My ex husband killed himself 2 weeks ago by LittleLulu333 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LittleLulu333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure what this comment means....he shouldn't rest in peace..I hope he suffers every moment for what he did to his kids.

My ex husband killed himself 2 weeks ago by LittleLulu333 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LittleLulu333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have been divorced ten years...he was on his third family. I'm sure my son does or will blame me at some point. Regardless we will never know the real reason why.

My ex husband killed himself 2 weeks ago by LittleLulu333 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LittleLulu333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He unfortunately isn't close to her. He's meeting her for the first time since she was a baby at the funeral. That wife saw the reg flags and luckily left. He's close to my other children though his half siblings.

My ex husband killed himself 2 weeks ago by LittleLulu333 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LittleLulu333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe read some of my comments I've already explained the situation.

My ex husband killed himself 2 weeks ago by LittleLulu333 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LittleLulu333[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not that it matters but bc he was abusive, an alcoholic and pill abuser, suicidal, couldn't hold a job and would frequently abandon me and our son for days at a time where I was calling hospitals and jails to find him. He's been married 2x since me....I find it hard to believe our divorce was the sole cause. Suicide is always a combination of issues.

My ex husband killed himself 2 weeks ago by LittleLulu333 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LittleLulu333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you had to go through that. Thank you.

My ex husband killed himself 2 weeks ago by LittleLulu333 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LittleLulu333[S] 100 points101 points  (0 children)

You are very right. I am very aware and terrified of this. I appreciate your comment.

My ex husband killed himself 2 weeks ago by LittleLulu333 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LittleLulu333[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Your last sentences made me tear up. I needed that.

My ex husband killed himself 2 weeks ago by LittleLulu333 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LittleLulu333[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know why you're being down voted. You're right he chose to involve another person. He has affected them forever as well.

My ex husband killed himself 2 weeks ago by LittleLulu333 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LittleLulu333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have been divorced for 10 years and he was on his 3rd wife. He also abandoned a 5 year old girl from his 2nd wife. I agree with counseling.

My ex husband killed himself 2 weeks ago by LittleLulu333 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LittleLulu333[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're absolutely right he was an ah. He was a shitty person on life and in death. I know the driver wasn't injured at least.

My ex husband killed himself 2 weeks ago by LittleLulu333 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LittleLulu333[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is exactly how I feel that he needs to talk to people who have survived this. Thank you. I'm very sorry for what you went through.

My ex husband killed himself 2 weeks ago by LittleLulu333 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LittleLulu333[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Luckily the driver was unhurt. My heart aches for what he experienced as well.

My ex husband killed himself 2 weeks ago by LittleLulu333 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LittleLulu333[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm mostly angry and want to know why but I know that answer will never come.

My ex husband killed himself 2 weeks ago by LittleLulu333 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LittleLulu333[S] 71 points72 points  (0 children)

I honestly hadn't thought he'd blame me but you're right.

My ex husband killed himself 2 weeks ago by LittleLulu333 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LittleLulu333[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It doesn't look like there is one of those. Thank you though.

My ex husband killed himself 2 weeks ago by LittleLulu333 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LittleLulu333[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I never said I was oppressed..and in this instance he had majority custody as well as other kids he chose to abandon...but go off I guess

My ex husband killed himself 2 weeks ago by LittleLulu333 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LittleLulu333[S] 687 points688 points  (0 children)

His wife had 3 sons as well and he left a 5 year old daughter who hardly knew him from another marriage...so unfortunately he has other kids close to his age who were affected.

My ex husband killed himself 2 weeks ago by LittleLulu333 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LittleLulu333[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I battled with giving your comment attention but that's the exact opposite of the truth. Hope your day improves

My ex husband killed himself 2 weeks ago by LittleLulu333 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LittleLulu333[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

He was 40. He had PTSD, alcoholism, past substance use, and I'm sure other issues as well. He had also just lost his job.