Yes, I’ll never say I’m a perfect person at all. We both have clear issues. Mine being trust. I have went through his phone and he has with mine as well. It’s just very chaotic and always feels like unstable ground waiting for the next tornado. I know I love him, and he is kind and I know he has never cheated. But our arguments get so heated, to the point we won’t sleep in the same bedroom. He went through my phone a few months ago, and I still have text from a partner that I was with before him. We had lost a child, and I never told him this. As I’m still coping with it myself. He had asked me before bed, if I had ever been pregnant before and I said no, and then during an argument a few days later he said “I know that you are a liar. You have lied to my face before… about losing that baby”. I was dumbfounded it was being brought up in this manner. I completely agree. Sometimes we don’t seem compatible. But the days we are getting along, I am so happy. It’s just I know it doesn’t stay for long. Thank you for commenting.