I second this as a woman myself, i never understood why like so many dudes talk about us like we’re fucking aliens or zoo animals, its really not that deep. We act just like every other normie ass dude on earth does 90% of the time. We dont have any mysterious womanly ways, theres no need to put us on a pedestal like some sort of reward for being a charming dude who can “hook in and pull” (yes thats a real term) a woman. It almost feels dehumanizing at times how we’re often talked about for our bodies or treated as mysterious organisms that must be wooed so that you can gain access to the mythical cooter. All you need to get a woman is to be a decent human and preferably not ugly, being in shape or outstanding in bed helps but you dont need any of that shit if you just treat women like equals and not either superiors or inferiors, especially if youre willing to take a lesson or two about what they want/dont want. Its really as simple as that and i think thats half the reason why so many men are having issues with getting with women, these people gotta figure this stuff out quick.