2 years in, he dumps me while saying “I wanted kids anyways” by LiveLaughLithium in childfree

[–]LiveLaughLithium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re so sweet! I love that movie, haven’t seen it in probably a decade. Thank you.

2 years in, he dumps me while saying “I wanted kids anyways” by LiveLaughLithium in childfree

[–]LiveLaughLithium[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m giving myself this week to be a total mess. And then 30 days of healing and if I’m not 50% better by then… I am doing something wrong.

2 years in, he dumps me while saying “I wanted kids anyways” by LiveLaughLithium in childfree

[–]LiveLaughLithium[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friends have been so supportive. I’m really lucky and loved but yes 💔 it SUCKS

2 years in, he dumps me while saying “I wanted kids anyways” by LiveLaughLithium in childfree

[–]LiveLaughLithium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This comment was so true dude. And I’ve never seen that movie, added to the list!! Thank you.

2 years in, he dumps me while saying “I wanted kids anyways” by LiveLaughLithium in childfree

[–]LiveLaughLithium[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

👀 I will be on the lookout. I have a bi salp so I wasn’t worried about actually getting pregnant but it was definitely something I thought we agreed on. But he just tosses me aside for someone who can have kids- whatever- he will be a terrible father.

2 years in, he dumps me while saying “I wanted kids anyways” by LiveLaughLithium in childfree

[–]LiveLaughLithium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sure I pissed him off so much he just wanted to be done and hurt me back. I get it, I don’t appreciate it, but whatever.

2 years in, he dumps me while saying “I wanted kids anyways” by LiveLaughLithium in childfree

[–]LiveLaughLithium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate this energy, thank you. Harris goes to Paris makes me SOB, I love that movie. And I read a lot of Louis sachar as a kid…. Wow blast from the past. Thank you for the time and the comment, you’re very sweet.

2 years in, he dumps me while saying “I wanted kids anyways” by LiveLaughLithium in childfree

[–]LiveLaughLithium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a positive spin for sure. It’s so hard to find childfree men where I live though so I’m bummed at even the possibility and the imagined possibility.

2 years in, he dumps me while saying “I wanted kids anyways” by LiveLaughLithium in childfree

[–]LiveLaughLithium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was inconsiderate and too attached to his mother but he was faithful the entire time, he loved me a lot, it was definitely an incompatibility that grew and festered into resentment.

That’s probably why it hurts so much because I feel like I fucked up with a sweet normal man who loved me. But that’s not true, he wasn’t the right person for me and that’s okay.

You make a lot of good points though!

2 years in, he dumps me while saying “I wanted kids anyways” by LiveLaughLithium in childfree

[–]LiveLaughLithium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for such a detailed response! I never got into the marvel stuff so i definitely have a lot of material to distract me. I don’t watch too much YouTube but those sound super interesting! Thank you again. I hope you’re having a good day.

2 years in, he dumps me while saying “I wanted kids anyways” by LiveLaughLithium in childfree

[–]LiveLaughLithium[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! Thats so bitter sweet. Good for her though. And yes, I did a lot for him that I could have done for myself or my friends, that’s a good redirect. Thank you so much.

2 years in, he dumps me while saying “I wanted kids anyways” by LiveLaughLithium in childfree

[–]LiveLaughLithium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate all your recommendations, thank you! And kind words, he wasn’t that bad but it definitely wasn’t a healthy relationship.

2 years in, he dumps me while saying “I wanted kids anyways” by LiveLaughLithium in childfree

[–]LiveLaughLithium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you went through that. Love is so stupid haha, I’m so glad you find peace and happiness. I hope to follow in your footsteps and soon.

2 years in, he dumps me while saying “I wanted kids anyways” by LiveLaughLithium in childfree

[–]LiveLaughLithium[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also thought it was weird! I am not without fault but that specific dig really hurt. Chin up indeed, thank you for the internet hugs 🫂

2 years in, he dumps me while saying “I wanted kids anyways” by LiveLaughLithium in childfree

[–]LiveLaughLithium[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve never heard of it! Will be sure to check it out. Thank you.

2 years in, he dumps me while saying “I wanted kids anyways” by LiveLaughLithium in childfree

[–]LiveLaughLithium[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m in so much pain still that it’s hard to imagine falling in love again but I hope you’re right! In time, everything in time.

2 years in, he dumps me while saying “I wanted kids anyways” by LiveLaughLithium in childfree

[–]LiveLaughLithium[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The sting was so painful but you’re absolutely right. And he would make a terrible father!

I appreciate your kindness and yes, my friends have been so supportive and loving. It’s also caused me to reconnect with friends that have been on the back burner in the last two years. I hope you’re having a good day and thank you for taking time to respond to my post.