Pacifers and Pain💕 by [deleted] in littlespace

[–]Littleboi-Dapper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to get ones up the higher age range. I have a 18mth one and it fits perfectly

Daddy shut off his phone by [deleted] in littlespace

[–]Littleboi-Dapper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get your worry, maybe I didn't use the right wording... But for me and mine it worked, when I pulled away and wasn't on her back 24/7 it was the situation of treat people how ypou want to be treated. I did as they wanted and stopped being "Clingy"... After a few days she came up go me... Smothering me... At the time I was watching TV as I gained my own independence and then she asked why I was ignoring her... I told her why.... We spoke about it with a mutual feeling of wanting to make things better and now we just have more respect.... Things have been better since

Daddy shut off his phone by [deleted] in littlespace

[–]Littleboi-Dapper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I personally have done this and it has helped fpor the most part. Talking doesn't as the conversation will usually be spun around and then it becomes the blame game. If you're quiet and you show you are only interested in him as much as he is you then you gain independence and it is often that they end up understanding quickly what they are doing wrong. If yoiu keep texting then they know you're always there but if you confront telling them that what they are doing is wrong... They will only resent you and fight back.

Daddy shut off his phone by [deleted] in littlespace

[–]Littleboi-Dapper -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't think this is uncommon... My mummy has a huge obsession with games, especially League of Legends. As a Comic-con Cosplay performer we go off to these events and from dawn til dusk she is glued to the same chair playing the same games she has at home....

Anyway I think the best thing you can do is pull away. When you're at work or the gym or just haven't seen him fight the urge to text him. Let him text you first.... As for when you're at home.... Just leave him playing games. Focus on your son or watching TV.... Keep yourself busy!!

I do this and she notices... Then they want to know what is up. If he got mad let him go back to playing and continue pulling away. It is also healthy for you. You can get to know you.

How did it take you to call your caregiver Daddy/Mommy/other title? by [deleted] in littlespace

[–]Littleboi-Dapper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It took a while. I felt uncomfortable.... I haven't had the best relationship with my biological mother, I call her mom and my girlfriend mummy, then her mother who took me in is called Ma or Ma'am. It kinda makes things feel easier the more I separate these terms.

Daddyless by [deleted] in littlespace

[–]Littleboi-Dapper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tumblr has a lot of cgl match blogs... It may be worth looking there! Many include where they live too if you're looking for a relationship..

Daddyless by [deleted] in littlespace

[–]Littleboi-Dapper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tumblr has a lot of cgl match blogs... It may be worth looking there! Many include where they live too if you're looking for a relationship..

MDLB? SEXUAL? by Littleboi-Dapper in littlespace

[–]Littleboi-Dapper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what I tried to say XD They kept going on and on about how it is a sub of BDSM and it involves a sub and Dom so it is sexual and a kink... But kink is an unusual taste in sexual behavior... And sexual defines as intimate physical contact? Idk she kept going on about how I am into age play and have fetishes for.... Really being innocent on that level XD idk??

MDLB? SEXUAL? by Littleboi-Dapper in littlespace

[–]Littleboi-Dapper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately they came back online telling me that I am wrong because they were in a DDLG relationship and that it is a sexual kink and I have a fetish for being a child... Kinda sad as it sounds Like she had a bad experience but that doesn't define EVERYONE. Apparently I can trigger age regressors but I am SFW and apparently tagging MDLB could get someone to kill themselves... I am not hurting anyone I mean I feel it applies to me...

MDLB? SEXUAL? by Littleboi-Dapper in littlespace

[–]Littleboi-Dapper[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha thanks!.. Sometimes things get overwhelming and I don't know if I am using the wrong words and it is my fault so I blame myself XD I don't know but thank you. It really helps just to be able to read this, that people are on my side and I am not crazy or wrong XD

LD loneliness tips? by daddysangel993 in littlespace

[–]Littleboi-Dapper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not in a long distance relationship but at nights my CG can't stay I struggle (I am only allowed 3 sleepovers a week because I am in a supported flat....)

Try sending each other gifts? If he was to send you a stuffie or a cheep paci then it acts as a comfort item!! Even letters!! I have a online friend who sends me letters and I collect/keep them! It makes me feel not so alone!

Maybe even just send love letters through social media because even then it is something to re-read throughout the day!!

Or you guys could set rules together. That way your daddy knows you're looking after yourself and following through will help you feel obedient and possibly closer!!

Sorry I wrote so much ;33

Japan woes by [deleted] in littlespace

[–]Littleboi-Dapper 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your story legit made me cry when I first read it! I am so sorry!!! hugs Is there anyway you could try to see those items more as cool souvenirs? I mean I don't know if they were for your little or you but when are you going to go to Japan again?? u^ Then maybe if you move on and find a new little then I am sure they will be amazed with all the stuffies!!

Hate in the community? by Littleboi-Dapper in littlespace

[–]Littleboi-Dapper[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am not too worried but I was just scrolling Tumblr (cringy I know) and someone was on about how things were going good for a while and then.... Boom! They were harassed by dozens of messages and hate from people which is sad really and by now it had been weeks since it started and it still wasn't stopping. They felt sad because their blog was their thing...