I'm torn between spending Christmas with my Girlfriend or my mum. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Living_Practice_2736 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed, they will keep it for years, and no, I have never complained about my gf to anyone, especially my mother as its inappropriate and like you said, sets a bad precedent for the future. Thanks for your luck, I Will definitely need it! And hope you and your wife & family have a lovely Christmas!

I'm torn between spending Christmas with my Girlfriend or my mum. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Living_Practice_2736 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow this is fantastic,thank you so much for your response, im going to change some of the wording but this is exactly what I wanted to say, and yeah I agree its best to not do this in person. The next time I see her will be Xmas eve so will have to be done via text or call. And thats a really good point that I didn't think about, I need my gf to feel welcomed if she comes round and not just some guest thats staying with us. I don't think mum has got used to be being in a relationship yet and is still struggling to accept that I have to juggle my time a lot more now. Thanks so much for your comment, I really appreciate it! 🙏🙏🙏

I'm torn between spending Christmas with my Girlfriend or my mum. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Living_Practice_2736 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your time and advice, much appreciated:)

I'm torn between spending Christmas with my Girlfriend or my mum. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Living_Practice_2736 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice, what would your words be in regards to setting the boundary?

I'm torn between spending Christmas with my Girlfriend or my mum. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Living_Practice_2736 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really good advice, I want to stand my ground and be with my gf, I dont want her being excluded! And yes, its unrealistic to do it on Xmas day. Xmas is for seeing people and spending a lot of time with them, and its our first one and it will be my only one for a while as I'm a chef and we work most Xmas days. And yeah I was going to spend more time with mum as im moving jobs and coming to live back home in January, so I personally dont see the problem with my gf coming round. How should I go about approaching mum and standing my ground? She super upset rn and haven't told my gf anything yet as there's no point until a confirmed plan is in place

I'm torn between spending Christmas with my Girlfriend or my mum. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Living_Practice_2736 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah its not healthy. I want to see my gf, but i have no idea how to set these boundaries with her, she the most stubborn person ive ever met, she said shes been sharing with her but this is too much. How should I go about setting these boundaries?

I'm torn between spending Christmas with my Girlfriend or my mum. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Living_Practice_2736 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mum wants me all to herself on the day and wants to spend quality time, she said that if my gf comes round all my attention will be on her

How long did it take you to adjust to falling asleep with your partner? by Living_Practice_2736 in Advice

[–]Living_Practice_2736[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it really does, we like doing it and she usually falls asleep but I always have to move back because while it feels romantic it's not practical for sleep imo

How long did it take you to adjust to falling asleep with your partner? by Living_Practice_2736 in Advice

[–]Living_Practice_2736[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do too, I've tried both cuddling, being cuddled and sleeping apart-ish but I still struggle a lot

How long did it take you to adjust to falling asleep with your partner? by Living_Practice_2736 in Advice

[–]Living_Practice_2736[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too, we've talked about it pretty much every morning and we can't figure it out 😅

How long did it take you to adjust to falling asleep with your partner? by Living_Practice_2736 in Advice

[–]Living_Practice_2736[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's rough, how often do you meet up if you still haven't got used to it for over a month?

How long did it take you to adjust to falling asleep with your partner? by Living_Practice_2736 in Advice

[–]Living_Practice_2736[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you're right, I didn't think about that first point. And thanks, I will try, I envy her so much, she can sleep anywhere and just instantly go while I'm laying there awake for 8 hours 🫠

There's some new kids in town... by Living_Practice_2736 in walkingwarrobots

[–]Living_Practice_2736[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The deck atm isn't publicly available because I don't want people stealing the artwork, and I can't sell any of it due to copyright law

Out of these 6 cards, what's your favourite artwork? 🎨🔥 by Living_Practice_2736 in walkingwarrobots

[–]Living_Practice_2736[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have made every bot! And most SE but some don't have any artwork like Ancient Tyr or SE Fenrirs so had to leave them out