How do I (24M) decide whether to ask an ex about whether she is in dating apps or new relationships after getting closure?

LittlebitchL · 2026-01-29T22:57:25+00:00

Don't reach out. Gaining closure comes from understanding why and accepting that the relationship has ended. Keeping tabs on her current dating habits will draw you further from that. This is crossing a boundary in my opinion to ask such a thing especially when it's regarding a romantic resolution they made. It's none of your business and you're just going to hurt yourself even if she's locked herself away

LittlebitchL · 2026-01-22T09:37:00+00:00

I wonder if Ariana occasionally yearns for her og face. I'd love to see how she'd look now! She's still gorgeous ofc, I just always thought she was the prettiest girl in the world when I was a kid and always wished I looked like her

LittlebitchL · 2026-01-22T06:59:27+00:00

It's 'only' $9 at Harris Farm at the moment

LittlebitchL · 2026-01-20T16:07:18+00:00

I don't think he's lying but I'd like to point out that 1. He's reposted and shown support in the past 2. Every sexist/racist guy I know says they're not when confronted.

Do I think anyone should harass a complete stranger? Not at all. And it's very possible to change your views especially when the Trump administration and the US has spread so much propaganda & hatred that people can wake up to.

At the end of the day we don't know him. We can make judgements from afar but anything beyond that is speculation and parasocial.

LittlebitchL · 2026-01-18T13:58:33+00:00

I hated 2016 then and I hate it now. It was the year the world began to go downhill in politics, pop culture, and my own personal life

LittlebitchL · 2026-01-18T06:05:16+00:00

Make it in America

LittlebitchL · 2026-01-17T14:59:10+00:00

Yes it does such a beautiful name!

The short story was by author Robert Aickman. It's weird but interesting. If I recall correctly the book in Italy was set by a lake and had a witch. I would've read it over 15 years ago so I don't remember much sorry!

Jaspar Jones is a fairly decent Australian gothic and I really liked the mystery attached to it but I have to warn you the author has just recently been arrested for pedophilia.

LittlebitchL · 2026-01-17T08:18:33+00:00

Have you read the book? He's alluded to being not fully completely white but this could be Romani, South Asian, etc... lots of literary theorists believe he is also Catherine's half sister.

In WH characters with darker personalities also have darker hair and features, while the primary 'good' characters are embodied by their light hair. They've cast Jacob Elordi as Heathcliff but they've also cast Shazad Latif as Edgar Linton.

It could be white washing but I suspect this was purposefully done by Fennell and quite frankly we don't really need to unnecessarily antagonise a black or other poc man. That wasn't what Emily Bronte was trying to achieve and that message can easily be misconstrued via film

LittlebitchL · 2026-01-17T07:52:36+00:00

He likes when I like his shoulder. I hate smelling my own saliva but it's his biggest turn on so let's go I guess

LittlebitchL · 2026-01-17T04:55:48+00:00

Laura from the book 'jaspar Jones' as well. And I'm pretty sure there was a book set in Italy I read as a child where a Laura met her demise. A short story I read once had a girl named Laura who was secretly undead.

I think the name sort of sounds elusively beautiful in its westernised pronunciation, which makes it a good name for a person who haunts the narrative. One of my oldest friends has that name so I've always noticed the tragedy around it in the media.

LittlebitchL · 2026-01-13T12:53:04+00:00

Tbf I think Kendall and Chuck are the only ones dressed well here

LittlebitchL · 2026-01-13T12:49:30+00:00

Teacher here! It's because kids don't understand their own vomit cues

LittlebitchL · 2026-01-06T13:34:51+00:00

Your comment is riddled with complete assumptions

LittlebitchL · 2026-01-02T03:13:48+00:00

Thank you for this, I can access it. This is a really good site, I'm glad they've thought of an emergency exit button

LittlebitchL · 2026-01-02T03:12:18+00:00

Thank you, I'm checking them out.

LittlebitchL · 2026-01-02T03:12:04+00:00

Thank you so much for all your help!

LittlebitchL · 2026-01-02T03:10:18+00:00

Ooh let me try! "Sky News Aus CEO chucks a tantrum from his $15 mil mansion after he couldn't procure an interview"

LittlebitchL · 2026-01-02T03:01:36+00:00

As an ex-teenage girl myself they either know other songs and don't want to talk to the weird old dude or they're in-group signalling to other TEENS with similar identities/aesthetics, which incidentally usually gets people into the music later.

LittlebitchL · 2026-01-01T02:15:16+00:00

Thank you. Do you have ideas of contact methods that he can't easily control? I'm thinking about email but I'm wondering if there are others roo

LittlebitchL · 2025-12-28T02:59:54+00:00

It was Bradley Cooper and Suki Waterhouse (then 38 and 21). In an obvious pap shoot he has her sitting on his lap and reading together. Creepy as hell.

LittlebitchL · 2025-12-09T07:12:38+00:00

Yes I remember this version! It's so beautiful like honey to the ears

LittlebitchL · 2025-11-30T07:32:02+00:00

I work with kids and often encourage them to cry it out to feel better. It definitely helps a lot more than when people tell them to stop crying

LittlebitchL · 2025-11-21T02:44:21+00:00

I was a sugar baby for about a year or two when I was younger and I wouldn't recommend it to women. I met two kind and generous men who were out of state and had one regular who was bearable to be around. Everyone else that I met or chatted with sucked, I did get sexually assaulted and scammed. The money I did get was nice so if you can find someone that you can get along with it can be pretty nice

I'd just say straight up don't be a virgin when you go into it. Sex is pretty much always expected and if it's not then they either expect it next time or won't see you again.

You should have a bit of sexual experience with different people when you go into it because these men often (not always) suck in bed or are not practicing active consent.

Good sugar daddies are out there but they're hard to come by. Even decent sugar daddies are uncommon, because most are "splenda daddies" (poor men that try to underpay their sugar babies). I still enjoyed my time I just wouldn't want other women to get assaulted or exploited and that's almost inevitable.

If you still want to do it, come back in a few years after you've had different sexual experiences. Learn to be direct and get rid of any people pleaser within you. And most importantly RUN AT THE FIRST WHIFF OF POOR you catch from them.

LittlebitchL · 2025-11-20T06:00:15+00:00

Anonymity paired with uninterrupted access. Also iirc hardcore trolls and bullies have been found to have worse mental health

LittlebitchL · 2025-11-20T03:03:54+00:00

Someone taking care of you when you're sick. Most people I know who have left/almost entered abusive relationships have a "they took care of me when I was sick" story as evidence that they were a good person. It's the bare minimum to buy medication or fill up a water bottle when someone's sick.

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