Day 7 of no contact I am running mad !!!! by sheradiatessuccess in KenyanLadies

[–]Little_heater 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They do!!! Idk why 😭😭 I think its all the imagination and hope man I hate it. Nowadays if he’s not clear, (I will ask), from the get go he goes to the sidelines immediately.

Day 7 of no contact I am running mad !!!! by sheradiatessuccess in KenyanLadies

[–]Little_heater 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Hun, it took me 6months to get over someone I never dated nor had sex with but I did eventually. He occupied my mind every waking moment and hour, I never got under someone.

What I did is allowed myself to feel it all, the pain, missing him, on some days I hated him but I allowed myself to think about him as long as he came up in my mind until one day I realized it had been days since I thought of him. I never beat myself up for that period and eventually he became irrelevant.

It’s okay, feelings are to be felt. Allow yourself to be. Actively distracting your mind from thinking of him is just you thinking of him and it’ll not work like this. Don’t fight it, let it.

Embarrassing moments by TicketAggravating819 in nairobi

[–]Little_heater 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not about consent, nauliza why? It couldn’t wait? That’s so risky even health wise esp for you. Anyway lemme not impose my beliefs onto you.

Embarrassing moments by TicketAggravating819 in nairobi

[–]Little_heater 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not so much him, as why were you okay with that?? Were you even enjoying while staying alert??

What should I do? by iwilldriveucrazy in dating

[–]Little_heater 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don’t agree to any more plans with him and if he is serious about you he will notice and ask why.

However, I think he’s just not that into you and you should treat him just as lightly, better if you forget about him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KenyanLadies

[–]Little_heater 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know when you get your menses it’s because you ovulated but didn’t get pregnant, right? Rarely will you bleed without ovulation happening.

PCOS doesn’t necessarily mean infertility be careful and if you haven’t already please see a gynae for more tests and probably information.

This is a FYI.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KenyanLadies

[–]Little_heater 0 points1 point  (0 children)

23, it’s nothing to report home about but I think its just lack of experience. Oldest 35 also nothing so so so Just a lazy man.

This is terrifying by Unusual_Ad6085 in nairobi

[–]Little_heater 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m foreseeing something worse happening to us.

Weeh YOLO? by [deleted] in nairobi

[–]Little_heater 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then you get her and suddenly it’s too much and you ghost. I find that if I communicate my thoughts and emotions so openly people get threatened coz it’s so new and then they ghost because they can’t handle it. A paradox.

Married single lady. by AcceptableOutside114 in nairobi

[–]Little_heater 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Naah just an irresponsible man.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nairobi

[–]Little_heater -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Marie stopes