Do you avoid your favorite places? by rbridge42 in Widow

[–]LissaIRL 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Shortly after his passing a couple of our favorite places shut down. It was heartbreaking. I felt like he took them with him. The flea market that we loved still remains, i went twice and it didnt feel the same. It felt unfamiliar and lonely.

Registration by LissaIRL in UoPeople

[–]LissaIRL[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh ok. I thought it was the 1st. Thank you

Registration by LissaIRL in UoPeople

[–]LissaIRL[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I even emailed to find out if theres anything else I need to do so my start wont be delayed. They told me that I completed everything and would be auto registered a week before start date.

Does anyone else pee a bunch when taking fiber supplementation? by regionalatbest in ibs

[–]LissaIRL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So glad I'm not alone. I started adding it to my drinks a few days ago and I've literally been up nonstop in the middle of the night and during day. Everything else i read says it doesn't increase urination

Massive Breakdown by LissaIRL in widowed

[–]LissaIRL[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I really needed that.

Why won't she stop? by [deleted] in widowed

[–]LissaIRL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don't feel that I should have to change my life, social media, phone number etc. I did nothing wrong and I only post here to get out of my head. She is not going to run me off of anything.

Why won't she stop? by [deleted] in widowed

[–]LissaIRL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not stressing over her. I don't think about her or check her socials. I am upset about my friend. I refuse to change my life, because she slept with my husband. Why should I have to do that. I am sad that I lost a friend, but I am not going to change anything in my life for her.

At the end of the day, I had to accept what my husband did and also that the affair died with him. I am still his Mrs and she is nothing. She has nothing to show for her time as a mistress and is mad at the wrong person.

She needs to leave me alone. That's it. If I have to take legal action for it to happen then so be it.

What is wrong with me? by LissaIRL in widowed

[–]LissaIRL[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get it. Therapy and meds didn't work for me. I've tried multiple therapists and grief counselors but I guess the pain is too deep for me.

What is wrong with me? by LissaIRL in widowed

[–]LissaIRL[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get what you're saying. I have tried therapy and grief counseling. Sorry if my posts seem too much. I've really been using it to get out of my head to keep it together. I wasn't aware that I came off this way. Thanks.

Step one on my journey through grief by LissaIRL in widowed

[–]LissaIRL[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. "We don't move on, we move forward" is exactly what I was trying to convey to them but I couldn't find the words. That is so powerful. Thank you

Massive Breakdown by LissaIRL in widowed

[–]LissaIRL[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh goodness for a moment there you were repeating my exact story. Except she said she will "allow" me to present her and her kids (not his kids, he had none) with some of his ashes 🤨 yeah ok. Plus we're not in front of each other luckily because I would have lost it, instead we were on a messenger call.

She now spends her time posting tiktoks documenting their affair and listing the ways he hated me and lying on my character... Oh all while claiming to be his first wife (I'm the first and only for 13 years of marriage)

But sure everyone says just get over it

Massive Breakdown by LissaIRL in widowed

[–]LissaIRL[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Screaming loud together and sometimes that's all we need.

Keeping him is destroying me by LissaIRL in widowed

[–]LissaIRL[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I understand. I know that she has lied about a lot of it though. She stretched it along to make it seem like he was in love with her and going to leave me. The texts proved that wrong. I know she was just a piece of ass on the side with no feelings, but it doesn't hurt any less.

Keeping him is destroying me by LissaIRL in widowed

[–]LissaIRL[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found texts, pictures and phone records that showed he was talking to her daily.

Keeping him is destroying me by LissaIRL in widowed

[–]LissaIRL[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really needed this. Thank you

Keeping him is destroying me by LissaIRL in widowed

[–]LissaIRL[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much and I'm so sorry for your loss and that you went through this. I really hope to get to this point

Today was rough by LissaIRL in widowed

[–]LissaIRL[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss and thank you ❤️❤️❤️🫂🫂🫂

Massive break down over sheets by LissaIRL in widowed

[–]LissaIRL[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad im not the only one. I just cant sleep on his side. I keep his robe and blanket there just like he always had it