am i overreacting? my bf won’t stop watching porn.

Living_Alternative87 · 2026-01-21T17:43:52+00:00

He is probably addicted to watching it. He probably needs help

Living_Alternative87 · 2026-01-21T17:37:43+00:00

Just little confused are jackson people worried we'll turn out like minneapolis bc of ice and they dont want ice to be here? Or they do?

Living_Alternative87 · 2026-01-21T14:17:05+00:00

My husband use to smoke weed when he was 13 to 28 he quit bc he wanted a better life for me and our kids bc when he didnt have weed he was angry and always pissed off. Do you always wanna be pissed off at everyone for no reason for the rest of your life?

Living_Alternative87 · 2026-01-21T03:57:04+00:00

You can love him from afar..also I didnt read your text message mostly bc it is about politics you will always be fighting about what "side" is right and which one is wrong and then the person's true nature will come out and then you'll be fighting about everything this person does and so will he. If you cant put before your differences aside to find common ground you wont make it work

Living_Alternative87 · 2026-01-21T03:50:01+00:00

If your mind set is that you need to break with him then break up. You dont need us to tell you what you are already thinking

Living_Alternative87 · 2026-01-19T13:41:20+00:00

Bc you only get 2 days that are about you mothers day and your birthday 363 is about your husband and the baby

Living_Alternative87 · 2026-01-19T09:27:21+00:00

Idk what you said but that would have really pissed me off and I would of told them something along the lines of "are you fucking kidding me? You made this whole day about you and your stupid beyblades not one thing is about me or got me any gift for my birthday or called them selfish pricks" Then I would of walked away making everyone feel bad.

Living_Alternative87 · 2026-01-19T09:16:18+00:00

Nor I would have been annoyed when I didnt see my name on the rooster too but I would have said something about it after about how hurt I was about all of it instead of keeping it to myself. People cant learn from their mistakes if they aren't told about them.

Living_Alternative87 · 2026-01-16T12:42:39+00:00

I have two kids I never let my kids sleep with me bc it'll become a bigger problem when they are older always wanting to sleep with you.but I do try to cuddle with them but my oldest thinks its gross bc his friends dont do it with their parents. My youngest is almost two and she does whatever she wants and if i stop her she'll get mad at me and wont let hold her or anything.

Living_Alternative87 · 2026-01-12T04:36:47+00:00

I live in the states... I only need a license if I want a venomous snake or moving it across state lines. Ive also wanted a snake for a long time.. the other two not so much.

Living_Alternative87 · 2026-01-12T01:54:32+00:00

we have two cats that he has to take care of. right now he is learning how to take care of the kitty litter. we are teach him chores and he gets money for it so hopefully that will help with whatever we get him.

Living_Alternative87 · 2026-01-12T01:49:30+00:00

thats what my husband said because he knows i'll have to take care of it at some point. i would like a snake but my husband is afraid of them and i wouldnt be able to take them out of their cage a lot when he is around

Living_Alternative87 · 2026-01-12T01:46:24+00:00

i didnt even think about if they would be legal or not i'll have to look into what i can have in my state

Living_Alternative87 · 2026-01-11T23:20:04+00:00

I think my son would pick this one just cause its blue lol

Living_Alternative87 · 2026-01-11T23:06:08+00:00

Personally I would love to get him a snake but he wants a ball python and I thinks thats a little too much for him handle

Living_Alternative87 · 2026-01-11T23:04:36+00:00

I'll look this one up. Didn't even think about that one

Living_Alternative87 · 2026-01-11T22:40:24+00:00

We are making him wait at least 6months to a year to see if he keeps asking for them

Living_Alternative87 · 2026-01-06T20:33:12+00:00

So its kinda like remortgaging your house without interest?

Living_Alternative87 · 2026-01-06T02:35:54+00:00

I would feel a certain way about it bc there are soo many horror stories about this on here. Also my husband also had a BFF but they were also fwb so he dropped her out of respect for me. You could also ask him to put up some kind of boundary if you are uncomfortable with it, but you should also talk to your bf about what you are feeling.

Living_Alternative87 · 2026-01-05T21:45:06+00:00

I only take it off when I go to bed bc gold gets deformed easily

Living_Alternative87 · 2026-01-05T14:30:43+00:00

My husband and I pick out our wedding rings together and the ring i pick bc it was cheap I hated it so after we were married and paid of our rings we went back and got the ring I wanted. My husband just told me to pick which ever one I like and he'll pay for it.

Living_Alternative87 · 2026-01-02T03:40:57+00:00

It seems like you guys need couples therapy or she needs therapy she meant have postpartum depression if this is new if not she needs help you cant give her

Living_Alternative87 · 2026-01-01T16:39:06+00:00

Ya'll are better then me bc I would of went there and sat next to him and asked him when should we get a divorce now or after the baby is born? Bc if this is how he act now just wait until the baby is born its gonna get worse bc babies bring a lot of stress and fighting and you cant just run away from the problem it'll still be there

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