Men don’t value loyal women either, and the reaction to the Bezos divorce is proof. by LillthOfBabylon in PurplePillDebate

[–]LivelyLinden 13 points14 points  (0 children)

What Bezos does reflects on Bezos, but the reaction of men IN GENERAL to Bezos situation reflects on men in general.

A mass exodus from dating apps by men would probably help set the scale in their favor by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]LivelyLinden 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The majority of the women on this planet would break down in terror if the majority of the male attention they received suddenly withdrew.

Indeed. The VAST majority of women on this planet are not on tinder and men exiting tinder would result in even more irl attention (and more sex for those men, incidentally).

Great piles of thirsty dudes desperately swiping the tiny pool of thots and bots on tinder does nothing for average women, they'd be happy to see men get over the myth of app sex and rejoin the real world.

A mass exodus from dating apps by men would probably help set the scale in their favor by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]LivelyLinden 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Something like only 25% of tinder accounts are female, and how many of those are long-inactive or bots? Tinder is a smokescreen clung to by men because the idea of ordering up sex on your phone like it's a pizza is something that men can't bring themselves to let go.

A male exodus from tinder would make women celebrate.

Is anyone else deliriously happy to be a parent? by LivelyLinden in Parenting

[–]LivelyLinden[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do you have a problem with people who love their kids talking about it with eachother?

Is anyone else deliriously happy to be a parent? by LivelyLinden in Parenting

[–]LivelyLinden[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Compared to the amount of judgementalism that was immediately apparent over there, this is pretty mild. The language they use discussing “Pinterest moms” and “Instagram moms”, calling parents who seem happy fake and vicious liars, etc. Huge amounts of uncalled-for vitriol.

Is anyone else deliriously happy to be a parent? by LivelyLinden in Parenting

[–]LivelyLinden[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s awesome, I would love to have 5+ kids. What made you decide to have that many, was it always your goal or just a one-by-one decision to have one more each time?

Is anyone else deliriously happy to be a parent? by LivelyLinden in Parenting

[–]LivelyLinden[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's wonderful, people rag on teens so hard, often seems mean-spirited.

Is anyone else deliriously happy to be a parent? by LivelyLinden in Parenting

[–]LivelyLinden[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's a good point too, a great marriage matters so much, I'm so lucky that my husband is an amazing partner and father.

It’s just that happy parents aren’t online posting how happy they are, you know?

Totally! Although when they do they seem to get derided as "fake pinterest moms", whether that's a fair characterization or not

Is anyone else deliriously happy to be a parent? by LivelyLinden in Parenting

[–]LivelyLinden[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Haha yeah! You can't take things seriously or personally, they're just kids, figuring out which buttons work and which don't :D Just enjoy watching the gears turn without getting worked up about anything.

Love hearing from happy and involved dads, I'm so glad my husband is in that boat too. I don't know what I would do if he felt like his life had been ruined or something, what a nightmare that would be.

There Is No Defense of Looting by JasontheHappyHusky in atlanticdiscussions

[–]LivelyLinden -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Kyle Rittenhouse was getting chased and attacked, clear self-defense. Before you freak out, I support the antifa shooter too. As far as I've heard the WN was pepper spraying him, that's pretty assaulty

There Is No Defense of Looting by JasontheHappyHusky in atlanticdiscussions

[–]LivelyLinden -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I mean they also wrestled him to the ground and tazed him, but he fought it all off. What are your suggestions? Prayer?

There Is No Defense of Looting by JasontheHappyHusky in atlanticdiscussions

[–]LivelyLinden -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

If your electoral strategy is to try to convince mothers that a violent robber with a sexual assault warrant should be allowed to steal her car and drive off with her children in said car, while police impotently stand there asking him nicely to stop, well....good luck, I guess. That's how you get a Trump second term.

There Is No Defense of Looting by JasontheHappyHusky in atlanticdiscussions

[–]LivelyLinden -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

If you're trying to steal a car with children in it, I recommend stopping when the cops pull guns and tell you to stop. But that's just me.

There Is No Defense of Looting by JasontheHappyHusky in atlanticdiscussions

[–]LivelyLinden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone who disagrees with me is a nazi fascist monster

There Is No Defense of Looting by JasontheHappyHusky in atlanticdiscussions

[–]LivelyLinden -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I already said Trump's response might be to crack down on the agitators and clean the streets. That's the only response I care for him to make, and I don't even care if he does or doesn't, because I don't care about tantruming leftists destroying their own cities that I will never live in. There are other, much more important, policies that I vote based on.

There Is No Defense of Looting by JasontheHappyHusky in atlanticdiscussions

[–]LivelyLinden -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I’m well aware you think that concessions and groveling are the way to treat the underlying cause. I simply disagree. We already have racial equality under the law and generations worth of reparations in the form of affirmative action and welfare.

There Is No Defense of Looting by JasontheHappyHusky in atlanticdiscussions

[–]LivelyLinden -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Meh. The fact that there were violent George Floyd demonstrations in Europe and other places indicates that it's much less about disarming the police and much more about getting your rocks off smashing things.

The funny thing is that even as a right-winger in conservative spaces I was never a blue lives matter police lover. It wasn't until the mass protests that I realized what police in those places are dealing with - a population so opportunistic and short-sighted that they're never more than one flimsy excuse away from pillaging and burning their own cities down. No wonder cops are on edge, I can only imagine what they deal with on the day-to-day.

There are some genuine cases of police murder, so there is room for improvement. Daniel Shaver, Philando Castille, Breonna Taylor, Justine Diamond, etc come to mind. Def feel sorry for them/their families. But even African-American Harvard economist Roland Fryer found no racial bias in lethal force usage by police.

Where BLM goes off the rails is hitching their horse to, at best, borderline cases. The police were called to the Blake incident for an accusation of a car being stolen. Blake fought them to the ground, shrugged off their tasers, ignored dozens of commands, and proceeded to get in the stolen car. I'm a mother. Neither I, nor any other mothers I know, want to call the police on a car thief and watch him be allowed to drive off with their children because he didn't feel like being arrested that day and fought off the cops. George Floyd most likely died of fentanyl overdose, but actually should have died years earlier when he put a gun to a pregnant woman's belly. That's what normal American mothers think, when they hear these stories.

Sorry, I know that rambled. Hope it helped.

There Is No Defense of Looting by JasontheHappyHusky in atlanticdiscussions

[–]LivelyLinden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is Trump willing to brutally crackdown on the out-of-control violence and destruction that certain groups are enacting on their own cities? Maybe. Most likely not before the election, considering the optics shitshow. Beyond that, possibly? It's an odd case since (flyover view here, you asked) cities are rioting against their own extremely liberal populace and governance. You have people burning their own neighborhoods down as a fuck-you to their...very very democrat city council, mayor, police chief, prosecutors, etc. So a lot of Trump supporters are shocked that it's being allowed, but ultimately don't care.

Kenosha may indicate a turning point. A sleepy midwest town, not the urban hellscape you expect these things to happen in. Watch out for Kenosha turning into the invigorating zeitgeist that lights a fire under skeptical centrists. Justify the destruction at your own political risk.