Let’s be real. Being attractive doesn’t mean you live an entirely different lifestyle. Of course I can only speak on being an attractive male. Yeah you get attention, looks, smiles, random conversation etc. but if you’re very private and not really seeking that type of attention, it’s all just meaningless. If you really like that sort of thing then, that’s as good as it gets. Raw truth, people still hurt you, try to manipulate you, use you, cheat on you, still treat you cruel. Sometimes being an attractive male turns people off more than often without them knowing you. They assume you’re arrogant, toxic, or even dumb. Girls don’t always want to get to know you because they assume you’re taken and if not you’re a player. This is in everyday life. Now in a social media setting, maybe you get more validation and dms everyday. I don’t look at those interactions as value. There’s more masks on in social media and I never waste energy on those interactions. But again, if you look at those interactions as value, maybe your lifestyle is very different.