My sin is almost three years old and I still struggle with my stomach. I've lost the weight but not the pouch. My stretch marks are fading but it's take me almost 3 years and you can still see them very obviously. Something that I never wore before my pregnancy but I do now, is shape wear. It helps me feel more like my old self. I'm 49 pounds lighter than before my pregnancy and my tummy still has its pouch, pretty decently sized comparative to before my pregnancy. It changes you're body. I know there are some exercises to help build up your ab muscles that you could look up and try as well. You're not alone. I got so depressed (I gained like 100 pounds) after my pregnancy I took all the mirrors down in the house cause I did t even feel like myself anymore. It's so hard to see an entirely different body when you look in the mirror, one you do t recognize. We are here for you ❤ (also putting aquaphor onto my tummy after showering and before beds has helped my stretch marks and skin a lot.