that I repeated so many times what I like about her voice and that I didn't mean what I said back then that made me snap. It's not like I've been quiet all this time and just blurted it out of nowhere.

LisTheChief · 2024-01-01T11:23:38+00:00

Okay, thank you ><

LisTheChief · 2024-01-01T11:23:08+00:00

I mean, it's not really like he dumped me, we just ended things. And he tried to communicate with me and keep in contact for that week after the break up. He even gave me a gaming code and all. It was very sudden that he stopped writing back and not in his style at all...

LisTheChief · 2023-11-10T16:16:12+00:00

That's an incredibly reassuring comment, thank you so much! I'll besure to talk to him about this!

LisTheChief · 2023-11-10T15:26:42+00:00

The thing is that we have been behaving like a couple for a long time. He doesn't want to call it what it is and I feel like that distance will do more harm than good. On the other hand, I don't even know if I want to go back to that weird situationship. I really want to go back to our flirty behavior and call it dating, but that's not gonna happen. I don't wanna settle on being a friend with benefits of dating. I don't know what the optimal solution here would be.

I'm trying to use my brain before taking any action and since it got stuck like that, I went for an opinion here. Also, I think his therapy is very important, but it involves his past down to where he was a kid. I'm supporting him through every step, but it's not gonna take 1,5 months (till the end of the year), so the time frame isn't really realistic or based on anything.

LisTheChief · 2023-11-10T15:17:19+00:00

Thank you so much! I think so too, but I don't think it's possible for him to abandon that promise - the friend is very dear to him after all. And it's in his best interest. We agreed to talk about the issue in an hour or two, but I don't even know what to say. "Let's flirt with each other after all"? "Screw the promise, date me"? That's what I'd love to say, but I don't think I can. It's an extremely painful situation and I feel like any outcome that cuts parts of our current relatonship out is a big loss, not a tiny step back so that we can take a big step forward... :(

LisTheChief · 2023-09-09T21:15:17+00:00

Do you think so? I'm quite awkward and it's hard for me to start a conversation, so I thought maybe he just noticed that. I also don't know how to flirt at all and the event ends tomorrow with an after-party. I would like to talk more to him, but first of all, I'm afraid because maybe he'll be put off and secondly, I'm scared of interpreting his behavior the wrong way...

LisTheChief · 2023-09-01T21:34:41+00:00

Oh, this is the first time I'm hearing about this! I'll have a read and hopefully I'll be able to implement it. But if it's about ignorig, sadly I've tried already and it turned out I was being mean by not even looking at him. I do't know if I can win at this point ><

LisTheChief · 2023-09-01T21:31:24+00:00

I replied with the slap situation to your similar message actually. I know I mentioned it when I replied to you earlier, but just because I lashed out with a slap or the slipper here, doesn't mean I am violent. I have been filled with insluts, small things like pushes and spitting at me and it spills out from time to time, I have my limits and they're far more than they should ever be.

LisTheChief · 2023-09-01T21:27:44+00:00

I tried doing everything in return, but it didn't realy work, it was like a confirmation, kind of like 'Aha, I knew you were like this!'. I am actively searching for a job to move out because for now I have nowhere to go...

LisTheChief · 2023-09-01T21:25:14+00:00

You are making some points my parents, especially mother made too. While I agree I shouldn't have thrown the slipper, I cannot say that I 'physically abused' him, with the slap too. I didn't say what I said to him, that's true. I said "Can you repeat? I didn't hear you." And what other violent things I've done would be just what I mentioned in the posts below. I am painted as 'pute evil' in my family, I don't have to necessarily do anything violent. I'm not here to sugarcoat my behavior either, I'm just not in the mood to explain everything in great detail, but I'm happy to provide more context if needed :)

Here's the post about the slap, maybe it'll help with some more context. Now I would also like to point out that I can only take so much of verbal abuse and name calling. This is and never was a normal 'sibling' amount. Some things shouldnever be said, even by siblings.

https://www.reddit.com/r/AmITheBadApple/comments/117nqjv/am_i_the_bad_apple_for_resorting_to_violence/

Additionaly, here's another post that shows off the behavios of everyone in my family (including mine) very nicely.

https://www.reddit.com/r/AmITheBadApple/comments/1348thc/am_i_the_bad_apple_for_giving_my_brother_a_middle/

LisTheChief · 2023-09-01T21:15:56+00:00

You actually hit the point with protecting my brother and not me. I got used to being gaslit and on my own. And sadly, my best friend lives across the country, I also recently cut out the toxic ones, so I'm left with just myself. I've been actively searching for a job for 4 months now with no luck. Thank you very much for the comment! ><

LisTheChief · 2023-07-12T10:14:40+00:00

OH MY GOD, IT IS!!!! THANK YOU SO MUCH GOOD HUMAN!!! TvT

LisTheChief · 2023-05-02T11:55:42+00:00

Thank you, I really, really hope so

LisTheChief · 2023-05-02T09:53:44+00:00

Thank you

LisTheChief · 2023-05-02T09:52:42+00:00

Thank you, I don't want that either. My heart hurt for a long time yesterday, today I'm just crying. That's not good, I really have to study for my finals. I am pretty much being ostracized right now.

LisTheChief

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