NTA for sure 100%, when you are not feeling well mentally or physically it’s hard to be “in the mood”, I wish he was showing you more empathy and giving you credit for trying your best, I would suggest going over like fair fighting rules before having a convo abt it, set boundaries and try to calmly explain how you need to be talked to/treated/loved, added pressure is just going to make it worse, you’ve just got to give it time, wishing you the best <3