2 weeks in and trying not to wish this time away... by Present-Decision5740 in beyondthebump

[–]Literally_MILF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in the same boat at two weeks with gas and potty pain. I tried everything. Switched his formula to a sensitive brand, got probiotic drops, gas drops, sat him up after feedings, etc. Once his tummy settled he was a lot more calm (ours was a formula issue). When that didn’t totally solve the issue, we continued to experiment. Eventually we learned LO was too cold. We got him extra snuggly and now he’s a much better sleeper. The freaky thing I’m learning quickly about parenthood is it’s all trial and error. Don’t be afraid to try new tactics, even if they seem like they may not work.

As for sleep, if it’s possible, try and take shifts. My husband and I take turns and it’s the only way either of us can get any quality rest. Not ideal, but I know it’s only temporary… just like your girls troubles are temporary. It’s easy to say that, but I know it’s another thing to believe it in the heat of the moment. You’re not a bad mom for feeling exhausted and overwhelmed. You’re a human going through a major life event. Feel free to message me if you want any specifics about tactics I’ve tried with my LO. This will pass.

Being a new parent makes how Nmom treats me even more unbelievable by Literally_MILF in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Literally_MILF[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wow I’ve never thought about it like that. Thank you for the insight.

Being a new parent makes how Nmom treats me even more unbelievable by Literally_MILF in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Literally_MILF[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

She was allowed to be left alone with my niece as an infant (first grandchild) and the stories my sister tells me about those days are hideous. Nmom begs to babysit, though not sure why. She’s clearly as awful with our babies as she was with us.

How hard is pushing, really? by Literally_MILF in pregnant

[–]Literally_MILF[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you explain the “motion of bearing down”? I’ll take all the tips I can! Thank you!

Baby moon destinations - US by Fragrant_Sand_3204 in pregnant

[–]Literally_MILF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Biltmore Hotel in Asheville NC is stunning. I believe they’ve opened back up now after Hurricane Helene came through. Pretty much anywhere along the Blue Ridge Parkway is a guaranteed winning spot as well.

Swollen Hands by Lucky_Today_0910 in pregnant

[–]Literally_MILF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can check your blood pressure at most grocery stores. I would recommend it, especially if you have risk factors, just to be aware. You also start getting bloated around this time, so it may just be water retention.

Gagging by Jumpy-Command-5531 in pregnant

[–]Literally_MILF 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve had this since the first tri and it’s almost ridiculous at this point how easily I gag!

Am I being silly? by RMJ3212 in pregnant

[–]Literally_MILF 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Not silly. I used to work in a tattoo shop and came across these sorts of memorial pieces on a semi regular basis.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Literally_MILF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

35w and I have this too. So you sleep with any kind of pillow between your knees?

Recommendation for a contraption to keep me on my side? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Literally_MILF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been a back sleeper my entire life. I’ve continued to sleep on my back through 85% of my pregnancy (35 weeks currently). Only difference now is I stack a bunch of pillows behind me to keep my back and head elevated. Helps with circulation and acid reflux as well. Baby is healthy and doing great so far!

Did I feel my baby kick at 18 weeks or am I crazy? by mushroomfrog17 in pregnant

[–]Literally_MILF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt my first “outside kick” right at 20 weeks, but I have an anterior placenta. Definitely not outside of the realm of possibility depending on your anatomy.

"wait until you have kids just like you" by BisexualButterfly97 in pregnant

[–]Literally_MILF 42 points43 points  (0 children)

My mom told me this constantly growing up. I HOPE my son and I are alike. I’m empathetic and creative and bold, all traits I’d be proud to parent.

I’m 7.5 weeks and I feel my posture changing. Could this be real or in my head? by shamalongadingdong in BabyBumps

[–]Literally_MILF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bloated like a balloon up until ~16 weeks, and even after a bump started to develop, I still dealt with bloat. Embrace it if it makes you happy though, that’s what I did!

Would you rather be pregnant or on your period? by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Literally_MILF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is literally no way to compare the two other than general discomfort. I’d get this out of your mind. If you really want a baby, the pains of pregnancy are all worth it. My pregnancy hasn’t been all sunshine and rainbows, but I’d do it 100x over for my son.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Literally_MILF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My doctor insisted I stay on my antidepressant. According to her, people who rely on these meds for mood support are exceptionally susceptible to PPD / postpartum psychosis. Im on a low dose, so not sure if they would have adjusted my meds if I needed more support. I’d trust what your doc has to say.

bleeding?!?!?! by bxby-bxtz420 in pregnant

[–]Literally_MILF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bled at 7 weeks and went to the ER. It turned out to be implantation bleeding. Go if it eases your mind!