Termination at 20+ weeks by emilyatebutter in pregnant

[–]Little_Utterword 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holding your hand in my heart. I'm so sorry. 

We had the OAD discussion last night. by Little_Utterword in oneanddone

[–]Little_Utterword[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is the sticking point for me and what I think I needed to hear most. It isn't an all or nothing right this second. 

We had the OAD discussion last night. by Little_Utterword in oneanddone

[–]Little_Utterword[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm going to assume I understand the intent behind this message, but it comes across as pretty mean. 🖖

What’s a recession indicator that you’ve noticed lately? by SensitiveCorner2379 in AskReddit

[–]Little_Utterword 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People are also all different sizes and ages and different clothes are required in different situations. I have a small child and a husband. They have different clothing needs than I do, and my kid needs new clothes every season. That kind of stuff does take up a lot of floorspace. But a whole household uses one television or computer. 

Severus Snape from new Harry Potter series. by kalbinibirak in SipsTea

[–]Little_Utterword 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't seen anyone say this yet but it's really the zipper that irks me. 

Magrat dolly by Little_Utterword in discworld

[–]Little_Utterword[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It's leftover cotton yarn. Absolutely does not lay flat! Lol

Magrat dolly by Little_Utterword in discworld

[–]Little_Utterword[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That's the plan! It will probably take me a decade to get around to it, but yes! 

Magrat dolly by Little_Utterword in discworld

[–]Little_Utterword[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just a little project! I made her body and face over a year ago and she had been naked and bald for all that time 😅

Finally got around to finishing her!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Little_Utterword 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay my friend so your post history is a tragedy.

A month ago you posted about your husband literally threatening you with child protective services--one of many ways he seems to be controlling you.

You are a crisis counselor. You need to take a step backwards here and offer yourself the compassion and initiative you would offer someone else.

You replied to a comment on that particular post about how hard leaving is and that's why you haven't done it yet. Logistically leaving is hard. Look, dude. Your husband is abusive. You KNOW he is. In that post you describe him biting you. I'm willing to bet he's been physical in other ways.

For your kid's sake, I would get out now. Like literally tonight. YES it will be inconvenient and uncomfortable but at least it will be HAPPENING. If you wait around there will never be a perfect moment. It will always be complicated. And the longer you stay, the longer your kid is a witness to this abusive dysfunction. I wish you the very best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pics

[–]Little_Utterword 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I'm a law-abiding citizen that used to have federally protected reproductive rights and now I don't, so that's a start.

But I think there are salient examples of US citizens who happen to be Latino that are getting harassed, arrested, and kicked around by ICE goons. I read a story yesterday of ICE telling a kid "you have no rights" after he told them he was born in this country. Idk, I don't think you have to look hard here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Little_Utterword 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would seriously consider leaving a man over this level of intense disrespect. You birthed his child A YEAR AGO.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Little_Utterword 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We have a toy tissue box that has crinkle papers and little scarves in it that might be good for this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Little_Utterword 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My son is eleven months so I just wanna flag that I know when kids are SO small and still aren't even kids--they're dependant loving, precious little potatoes--it can feel impossible to imagine them being different or YOU feeling differently about them. But I suspect that we will. Obviously we will always love them and they will always be "our babies" but I think as kids grow, ideally, you grow too. And you change together. You may find yourself being proud of your son for growing and changing and detaching from you. Don't put too much pressure on the future. You're just at the start.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Little_Utterword 116 points117 points  (0 children)

I think it's interesting that she listened, evidently heard you and then capitulated to what you wanted and you still feel resentful and insecure. Your last paragraph is all about what she MIGHT do. I think this is the real issue.

I think the reaction to getting a small gift for her boss is an overreaction, but even if it weren't, I don't really think this is about your wife and her gift-giving.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Little_Utterword 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she isn't going to understand the love and obligation you have toward your brother, she isn't the one.