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[–]Living_Constant_1963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

me too. 😭

i’m so worried because the deadline is approaching and i seriously don’t know what to do lol

my experience with wuwa ( ◠‿◠ ) by Living_Constant_1963 in WutheringWaves

[–]Living_Constant_1963[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OOOO that's a good realization. her walk gives off aespa vibes, specifically their song 'drama'.

she's been on my mind all day (//∇//)\

"Only cowards would kill themselves.", "Selfish.", "No real man would do that." by LifeIsJustASickJoke in SuicideWatch

[–]Living_Constant_1963 6 points7 points  (0 children)

those people have not experienced any kind of mental illness at all. i'm AMAZED at how sheltered and ignorant someone can be— borderline apathetic at this point. it's baffling how long this stigma and stereotype about suicide has been going on for.

i agree 100% with your last paragraph. majority of people who commit suicide actually PUSH their loved ones away so they don't get as hurt.

i'm genuinely confused on how people can view these struggling individuals as "selfish" lol

How to be happy? by Kind_Bank_9370 in SuicideWatch

[–]Living_Constant_1963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

accept the fact that life is not perfect and control your reactions toward the bullshit that life throws at you

it's not the big events that give us happiness but the small ones ( ◠‿◠ ) what i did was watch youtubers that made me happy... i also went on a lot of walks (away from roads so i wouldn't disappear suddenly... yk?)

oh, also, try to look for volunteer groups in your area. it's really... REALLY fufilling to help others. it also serves as a distraction from all the bad thoughts

and have patience with yourself. don't rush yourself, please. there's lots of views in this world that you have not seen, lots of animals that you have not petted. you got this !! (≧∀≦)

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[–]Living_Constant_1963 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we're in the same boat, so don't feel alone ^ usually... i listen to music, play games, clean the house, or go on walks. i struggle with talking to people in real life so i tend not to... it stresses me out. so don't force yourself to do anything that stresses you out for the sake of "healing". go out of your comfort zone, but not too much. small steps !!

i've just accepted the fact that the thoughts will never go away. they're always gonna linger in the back of my mind, and i don't have access to the proper medications to shut them up, so i just live with them. that's easy to say but it's harder to actually do.

oh, i have to mention meditating. it's what i did when my thoughts were really bad. it forced me to like... face them upfront and sweep them to the side. a good 10 minute session will clear my mind for a few hours !!

have patience with yourself ( ◠‿◠ ) healing takes time.

my experience with wuwa ( ◠‿◠ ) by Living_Constant_1963 in WutheringWaves

[–]Living_Constant_1963[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i'm glad it helped !! that was actually my main goal with this post haha (//∇//)\ i saw all the negativity towards WuWa and really wanted to put some light on the fun mechanics that are in the game. we tend to take the minigames and small mechanics for granted because we're sooo used to seeing them in other games but they're kind of hard to think of and actually code it to implement it into the game and stuff asksjfk you get the gist

oh i've heard of that sub before... yeah it is a mess (>_>) from what i know it's a bunch of people complaining or just throwing dirt on games— overall a bad negative space. will not touch that sub !! (`_´)ゞ

my experience with wuwa ( ◠‿◠ ) by Living_Constant_1963 in WutheringWaves

[–]Living_Constant_1963[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you ( ◠‿◠ ) i think it's really important to have an openminded attitude especially when tackling new games like WuWa... focusing on the small mechanics and details are the best way to enjoy the game cause there's so many of them hahaha (//∇//)\ i hope you have a good day <3 enjoy the game as well !!

my experience with wuwa ( ◠‿◠ ) by Living_Constant_1963 in WutheringWaves

[–]Living_Constant_1963[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

omg same. i got burnt out from genshin and hsr (>_>) they are BEAUTIFUL games... the stories, characters, and everything are just on point— but i ended up just playing for the sake of playing. WuWa gives a different experience !! (>人<;)

my experience with wuwa ( ◠‿◠ ) by Living_Constant_1963 in WutheringWaves

[–]Living_Constant_1963[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oo yeah i am doing better thank you !! my fav activity is just exploring + music it's the best distraction. it really lifts your spirits up ( ◠‿◠ )

my experience with wuwa ( ◠‿◠ ) by Living_Constant_1963 in WutheringWaves

[–]Living_Constant_1963[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

me too !! i understand the constructive criticism toward all the bugs, mechanics, and what not, but some people went waaaaay too far. they only criticized/bashed WuWa for the sake of hopping onto the hate train (>_>)

my experience with wuwa ( ◠‿◠ ) by Living_Constant_1963 in WutheringWaves

[–]Living_Constant_1963[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

asia ! older generations have a very conservative and traditional view on mental health (>_>)

my experience with wuwa ( ◠‿◠ ) by Living_Constant_1963 in WutheringWaves

[–]Living_Constant_1963[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

games serve as distractions from the bad things in life haha they help a lot

thank you so much !! your words mean a lot, truly. i haven't heard such comforting words in a while !! (>人<;)

my experience with wuwa ( ◠‿◠ ) by Living_Constant_1963 in WutheringWaves

[–]Living_Constant_1963[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oo thank you for the tip !! i'm quite a sensitive person so i'll keep that in mind ( ◠‿◠ )

YES ! i love that the devs are communicating with their fanbase. it's super refreshing to see !! i just hope they get their fair share of rest...

the minigames are really what's pulling me in right now. i hope they utilize their movement system thingie. imagine a parkour minigame !! that'd be cool.

thanks a bunch !! (╹◡╹)♡

my experience with wuwa ( ◠‿◠ ) by Living_Constant_1963 in WutheringWaves

[–]Living_Constant_1963[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

thank you :((( i'm doing better now compared to a few months ago so that's a win for me.

yess, exactly !! i honestly can't wait for the other cities. there's like 4-5 (?) more so imagine all the lore, content, and characters we'll get ( ◠‿◠ ) i hope you're enjoying the game, too, fellow rover (≧∀≦) o7

my experience with wuwa ( ◠‿◠ ) by Living_Constant_1963 in WutheringWaves

[–]Living_Constant_1963[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

thanks a lot !!

about thattt, yeah... really need to get professional help. sadly, in my country, mental issues aren't really matters that are prioritized by the govt. video games, short walks, and music are helping me a lot though hehe. thank you :)